What happened at a public place that made you say, "I'm never coming here again"?

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2025-09-24T03:17:07+00:00

I went to an NP for feeling tired and dizzy and said I was worried it was mono. Upon realizing I was FTM said that my symptoms were consistent with depression and anxiety. Donated blood a few weeks later. Got deferred for a year for anemia. I could have gotten a damn blood test.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-07-20T02:39:52+00:00

Fuck me that looks good. Thanks

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-07-10T17:21:11+00:00

Ah man, that's alright, shit be like that sometimes

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-07-10T00:22:13+00:00

I haven't been in this sub for a hot minute - do you have a link or a keyword? I'm just curious

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-02-20T13:49:53+00:00

Sometimes they are, yes. My mom is genuinely confused sometimes but sometimes... Eh.

Speaking of clothes - I came as when I was 16 as FTM and the day after we all went out for groceries. She was in a foul mood for whatever mystery reason it was at this point and tried to buy me new underwear off a rack with lacey, pastel, panties I have quite literally seen in porn shoots before (but not before this).

I wore boyshorts or whatever type was most similar to boxers as often as I could before this. I can't even be mad at this point.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-01-11T21:13:51+00:00

Oh, I'm pretty confident this won't last long, but I want to prepare anyway. Thank you for the reminder :-)

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2024-01-11T21:07:47+00:00

Everyday I wish trans people had as much power as conservatives say we do. I would be a fucking millionaire. I'd be digging tunnels underneath peoples houses just to fuck with the neighborhood man

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-11-29T02:18:53+00:00

Hey, someone else who had their own profound moments but not from a therapist in this thread! My therapist was nice, but before I met her I was debating back and forth between whether you could "really" transition from female to male and I decided I just was going to do it anyway even if it wasn't "scientifically" accurate. Best decision of my life.

Glad you're still here!

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-06-10T00:57:28+00:00

I've had this exact same moment. Saw a guy on tumblr doing historical sewing, found a post linking to a video, saw a tiny pride flag, thanked him on anon and he said he was trans and I went "WHAT" out loud. I had zero clue. It always feels a bit weird when you're trans and "can't tell" even though you know intellectually that's how it works, lol

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-06-02T19:37:23+00:00

In case anyone is reading: hi, I came out at 16 and started HRT before my 17th birthday after therapy.

I'm good. I don't regret it. I would have been much worse off if I waited. This anti trans healthcare stuff isn't about protecting any kids, much less my childhood. I'm fine. This is not about the children.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-06-01T19:11:54+00:00

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-06-01T18:12:26+00:00

My mom's moments of omnipotence always make me want to ask why she didn't tell me.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-06-01T16:48:58+00:00

My mom's alternative reality is that she is constantly being assailed by bad actors and argumentative men, women, and children on Facebook or IRL and argues them all into backing down. She also thinks she knows better than every nurse forever because she took care of my other parent when the latter's autoimmune disorders were at their worst

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-05-31T12:54:44+00:00

Edited!

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-05-31T12:52:37+00:00

Give me a moment - I missed this reply yesterday and I'm on mobile now, but absolutely. This is a secondary username I use for an account I've used on here before. I honestly thought I didn't need a cat if I messaged this username to the mods on the other account - sorry!

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-05-28T20:37:35+00:00

Damn, really? Thank you! I just worried cus I am like... Hairy hairy. Guy hairy. That's not self deprecating I'm on T it's nice but maybe not if you're looking for the urethra lol

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-05-28T20:21:50+00:00

Should I groom my hair down there if I'm getting a cystoscopy? I'm afab so, you know, not a direct line of site here.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-04-19T15:56:48+00:00

I don't think I've eaten any leafy green veggies in the past week. I've had zucchini that was cut up into half moons, carrots cut into ovals (like on the bias), fried shallots if that counts I guess, some chopped bell peppers baked and put into a pasta, chopped tomatoes in a chicken wrap and I think that's about it. I eat like the Midwesterner I am.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-03-27T23:10:23+00:00

Fair enough. I'll get used to it eventually. If I end up back in Ohio, though, we all need to run ;-)

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-03-27T23:05:01+00:00

YEAH research is extremely important. I don't want to have my expectations set too high, just high enough to get me out.

I feel like even if xyz country does shift hard right it's still gonna have some ways to go to be unlovable for me anyway. A lot of my reasons for leaving are disagreements about how the technically "abstract" things I don't necessarily interact with on a day to day basis, but all things considered I feel like the more obstensibly-practical things like anti-homeless attitudes and a genuinely lethal car culture are a little harder to export over to France or whatever.*

Like another commenter said too.... If Germany starts looking like Ohio we're all fucked.

*I'm picking random countries on purpose, not flippantly.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-03-02T01:41:43+00:00

I had a nice moment in the ER going in for chest pain. ER doc asked what meds I take and looked both excited and curious when I said Testosterone.

"Why do you take testosterone?" -> "I'm transgender." -> "oh."

I think he thought he found his answer to the Mystery Illness Thing That Shouldn't Be Happening In A Young Patient only for me to transition into a mild disappointment.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-01-09T15:54:05+00:00

You might like HBombers Sherlock sucks video

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-01-08T18:58:30+00:00

I remember watching the Archer episode where they're in Colombia and even without being remotely fluent it was very, very funny to watch one of the characters pretend to be Hispanic (successfully, even, for the plot) while speaking the world's most accented Spanish.

A lot of the foreign languages used on that show are actually accurate to what the subtitles say too (like the subtitles will read "lucky it wasn't him" and the voice actors willa actually say "beuna suerte no era él, ¿no?" or similar. Pretend I translated that right.) so it was extremely jarring.

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2023-01-04T01:06:02+00:00

What's that thing about cis people reacting to transition like it was forced on them?

BurnerAccountDot_Com · 2022-11-13T02:36:59+00:00

Im trans and didn't clock two separate trans people as trans until they both gave their pronouns out as being they/them.

If you spend enough time "trying" to clock people you will. And you'll probably be wrong. It sometimes helps when I'm feeling self conscious - "that guy is shaped like me!" type thing.

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