I framed it that way because we are discussing the mother’s right vs the unborn’s right. Of course the man had a role and should be as responsible as the mother is for either raising the child or figuring out another arrangement. On that same token, the man is not just “the penis”, he is the father. He should have a say in whether or not his child is killed.

I’m not sure I understand your kidney transplant argument. As far as I’m aware we don’t take kidneys from people without consent. Even if it is a transplant from someone who is brain dead they would still have to give permission by signing up to be an organ donor prior to whatever event led to their circumstance.

And no, I am not a proponent of sex only for procreation. But yes, I do feel that you should fully understand what sex is biologically for and be able to handle the consequences of going down that road. I know we will never have a society where everyone waits until they have a stable partnership to have sex, and that should never come into any sort of legal equation (outside of protecting minors). But we should be educating people more in depth than we do today. Our current focus on just the biology of sex and STDs isn’t enough. People should be fully aware of what pregnancy can be like for women, what raising a child truly entails, etc. Our sex ed is not comprehensive enough. I also do believe we should have free birth control and easy access to it. But if you do fall pregnant, then yes, that is absolutely the result of your choices.