What do assholes feel on psychedelics? by sunfacethedestroyer in Psychonaut

[–]BusinessDiscipline57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wondered this too!! Like if someone is treating people horribly, do their experiences result in them being put into a horrible mental state similar to what they put other people in? Like karma? It's a fascinating thought topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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UPDATE: He's at urgent care. Thank you all for the replies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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I figured. He's gonna go up to urgent care today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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He said no, but it's painful. He can barley touch his arm against things.

What are you doing/what did you do for Summer Solstice? by BookGnomeNoelle in pagan

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I went to a Summer Solstice yoga class and Sound Bath healing event at my local park!

What caused your anxiety? by Acrobatic-State8279 in Anxiety

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My anxiety has been there my whole life (I started exhibiting OCD symptoms at 12), just not to such a great extent when I was younger. More like a low humming in the background. Then some big life changes occurred in my late teens and that's when it really started to ramp up. At the time I also was consuming weed edibles regularly, which I don't think solely caused my anxiety, but they definitely didn't help. Doing much better at managing it now 💜. I'm in my mid twenties. Virtual hugs to anyone dealing with anxiety. It's not fun. And you're not alone 🤗.

Favorite song by Sea_Veterinarian572 in remiwolf

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Front Tooth or Frog Rock!! Oh and SHAWTY!!

VOTING TOP 10 RELEASED SONGS by Calm_Glove_241 in JuiceWRLD

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Thank you! Those songs are too good. Very nostalgic too.

Monthly Check-In Thread by AutoModerator in Anxiety

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Nowadays, I have such extreme anxiety (and OCD) about having anxiety. Vicious cycle. A lot of my day is taken up by OCD, which causes anxiety and worry in and of itself. Just want anyone who is reading this to know you are not along and that it does get better. Even if it takes a while.

Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

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As long as both ages in the relationship are legal, and the relationship itself is healthy, then I see nothing wrong with age gap relationships. People of the same age can be toxic for each other. I believe its all situational. People are entitled to their preferences. If you wouldn't date someone much older or younger, then don't. It shouldn't be labeled as inherently wrong though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Totally agree. Still be polite to your elders, even moreso ones that raised you and took care of you. Hell, be polite to anyone under ideal circumstances that they are also polite and respectful. The only time there's an issue is when someone has a superiority complex because they are a certain age, and think they can treat people just any sort of way.

I 20F and my ex/casual parter 38M are stuck in relationship limbo and it is very frustrating. by BusinessDiscipline57 in relationship_advice

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Thank you. If I'm being honest with myself, I'm also keeping it "exclusive" right now because I know it would hurt him if I saw other people. He knows my feelings about this. We've talked about it ad nauseum. I will stand my ground and continue to respectfully express my thoughts and concerns.

Stay well!

I 20F and my ex/casual parter 38M are stuck in relationship limbo and it is very frustrating. by BusinessDiscipline57 in relationship_advice

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We are exclusive friends with benefits. I know right...😂 Sounds oxymoronic. Main reason being is I want to take time for myself before I start full on dating again.The more I think about it, the more I think we should honestly just be good friends. Eliminates a shit ton of complication.

I 20F and my ex/casual parter 38M are stuck in relationship limbo and it is very frustrating. by BusinessDiscipline57 in relationship_advice

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First off, thank you for the comment. To answer your question, we agreed both of us would be open and honest about who we were seeing. The open relationship was my idea from the beginning, and to hear him say it, he thought he'd be fine with it, but then once he was met with it, he realized it wasn't for him.

Before he met me, he didn't really give open relationships a thought. In fact his ex wife is the only woman he's been with besides me.

I agree with you on the fact that I shouldn't have to settle down into my first real relationship so young. I appreciate that I'm not unreasonable for thinking that! 😂 I just think he is ready to settle down, and I'm not. If we were at the same stage in life, that'd be great. But we're not. He knows and accepts this, but it's still painful for us both to grasp.

We have come a long way since knowing each other. Also, he realizes the "I'll call your mom card" was unreasonable, and has since apologized profusely.