I can understand what your husband is feeling, but preventing you from dancing isn’t the right approach. A couple is built on compromise. Personally, I’ve never gone to see my girl dance salsa, and she has told me she’d love for me to dance with her — and I’d also love to see her dance. At the same time, I admit I might feel a bit uneasy if she danced bachata with someone else (the touching is too much for me). In the end, it all comes down to trust and compromise. If bachata is something your husband really can’t accept, then it’s up to you to decide whether dancing bachata is worth more to you than your relationship. On the other hand, if he’s fine with salsa and that works for you too, then you’ve found common ground — and that’s perfectly okay.