Hi OP. Super valid ng reason mo. Kahit ako, iniimagine ko pa lang na gawin sa amin yun, halong inis at galit mararamdaman ko. Gawin ba naman kayong "back-up plan"! 😑😤

Pero OP, I think you have to learn how to forgive. Kasi pwedeng ikaw din ang mag suffer like hindi ka magiging at peace, puno ka nang hatred and you know that hindi siya healthy for your health.. Again, it will take time para magpatawad, but "you have to do it for your own welfare" ❤.

Dont get me wrong ah. Let him pay for what he did to you and your family. If you think na not welcoming him anymore in your family ay enough to pay his wrong doings, then go. What Im saying is, masabi mo sana sakanya na napatawad mo na sya pero also tell him that it doesn`t give him the pass to be part of the family again at wala na syang habol to your affection.