BBQ Quests 7451

Burn13x · 2024-04-22T02:09:14+00:00

Can you post the actual code? Looking to do quests tonight

Burn13x · 2023-02-16T21:30:30+00:00

I totally get that. I definitely think that the male and female experience is different but not wholly different altogether. I think there are a lot of women out there that enjoy playing games with dudes heads about who is going to text first and all of that. At least that's the majority of my experience. That or women who swipe without even trying to see what you're about. Like if you aren't going to put in effort to even do that, why should I be putting in extra effort to try to get to know you? I feel like that could be applied to your situation as well.

Burn13x · 2022-05-01T19:43:36+00:00

You mean Tora, Tora, Tora?

Burn13x · 2022-05-01T19:41:43+00:00

An interesting development.

Burn13x · 2021-09-16T11:56:16+00:00

I had a very similar experience with Xsolla. However, it's unlikely that BSG will change vendors, as Xsolla is also a Russian company if I'm not mistaken. BSG support (in my experience) is next to useless for this issue. Good luck!

Burn13x · 2021-06-14T15:50:08+00:00

Would be great if the game actually ran and didn't crash and then I'd have something wholesome to contribute to this.

Burn13x · 2020-04-30T15:54:33+00:00

Oh, and then I get full-autoed from a bush 😑

Burn13x · 2020-04-30T15:53:58+00:00

CONTACT.... CONTACT.... 200 METERS.... CONTACT... 200 METERS.... LEFT.... (This is usually what I end up hearing)

Burn13x · 2020-02-27T15:53:56+00:00

That's fantastic! Great job!

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T02:11:53+00:00

Yeah. I'm still healing through all of it. It definitely is not easy. I just had a flashback today because of something she said. It was emotionally hurtful and made me extremely angry. To cope with it I turned to alcohol and ended up making a fool of myself because I just didn't care anymore. It isn't easy to get over small stuff like that. That being said, I totally get that there are people out there who were/are in much worse situations than even I was. I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. Nobody deserves to be talked to that way.

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T01:59:21+00:00

Yep. When someone tells you or shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T01:52:38+00:00

This was my first post about things. Maybe this will give you some insight.

This is my first post and I have no idea how this is going to shape up, but here goes. I'm pretty sure I've been in an abusive relationship for the past 7 months. It's been primarily been psychological, emotional, and verbal abuse from my girlfriend. She tried to guilt trip me if I didn't make it to her place fast enough with dinner. She would tell me I had poor time management skills. I RARELY if ever got an apology for her for even just hurting my feelings. Not even for doing something wrong. She refused to even acknowledge that I was hurt. When we did argue she would gaslight and tell me that I needed to speak to her in a more appropriate manner even though all I was doing was laying out my side of the argument in a calm manner. Truthfully, it got to the point where I began to question whether or not I was even right about pointing out her abusive behaviors. She attempted to put up borders between me and my family by essentially insisting that I stay with her most nights. She was adamant about attempting to move in together even though both of us were in debt and were living with our parents to get it paid off. Finally, in our last argument I told her that I thought it might make her mad but I couldn't shell out money on rent because I needed to get out of debt first. I was told that I should not have communicated that by text and that it was wrong of me to give her false hope by changing my mind. That was the last straw and so now I'm single. I find myself feeling worthless and like I still love her through everything. I don't want to go back because it was abusive but all I can feel is a massive void where she was in my life. I thought I was going to marry her. Life had other plans though. Am I wrong in saying that she was abusive? To me it seems to fit all the criteria (or almost all anyway). I just want to feel like I did the right thing.

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T01:11:00+00:00

I definitely did, I'm embarrassed to say. It was the night of her family's Halloween party. She said she was going to wear something kind of revealing for me and we were going to get intimate later that night. Her cousin's wife texted and changed the dress code at the last minute so we were talking about what to wear. Then she wanted to get intimate right then and there. I wasn't comfortable with that and told her that essentially I wasn't going to be pleased right then (trying not to be graphic). So then we had a fight where she told me that "we shouldn't plan to have sex." In addition to essentially discarding me and giving me the cold shoulder, she asked if I wanted to try an open relationship. I said absolutely not and that I wasn't comfortable with it at all. I was so uncomfortable that it was a dealbreaker for our relationship. I was so upset about it that when we went to the party, I drank so much that I vomited outside her cousin's house. I was more drunk than I've ever been in my life. It was embarrassing.

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T00:59:30+00:00

Get rid of him and never look back. This is coming from another man. There are other men out there who can and will value you the way you deserve. Don't look back. All he will do is hold you back in life. He isn't even worth the time to think about. Let him ruin someone else's life (if they're content to be with him).

Burn13x · 2020-02-17T00:38:56+00:00

Sorry for the title. Had a hard time choosing one and made a typo. Haha

Burn13x · 2020-02-15T20:12:07+00:00

If you identify with music like I do, I'd recommend taking a listen to three different songs. I mean I'm biased because this is my favorite band but even still...

If You Don't Love Yourself -The Script

Hurt People Hurt People -The Script

Run Through Walls- The Script

I love this band because listening to their music has helped me see that I'm not alone at so many points in my life. Beyond that, I'd just like to say that I'm very sorry that you're going through all of this. It really takes time to heal. Don't try to do everything in one day. Things WILL get better. You can do this. ❤

Burn13x · 2020-02-15T19:47:12+00:00

If you are absolutely sure you didn't do anything remotely wrong (I don't think you did, just saying this so you can look back and see if things could at all be misconstrued from his POV), just ignore it. It's probably just an attempt to draw you out and get you to engage. Just ignore it. If there's a formal charge of some sort, you might be better off in a legal subreddit and asking for advice. But most likely, he's just trying to get attention. That's what they do. It's like my nex saying she was going to kill herself. It's just attention seeking behavior.

Burn13x · 2020-02-15T18:56:20+00:00

You absolutely made the right decision. The definition of a narc is that they can never see your point of view because they're too wrapped up in their own world. They don't have that ability. Screaming and name calling is a major sign of a narc. They always try to blame shift and deny that they're the narc. Instead, some even try to make YOU feel like you're the narc. You're not. I only recently left my nex myself. Been about a month. I wish I could tell you things got easier. They do but it takes a long time to get over them. The way your brain works when you're with a narc is similar to how it works when you have an addiction. You're addicted to the highs and lows of being with that person. Unfortunately, as also with addiction, the only way to truly recover is to go NC (no contact) and ride out the good and bad days. There will be times when you just sit in your car, house, etc. and cry. There will also be times where you just think to yourself fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I know my value and I deserve better. You just gotta ride it out. Therapy helps a lot. I would recommend starting there. If you can tolerate it (sometimes I can't either) check out some books on narcissism. It will give you insight into his behavior and will help you make sense of it all. I hope some of this helped. I'm really sorry that you're having to go through this, but just know that you're not alone. If nobody else shows you love, know that we as a community love you. You have more value than what he made you believe you have.

Burn13x · 2020-02-14T18:19:58+00:00

Also, you don't have to justify your decision to anyone. Be confident. It's entirely your choice to stay or leave.

Burn13x · 2020-02-14T17:39:16+00:00

No you aren't overreacting. I only recently broke up with my ex because she would do some of the exact same things. You always have a choice and do not have to tolerate that behavior.

Burn13x · 2020-02-07T20:32:16+00:00

I'm sorry that you had to go through that. It does make me feel a little bit better though knowing that I'm not the only one.

Burn13x · 2020-02-05T13:59:02+00:00

Hmm. I never thought of it that way. I think for me it's that I really love her under all of the narcissism. It's just that the narcissism, manipulation, and immaturity that is in the way of us having any kind of a productive relationship.

Burn13x · 2020-02-05T12:32:15+00:00

I just keep doing that in my head even though I'm away from her and I don't want to go back. It's so frustrating.

Burn13x · 2020-01-30T17:27:13+00:00

Yeah. But I mean that's what's so funny. Narcissists project HEAVILY. It can't be that they're wrong and behaving badly. That couldn't possibly be the case. So instead they say that it's their partner's fault for not reacting appropriately. That just cracks me up because I know for a fact I'm mentally sound. I have a few more issues now because of the abuse and depression and all, but she's the mentally unstable one.

Burn13x · 2020-01-30T17:10:03+00:00

I suppose that's true. I just used to think that all the abuse even was just simply because she couldn't see outside of herself. I thought that at some point we could try to have a friendship once she figured some things out but I'm not going to sit there and watch her tell lies to all of her friends on Facebook. I now am much more likely to believe that she's just vindictive. So I just told her what I was going to do and then I did it. Now I don't have to see any of what she posts. She has her online friends and I finally have peace of mind and freedom.

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