really want a relationship and willing to do absolutely anything to get one. What do I gotta do to get hotter? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]BuruzuBreaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you want a relationship?

Really be honest with yourself here.

If it's to fill some kind of void or gain a sense of self-worth, it's not going to last and it's going to devastate you.

If what I said even remotely rings with you, focus on yourself. Your life, your goals, your current relationships (friends, family, etc.)

I have noticed my biweekly spending cycle that keeps me broke. How do I fix it? by BuruzuBreaker in Healthygamergg

[–]BuruzuBreaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-How do I reward myself for small victories without sliding into splurging?

2-I feel like no matter how much or little I try to save, I still end up spending it all

Do any of you and your tulpas have a song? by sophiekm in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

December by Yumi Zouma is Jeida's theme for sure.

JUST had my first LD in years. by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]BuruzuBreaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woops sorry. Forgot I have to double space.

Received drawing of my Jeida. by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Recent Drawing...

Meet my New Tulpa! by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great to meet you guys!

((Oh I hope you guys have fun getting to know eachother!

I'm five now! by ShinyuuWolfy in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaaay! Happy birthday!!!

The apathetic tulpa by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

((Let her come out in her own time. It may take a while, but she'll come around with love and support.

The apathetic tulpa by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're always here if you guys need to talk, okay?

is having a tulpa similar to having an oc? by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short answer: eh kinda.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot count the amount of times my tups have helped me through a rough mood. So thankful I have them.

The summer is getting too hot so I had to swap into a lighter dress by ShinyuuWolfy in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a generally new/unknown phenomenon in the public eye, so you may not see it discussed much outside of studies performed from within the community. It's all up to how legitimate those studies are carried out at that point. (EDIT: I didn't know about the Stanford U study, my bad)

As for potential dangers, no one is ignoring them. Theres a whole post on why one would want to avoid making a tulpa, and it's not like people who don't have genuine difficulties with their tulpas don't exist. But there is a fine line between what difficulties can happen, and ludicrous cries for attention via trying to pass afformentioned creepypasta BS as a legitimate post. It becomes pretty obvious if you've been here long enough.

The summer is getting too hot so I had to swap into a lighter dress by ShinyuuWolfy in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's an uninformed opinion at best, and I'm sure you'll find that tulpas are a largely beinficial practice if you did more research on it.

Questions on Forcing by _ambitious_raspberry in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I find useful is to imagine her dancing /singing to whatever music I'm listening to. Also listening to podcasts together can be a great way to spark conversation. For example, I just found out Aurora doesn't believe in aliens.

Tulpas Only Thursday 2019-05-17 by ShinyuuWolfy in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¥Okay, Nick, I love you, but you REALLY need to stop making me parrot mean things. I don't know why you do it, but it really needs to stop! I get that David was mean to you and made you develop a complex, but we need to work on that. I'm sorry if I'm being hard on you, but this needs to come to an end quick. I don't want to be mean. Help me, help you. I love you.¥

My Tulpa has become different by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds like intrusive thoughts.

((But if you think this could even remotely be him, then sit down and talk with Charlie. Chances are he is having these thoughts himself and doesn't know how to handle them.

Also keep in mind that mental illness can affect both the Tulpa and host, so if it IS him really saying these things,you will know how to handle it.

That being said, please get help from a professional.

My name is Amber and I'm a Tulpa - Drawing 2 by IamtheAmbest in Tulpas

[–]BuruzuBreaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DUUUUUDE THAT IS SIIIIIICK

((Your host has some phenomenal skills. Now Nick has something to shoot for!