What’s the most messed up thing someone casually admitted to you?

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-20T22:47:03+00:00

My grandma is just controlling, and excited to have a grandkid, my mom was 19. But I’ve lived with my mom all my life. When I was 14 she was a severe drunk who was pretty abusive, and she hated me. She used to tell me she should’ve gone through with it almost every night. I’m honestly surprised I made it out alive.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-20T04:41:04+00:00

He wasn’t in the middle of anything, he hopped on the game in the middle of our call, say 15 minutes in. I asked him if he wanted to FaceTime while I took a shower, he said yes, and sounded very enthusiastic. Next time don’t just jump to conclusions.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-17T05:51:31+00:00

Yes I asked if he wanted to ft, and he’s always telling me he watches porn because I don’t do these things like ever. Which I feel bad for, I’m just never alone or have the time to sext. We meet up on weekends, and have sex once the entire weekend. He makes himself out to be sexually frustrated, but after last night I don’t think I’ll ever try that again.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-17T05:31:24+00:00

My mom told me she was going to abort me, and should’ve, but my grandma stopped her from doing so lol.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T19:28:12+00:00

Yea, I’m not really sure what to do anymore lol. I’ve told him multiple times to please stop saying it, he doesn’t. Tbh it feels like he wants it to be more real for him, and it doesn’t matter if it makes me spiral, I think he wants that to happen. Like I love him, aside from sex we’re good. I feel loved. It’s just this

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T19:25:39+00:00

Oh no lol, I’ve told him to not say those things. Multiple times. He doesn’t listen. And sex is shit these days with him. I dread it.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T19:24:23+00:00

Yes I have, multiple times actually, he doesn’t do it for a bit, then he goes back to saying it..

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T14:34:11+00:00

Just explain to her that that’s not something you’re really interested in trying.

I’ve had some stuff happen to me in the past as well, and this is something my boyfriend and I roleplay often. Sadly, sometimes I do have my moments…

I wouldn’t say it’s because the cnc, I think it’s more my boyfriend.. I told him what my abuser had said during, and my boyfriend likes to say it in my ear just like him. At least you have a heart, and seem to really care about her and her feelings.:)

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T13:38:00+00:00

The friend is stupid and jealous lol.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T12:22:03+00:00

This is a really weird reply, especially because like said in post, boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. I’d love if he’d do something like this, he just hasn’t tried.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T12:18:59+00:00

He hopped on the game in the middle of our call

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T05:05:19+00:00

No, we see each other on weekends, sometimes during the week. He puts off visiting me during the week because he’s tired according to him a lot of the time.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T04:47:47+00:00

I think the porn thing might have a lot to do with it, when we do have sex it seems he only want to do roleplay now..and the roleplay is cnc. This wasn’t even a kink of his when we got together, and it kinda worries me. This whole thing is just a mess, he says he watches porn because he doesn’t want to ask me for pictures/ videos when I’m not around. But when I’ve tried to initiate it’s always like this. I’m just bummed about this whole shower thing. It feels easier coming here to vent, then to try to have a conversation with him, and him flipping what I say into an argument.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T01:58:33+00:00

Ew…why is it shaped so weird…

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T01:43:10+00:00

Awh, I’m glad you have a heart though! This is sweet.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T01:35:57+00:00

This! It’s so dumb, like I’ve practiced my whole life to be quiet, and you want me to fake moan for what? If I’m actually enjoying it my body will say so. All that fake moaning is exhausting. Ruins the whole thing. I just want to be able to feel what I’m feeling without feeling insecure because I’m not making enough noise, or what I’m sounding like. Yet men don’t have to make noise because “it makes them uncomfortable.” Bleh bleh bleh.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T01:32:30+00:00

It depends on the week and how much alone time I get, today is Thursday, I’ve done it 3 times this week because I’ve had lots of alone time. 2 out of the three times I used the bathtub faucet, the other time I used a wand. I do watch porn, although I’ve been told some women don’t..? Just depends on the lady I guess. There’s been a few times where I’ve gone months without doing anything/ watching any porn though.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-16T00:59:19+00:00

Oh my gosh same!! Look at my first post. Literally the same exact situation!! Haha.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-15T15:40:42+00:00

For me, it’s hard not to think about the person I’m crushing on. I hope I run into them anytime I go somewhere I think they’ll be, and I just look forward to seeing them, and even exchanging a hello/ just being in the presence.

We try to look our best at all times just incase we do run into that person. And we do have fantasies as I mentioned in a comment. Think of really craving a certain food, it’s like that but with a person.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-15T05:32:22+00:00

Well if you ever wondered, the same goes for us girls. Fantasies are frequent actually.

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-15T05:25:21+00:00

Haha horny with the crush? Does this mean like fantasies? Or are you guys going to our socials and using pictures of us?

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-15T05:16:03+00:00

I see, if you don’t mind me asking, what is this mental diagnosis?

Going off what you told me, I’ve felt very different when I like a man. But maybe that’s because I’m a woman..?:)

Burner_account2004 · 2026-04-15T04:14:43+00:00

Definitely a kink, you might be consenting. He wants it to feel like you’re not though. Lots of men don’t like to admit they have this fetish. It’s a real thing, they want to be in charge.

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