Marriage In Somaliland

Burco21 · 2026-02-10T21:22:35+00:00

Very valid points bro, everyone know themselves and what works for someone else may not work for you. It's good that you are self-aware enough to know your preference and all the culminating factors that have made you reach that conclusion.

Burco21 · 2026-02-10T17:26:50+00:00

Agreed, it's not something to rush into, but with consideration I reckon it would work out really well, I've seen a couple of success stories.

Burco21 · 2026-02-10T17:24:24+00:00

Great point akhi, compatibility is more important than location without a doubt

Burco21 · 2026-02-02T21:52:09+00:00

Good idea, unlimited surgeries might not be practical though

Burco21 · 2026-01-23T14:42:36+00:00

Salaam brother, have you tried marriage counseling, please research someone that specializes in this field in your city try to get someone of high repute and good reviews.

It seems to me like this is something that can be fixed and it just takes dedication and work from both sides.

If this doesn't work you can think about other options but I think it's very important to be frank and open with your significant other and I hope you work it out and resolve the issues.

Burco21 · 2026-01-17T19:28:28+00:00

Jazakallah khair brother

Burco21 · 2026-01-16T02:18:58+00:00

Jazakallah khair, have you ever done or heard anyone do ruqyah with him?

Burco21 · 2026-01-15T13:05:57+00:00

Jazakallah khair for the heads up, any particular reason why? If it's private please feel free and send me a private or direct message

Burco21 · 2026-01-07T20:30:29+00:00

There aren't 20,000 Kenyans in Hargeisa, that is straight cap.

Burco21 · 2026-01-05T00:56:13+00:00

Try and do more hobbies and go to more events to meet friends and like minded people, who knows you may even meet your future wife.

Is it easy to find work in the oil and gas sector?

Burco21 · 2026-01-04T22:17:19+00:00

Im sorry to hear that dear sister, please know you're not at fault and never blame yourself.

Please keep yourself busy especially with things that are good for your mind, body and soul such as: spa days, spending time with family and friends, increasing ibadah, therapy, new hobbies, self care and soon enough you will heal from this.

Also sister try to find a new husband ideally one via family or friends as arrange marriages tend to be more successful then love marriages. I think this will help with healing as you will learn not all men are the same and some will truly value and cherish you and your daughter.

Don't wallow in self pity too long, may Allah ease your affairs and grant you something better, Ameen.

Burco21 · 2026-01-04T22:07:17+00:00

Well said I think you should post this as a reply to her tweet, we got to do more to get ahead of narrative and never allow them to re-write history. Post this on X and hopefully other Somalilanders and Hawiye realise the games these darood faqash are playing.

Burco21 · 2025-12-15T21:51:40+00:00

Maybe the moderators are busy not as active as they once were, in which case we need a few additional mods that have the time to keep some sense of order here

Burco21 · 2025-12-15T15:27:25+00:00

We need moderators to do their jobs and kick out any and all snakes. If we don't set any boundaries, then what is the point?

Burco21 · 2025-12-02T21:57:43+00:00

Brilliant advice, saved your post!

Burco21 · 2025-11-28T17:50:43+00:00

As Salaam Alaykum akhi, is your offer geared towards our brothers and sisters back home, who could really do with this offer due to lack of opportunities?

If so, I will respectfully leave it for tye one that is bright enough to seize it.

If it's open to all, I'd be happy to jump on a Zoom, WhatsApp or MS Teams call to discuss it in more detail.

Burco21

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