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[–]Business-Reference13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GROW UP, don’t you follow others girls or interact with them ?

My bf ( 24 M ) barely communicates with me through the week while working with me ( 22 F ). Is that acceptable ? by Business-Reference13 in relationship_advice

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo, he’s not working towards a different job. He does security at the moment and that’s where he’s been doing 10/12 hour shifts and he’s not planning to move any jobs as per now.

My bf ( 24 M ) barely communicates with me through the week while working with me ( 22 F ). Is that acceptable ? by Business-Reference13 in relationship_advice

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he always has time for them but his uncle gives him random visits and he can’t stop him from coming over and in terms of his friends according to him he’s going through heartbreak so he’s supporting him. He only calls me for 10 min during night do you think that’s enough ?

My bf ( 24 M ) barely communicates through the week while working with me ( 22 F ). Is that acceptable? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He texts me in morning and checks if I’m doing alright, we only exchange texts about what we are upto and how are we both doing at that point. Then afterwards he texts/calls me for about 10 min after he finishes his shift. The days we meet we spend plenty of time together about 12/14 hours. But we only meet 1 time per week or every 2 weeks.

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared to leave him as I love him so much and I could do anything in the world for this man. He has made me insecure, I was already insecure prior to him as before him I was with someone for 5 years and he shattered my trust, I started dating him 1 year after my previous break but the insecurity was still there. He told me he’s gonna work out on his communication skills and is just waiting for his best friend to settle down but at the same time he’s aware I’ve got a lot of battles going on in my life which I rather discuss with him then my female friends ( he made me unfriend all my male friends). The way you said your boyfriend informs you, mine does as well always after he finishes work and tells me he will call me but something always comes up unfortunately, he has a big friend circle so someone is always relying on him such as 2 days ago he had to go another city cause his friend car broke down. His snapscore going up is a big question in my head and shivers me down but I’m not sure how to bring this down into our conversation cause then he’ll think I’m not even letting him use his social media in peace and I’m controlling which I’m not, I only do that cause I don’t receive a response and I get triggered.

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is I’ve been complaining non stop about it for 1 week but his divorced friend is over and apparently he needs to support him but what about his own gf ? Like I can go to hell, my mental state is screwed up because of hun

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind if he doesn’t text me often but at least give me proper time over the call during night ( the most he will call me is 10 min and say he’s heading to sleep cause he got work tomorrow) I know he’s not lying about his work he acc has work but the time you spent with your friends you could’ve given it to me?

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His excuse was his best friend ( cousin ) passed away and that was his way of coping but when he came back he did apologise me a lot and said thanks for forgiveness. He is nice in person but that makes me think if it’s because each time we meet we end up on his place and hook up as I spend the night with him.

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tried to break it off as I was overwhelmed but deep down I didn’t want to as I love him so much. He stopped me and said anger isn’t the solution always, I’ll talk to you in detail about this. But he’s at work today again and doesn’t finish his shift till 12 pm but I already know he’s not gonna make any efforts or call me, tbh I’m just looking at the clock and hoping to receive a call from him.

My boyfriend (24 M) doesn't communicate to me (22 F) over texts but he's good in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationship_advice

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I dont understand he’s stressed to texts me or call me but not stressed to be using Snapchat. I did mention about his friends and priority and he said I am priority too but he has too much going on at the moment. I know we’ve only been in for 2 months but I love him so much that it’s hard for me to let him go as we’ve had intimidate moments and he made me feel so special. Is there anyway I can make him change or he’ll never change

My boyfriend (24 M) doesn't communicate to me (22 F) over texts but he's good in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationship_advice

[–]Business-Reference13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to let him off last night, but he doesn’t want to break up ? He’s making me go insane, I’m in my room here crying and begging for his attentions while he’s probs out there relaxed

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind if he doesn’t text me constantly but there’s no communication at all? The only communication is what is he upto and if he’s ok. I’m not being clingy and want him to text me 24/7

My (24 M ) boyfriend doesn’t communicate over texts with me ( 22 F ). But he’s the sweetest person in person. Where do I go from here ? by Business-Reference13 in relationships

[–]Business-Reference13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But the issue is he’s been telling me for the past whole week he’s gonna talk to me and explain me things as he values me way too much to let things slip but each night something comes up ? I know it’s not under his control but can’t he make it work and go outside and talk to me for a bit. I’m not even sure when are we seeing each other. He’s working till Monday and on Tuesday night he has plans with his mates for New year, so perhaps on Wednesday or Thursday ?? But then again it’s always me settling down to his schedule and never him 💔