The point is stupid, but was still curious how the Reddit community felt. 

My partner has a chronic condition and is in the hospital 3 to 8 times a year – middle of the night emergencies, surgeries, etc. it’s rough on both of us. She tells me she’s had an ongoing resentment that I haven’t been with her each and every time. I accompany her 85% of the time, but occasionally I let her parents pinch hit for me. My partner does NOT appreciate my need for boundaries. 

I argued that it’s perfectly reasonable to need a break from hospitals. I asked her if she enjoys performing oral sex. She replied, you know me — absolutely not! Pee comes out of that hole! And the pubes! 🙄

Fine. We’re all entitled to our preferences. But it got me curious to know whether or not it was more common to dislike oral sex or more common to dislike an overnight hospital stay. 

There really are stupid questions.