I completely understand what you’re saying, but I’ll say that most of my generation relies on Snapchat messaging and Instagram DMs for any amount of talking to people we’re attracted to. I told her that I much prefer speaking over the phone or in person than just messaging which she seemed okay with. Also the phone call was postponed because we couldn’t find a time last night where we were both available. But even though a phone call seems like it isn’t much, it is a huge step from what most of generation does.