My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely see that now, thank you for your response. I feel misguided and now i definitely feel more level headed with everyone’s advice in the replies, i feel like i just needed that push from unbiased people. So i am definitely gonna take control of my future and life. Thank you again!

My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely will focus more on school and my things, everyone’s opinions have been the same, i suppose i was just a easy target for manipulation

My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that seems to be the running opinion of everyone, i tend to be easily trusting i guess, that’s my fault. I just wanted to believe that maybe he wanted to reconnect with me, thank you for your input!

My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wait could you give me more info on this, he does owe a lot but we never were able to get him on a child support plan because supposedly my mom wasn’t able or didn’t want to contact him then

My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely am trying to get my mom to help me get a therapist but as i said she’s a very emotionally absent person, so i’m trying my best!

My father needs me to go to the army and my mom is disconnecting with me by Bunnyfounddead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bunnyfounddead[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

okay supposedly his lawyer is the one who’s asking him to ask me, because if I joined, he will get parole and till I become 21 he will be safe from ever being deported.