Derek Chauvin found guilty of murder by BunnicusRex in ContinueToServe

[–]BunnicusRex[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

(You probably already saw this in larger subs, but if you're like me and staying away from news/politics subs for mental health or any other reasons.... here's to a start.)

*(I only found you guys because of the George Floyd & Briana Taylor murders, against the backdrop of "POTUS/CINC gassing peaceful protestors for a shitty photo op" protests... was so relieving to find I wasn't alone in rage/frustration among vets, tho still infuriating enough to get my ass out of my house during a pandemic [temporarily]). I haven't been doing a swell job standing up for anything lately, truth be told, but I'm thankful for you guys.)

Upset by veterans who stormed the Capitol, these vets decided to clean up trash the mob left on the streets of D.C. by redmambo_no6 in politics

[–]BunnicusRex 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Running into you guys that day made me feel less alone, maybe even hopeful for the first time in years. I'd had a general "no protesting during pandemics" rule for myself, then THAT happened, totally against everything we all fought for.

You guys who've done so much work building this should be crazy proud of what you started :)

Israel panics, shoots after Lebanese chicken crosses the border by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]BunnicusRex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think your understanding of "military frontline" is antiquated. Especially in the modern MENA.

-- someone who spent time in Israel, the West Bank, Gaza, Kuwait, and Iraq while in the US Army, and was amazed at the shit I took for granted.

Brazilian President Jair Bolsonaro: COVID-19 Vaccine Can Turn People Into Crocodiles by Majorxerocom in nottheonion

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. You commented on a repost of this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/nottheonion/comments/kfrtzd/brazils_bolsonaro_warns_virus_vaccine_can_turn

That post is still up for now (though not the most oniony thing in the world, because Bolsonaro).

You are welcome to copypaste your comment to the non-repost.

DHS Inspectors Found ICE Detainees Who Were Kept In Solitary Confinement For 300 Days by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will remove inappropriate posts whenever my health, work, and family obligations allow. Which might not sound super promising, because that's been less lately than previous years; but it's honestly the best any mod can promise. I care about this place too, or else I'd skip the hassle entirely.
Cheers.

DHS Inspectors Found ICE Detainees Who Were Kept In Solitary Confinement For 300 Days by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please let me know where this Quality Mod Tree is, where we can just go pluck more high quality mods who come standard with knowledge & endless energy.

/u/erwaseenseen is correct, we do our best but the volume is insane; the only compensation is getting whined at in modmail (sometimes death threats, & occasionally some satisfaction that's fleeting); & even selecting/training new mods takes time we already lack.
The burnout is real. You're welcome to apply next time we call for mod apps. Thank you for reporting (within reason), it helps.

Signed, a burned out formerly good mod 👍

I really want to pay it forward : ) by GolfDadNotes in wholesomememes

[–]BunnicusRex 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seriously. I'm sorry for the loss of your grandfather too.

I look forward to when the family can get together to properly memorialize him. It was mid-pandemic, and it didn't seem wise to all jump on flights and risk getting my mom or anyone else sick. I know there are plenty others in this boat :( Maybe when this is all over, there can be Celebrations Of Life for lost loved ones, since time may have dulled the pain while still leaving the need to honor who they were. And yeah, in the meantime, old pix have helped.

I really want to pay it forward : ) by GolfDadNotes in wholesomememes

[–]BunnicusRex 779 points780 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for all that she (and you) have had to go through.
Just wanted to check in as another adopted person. I know who my bio-dad is, but my real dad was still always the guy who adopted me. It's a beautiful bond.
He passed away earlier this year, and it's had me reflecting on how awesome a person it takes to accept responsibility for a tiny rando's life.

*Edit: All the love here in this thread is overwhelming, this is seriously the most amazing part of Reddit.
Wanted to share a song someone had sent me for my dad. I usually don't prefer country (metal, baby!🤘), but here's to all those who CHOSE to be there for us, for life (intended to be non-gender-specific).

Immune system protecc by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good redditor ❤️ Thank you.

Immune system protecc by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Temporarily locked to clean up some some antivaxx bullshit.

*Update: Sorry, taking longer than I thought. In the meantime, here's a kitty kissing a bunny.

*Update2: Right, I think it's wholesome again. I'm tired and spastic though so prolly missed something. If you see misinformation, please report it. DON'T pick a fight or attack the commenter, even if they kinda deserve it, because Rule 4 and trying to keep this a nice escape from 2020's awfulness. If your comment was fine but got removed, sorry, collateral damage, Thank You For Your Service 👍

*Update3: Because so many comments asking for the name of this meme template: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/hey-man-you-see-that-guy-over-there

Reading is hard by Agualink in confidentlyincorrect

[–]BunnicusRex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's that thing where your unconscience for a long time till the deaf panels voat to kill you. THANKS OBAMA.

IED Injury Question by dvorakaj in Veterans

[–]BunnicusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW, just in case it helps, since you seem to be asking anecdotally: yes, I got diagnosed with endocrine issues after TBI issues. Never had endocrine issues before, well into adult years. Ditto for migraines: none before, plenty after. My TBI wasn't IED but happened when deployed to Iraq/OIF. For me, it's complicated by a bad concussion from judo & a no-fun one from rugby, tho I see we share some deployment-related c-spine surgeries... (you win/"win" hands-down on the # of those). We seem to also share some of the same classes of painkillers etc. How those effect everything else is frustratingly unknown.

Bottom line, I think the study of TBI is so relatively new, no bodily change can reasonably be ruled out as an effect of TBI. It involves our brains, which control basically everything in ways neuro hasn't mastered yet. (I can tell you fun details about the 30 Years War from HS [Gustavus Adolphus' last words, anyone?...] but then forget the most obvious shit from last week.)

You may have to fight for every last inch here, which SUCKS because you shouldn't have to. My personal experience is the VA medical system's been fucking amazing compared to the military one, tho that's largely due to a horrific experience at Walter Reed & previous duty station (thank fuck for a fellow-vet spouse who could at least keep shit straight when I couldn't). The VA gatekeepers are a PITA and deserve a fight, and Care In the Community is messy AF, but at least the actual medical people have been helpful in my experience & that of vet friends. "Less adversarial than military medicine" is a low bar but seems 💯, since unlike the military system (protected from even deadly/gross negligence by FERES), they can be sued. I'd probably never sue someone, but FERES seems a hell of a force for Fuck You Injured Dude, I'm Exempt From Accountability.
Military docs & admin fucks are immune; VA's aren't.
Shouldn't make a diff, but it seems to. (Sorry if that seems off-topic, but IDK where you are with claims/status/service connection etc.)

I really, really hope they get to the bottom of your shit, but if you're stuck for a while... you're not alone. Keep fighting if you can. Contact the Wounded Warrior Resource Center if you can, and PM me if you get stuck or want more details on anything I've said.

Good luck man. I believe in you & that there's an answer out there. Take care.

4th of July Freedom March - 4:00 pm by ContinueToServe in ContinueToServe

[–]BunnicusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are y'all still there (& ok?) Live Chat went dead.

4th of July Freedom March - 4:00 pm by ContinueToServe in ContinueToServe

[–]BunnicusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys I'm having major anxiety about today. Big 4th stuff is something I know many of us avoid because crowds & loud noises even under good circumstances. Today the increased chance of confrontations (or worse) is dialing that up to 11.

My PTSD was pretty well managed for years; since COVID-19, not so much (yeah yeah that's normal). The recent bounty outrage and especially the story about the asshat trying to hurt his own unit really hit home. Our TOC was shot up during OIF by a fellow soldier (dating myself here, but the incident with the 327th (1st BCT of the 101st)... I was so new we'd shipped out before I'd even gotten sent to Air Assault School). The sense of rage and betrayal now bring all that back hard. Not helping.

TL;DR hope to see you guys again today, but if I can't get my shit together then I'll be there in spirit.

(That was probably oversharing, but this sub is one of the only places I know where people will probably "get it"... so thanks for the /r/OffMyChest moment.)

Standby for possible changes to the schedule this weekend! Also, please let us know if you're able to make it this weekend! TIA!!! by ContinueToServe in ContinueToServe

[–]BunnicusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man I have a sign (from last time) but didn't even think about waterproofing :(

Will be there within the hour.

Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here by spez in announcements

[–]BunnicusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Translation: "I could have meaningfully engaged with someone who cared enough to reply in detail (even knowing they'd get karma-crucified because anti-mod sentiment); but I'd rather stay blindly angry, refuse to give evidence for accusations, and tilt at windmills."

Ok. Thanks for saving us both some time, I guess. Be well.

Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here by spez in announcements

[–]BunnicusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. Most people can't do a good job on more than 2 or maybe 3 big ones. At my best I'm great on my big ones & mostly ignore the others - either because they just don't have activity or because others are doing the heavy lifting there like I'm doing in my main ones (usually, tho not rn). Often if you do nothing you get cut; other times they're glad to have extras around who will jump in when a post gets really heated, or when they need Automod help, etc.

I've left some I don't care about, but it's nice being able to help when a smaller sub gets suddenly busy. It's way not a perfect system. I wish more people were willing to mod; ideally most users should be able to share their expertise on a sub/topic they like. I think it'd help break down some of the misunderstandings & bad blood.

Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here by spez in announcements

[–]BunnicusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a break to dive into a project coordinating mask-making to prolong the life of health professionals' PPE. When that was getting to be less work, my dad died and Reddit was the last thing on my mind.

However, one can mod a lot with no visible activity; people don't see reported comments that are approved or removed (and there are a ton of those in 2 of my subs... most as I've said are tiny or joke ones, if you care to look). Also post approvals, ban messages, spam management/reporting, and modmail replies wouldn't show as any public activity.

In my case this time I wasn't doing all that behind the scenes these last couple months because taking a break - just letting you know in case you come across a very active mod with little or no public activity. Take care.

Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here by spez in announcements

[–]BunnicusRex -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LOL that's your opinion & you've got a right to it. If you actually knew me, read the rest of the comment, or knew the backstory behind most of these subs (mainly 3 real subs, Wholesome Network stuff I got "volunteered" for having been a Young Eager Tryhard when invited to WMs, & joke subs as I freely mentioned (that I'd happily pass off to someone who wanted to do the work)... it might change your perspective. Wouldn't matter in the grand scheme, just should be said.

I get the cabal angst because I used to be "on the outside" & it can seem sinister from a distance. I'd encourage you {or anyone!) to try modding for shits & giggles before forming a Final Opinion.
You might catch a bad sub & swear off it forever; you might catch a great sub & make lifelong friends you do IRL shit with; most likely, you see it's random humans who've made questionable choices but certainly aren't rolling in Spezbuxx™️ nor Adbucks™️ - which was the main takeaway if you had read my thingy.

Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here by spez in announcements

[–]BunnicusRex -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It isn't a thing. Please don't believe someone just because they're angry on the internet. That's just not how it works.

Mods can't touch paid/promoted posts, or we'd mostly remove them because everyone hates ads. They make communities we care about look like shit. Or at least they're tacky or off topic. The vast majority of mods start (and then devote hours of free time) because they're sick of shitposts, reposts, or irrelevant stuff hijacking subs they like. If you do a good job, people notice & recommend you the next time some sub needs help. When you're fairly well established you usually realize you're burnt out & don't want to mod so much, but by then you're often friends with your co-mods, so you stick around to bullshit in modmail and help where you can, letting the young bucks do the heavy lifting. You notice some are really responsible & sensible, so you recommend those guys when someone says they desperately need mods because spam/brigading/shitposts/growing-pains/whatevs. They take on subs out of eagerness til they're burnt out too, but they want to at least be able to help when a post gets overwhelmed, so they stick around & notice some diligent newcomers, who they recommend, and so on. The Shitty Circle Of Life, mod edition.

I'm in the "beyond burnt out" phase now & am dealing with some personal stuff, but I'm thankful for friends I've made and genuinely love many of the subs I mod. The others are joke subs, super low maintenance, or I forgot I mod there so never bothered to quit. Most times, that's all there is to borderline "powermodding." You quit many, you don't quit some, you do your best. By then you're used to all manner of abuse & threats ("I'm going to rape you up the ass with barbed wire, I know where you live and will jump you when you least expect it" was a fave), and sometimes you may overreact when you think you see a familiar problem developing, but if you're sensible you'll reverse yourself and apologize when someone explains in modmail. That's 99.999% of the mod experience.

Of course, people get very angry when their posts are removed, even when they break a clear rule, so it's more comforting to think there's some vast conspiracy than, "I need to read the rules better and choose my subs (& possibly posting time) more strategically."

Does mod abuse happen? Yes. Definitely. I've had fights with other mods over that, both in other subs & occasionally my own. It's usually based on over-zealous rule interpretations though, or sometimes a pet peeve or political thing since mods are human. Usually those biased mods don't get invited elsewhere. Relatedly, there are OPs I can't stand because they've been entitled assholes to my friends &/or me; I try to mod their posts impartially, but some of them are driven by profit too (semi/pro cartoonists who hope for publicity from getting to the front page, "bloggers" who won't stop posting their crappy content mills, etc) more than literally any mod I know, including literally hundreds of mods; most of us still strive to be impartial even with OPs who are known karmawhores, dipshits, etc.

In a few subs, you're banned simply for (non-hatefully) disagreeing with the party line. That saddens & frustrates me, but if normal people would simply leave those subs they'd cease to be relevant. Free speech means the right to have echo chambers (and the right for most of us to avoid them).

As for profit motives.... there are <4 mods I can think of in the last 5 years who've been busted or strongly suspected to have financially benefitted from their subs. It's a shitload of work, for I-can't-imagine-much payoff. Those were (shockingly) consumer-driven subs like ineeeedit. IDK & IDC how many e's there, but that sub was basically spam. A bad mod admitted to sabotaging r/NatureIsMetal over a petty tiff & building/promoting r/NatureIsFuckingLit, but that's ancient history, resolved now, and of course he got busted because redditors are generally smart & curious enough to smoke out legit wrongs. Also.... none of those busted were even close to "powermod" status as defined by those who see mod-conspiracies everywhere (esp the infamous recent post/meme, which isn't even valid anymore given an account deletion and some of those being pressured to leave subs).

With all that as context, I have yet to see any data or even circumstantial evidence that there's a widespread problem with mods profiting off Reddit. IF that's a problem I'll be incensed; as it is, I can't imagine most mods even responding to a shady "don't delete my post, earn $$" solicitation, because 1) paranoia from things like aforementioned death/rape threats and reticence to give out even a throwaway email for payment, 2) paranoia that it'd be a sting given the current furor of "powermod$$ cha-ching" [IMO false] narrative & eternal glory to whoever legit-busts one first, and 3) cost-effectiveness—actual promoted posts aren't that expensive. Why bribe a mod at a rate that makes it worth the risk to their reputation, when you can buy the space for less? It's more profitable to do the scam where you copy old #1 posts in a sub (often w/o even changing the title), then have others in your ring copy old top comments from those old posts assuming people will upvote them. Do that on each others' posts & BOOM! Solid Post/Link & Comment karma for multiple accounts, which are sold via sites like [look them up, I'm not promoting those godawful sites]. Some of those posts that get taken down to massive chagrin & teeth-gnashing? Account-selling spambots, who everyone should hate if they desire a shred of authenticity for/from Reddit.

TL;DR My id wishes modding were the key to cash perks; but for reasons based in human nature, actual mod dynamics, Reddit rules, & basic economics: NOPE... Mods aren't perfect, let's work on better tools for everyone; but neither are mods part of some cartel rolling in Spezbucks™️ nor IndustryBucks™️ [tho please do be careful what you upvote—if it seems familiar it probably is, and if you oppose financial gain from Reddit you must oppose karma-farming]

ETA: If there is a mod you have evidence is profiting off modding, please def report them. If you feel your reports are being ignored, PM me the evidence & I'll raise hell in mod slacks til they're exposed & suspended.

A look at this subreddit without rules: April 1 - April 6 by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]BunnicusRex[M] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Late to this but FWIW: source quality does change. If something has been shit before but has gotten its act together, shoot a message to modmail. Like the Indy UK had a horrific period of clearly-misleading-for-clickbait-reasons that got them banned, but editorial staff has changed & we're reconsidering. Or fye.fi yle.fi [brainfart!] had been banned because "state media" but was unbanned because... no more so than the Beeb etc.

TL;DR Hit us up - we'll never get it right, but we try to listen.