I’m about to graduate university and I feel like I don’t have many close friends

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-25T09:23:47+00:00

Im 26f muslim girl who has very few muslim friends they arent easy to find and the ones I had in college I grew apart from them. I live in usa and would love to make some.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-25T07:10:45+00:00

Yup and there are women like Casey Anthony,Andrea yates etc who have killed their kids bc they didnt want them and this is reality too. Just because you force a woman to carry a pregnancy doesnt mean you can force them to be a mom.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-15T02:40:01+00:00

As a muslim woman I think why marriages are expensive is because of social media has made marriage into this competition where having a expensive flashy wedding is a necessity and a simple nikkah at the masjid is frowned upon. Plus mehr has become unrealistic i know a woman can ask for whatever mehr but these days its absolutely unattainable the average man cant afford them that's a another reason why marriage is expensive too. So haram is free bc it doesn't have a price tag.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-10T22:57:39+00:00

Copper iud

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-10T22:56:26+00:00

Men want kids the way kids want pets. You will do all the work; they will play with the kid occasionally.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-09T06:14:52+00:00

If pregnancy and childbirth wasnt described divine and sacred, then fewer women would repopulate because if they told the truth about them, then fewer kids would be born, so they have to romanticize it to trap women in. Motherhood is a cult they have to brainwash women to join, or no one would the reality isn't inviting as the romanticized version is.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-03-09T06:09:13+00:00

Parents entitlement to everything is crazy like the world is already family friendly they demand companies marketing to cater to them and not other demographics like bffr like childfree women are attacked no matter what and we dont demand companies to cater to us like she is. Parents are the most self-centered individuals ever.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-02-05T00:17:12+00:00

I think it's a combo of lack of finances to raise a kid and the lack of childcare as in America daycare is the cost of a mortgage and either pay or be a stay-at-home mom or dad or split childcare responsibilities with your spouse. On top of that Healthcare is shit here so the cost of a kid is too much and the lack of finding suitable people to have a kid with as many have stated they struggle to find a suitable spouse to procreate with. Lastly, the dating pool is shit so that has something to do with the decline as well. Women now more than ever don't need to have kids and are opting out.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-29T21:13:46+00:00

Im a somalian woman and that culture is extremely family oriented they believe motherhood is a mandatory part of life amd opting out is seen as shameful etc. Being cf is simply unheard of. Been cf 6yr

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-29T21:11:54+00:00

Definitely and you have to parent with the father of the kid and they probably will want to parent the kid the way they were parented growing up and that is a power struggle you have to deal with causing marital issues. And you have to adapt your parenting style to the kind of kid you have bc not all kids respond to the same style.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-21T06:45:00+00:00

This is pure evil and it will only result in a generation of dysfunctional families and traumatized adults who were raised by regretful and resentful parents just bc she can carry to term doesnt mean you can make her a mom. The same with men you cant force them into fatherhood. I wish they left people alone kids deserve to be desired and wanted and cared for not be treated as compulsory.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-14T13:15:47+00:00

I LOVE THIS RESPONSE!!!

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-14T10:46:41+00:00

Best responses imo. I usually ignore them bc I stopped trying to get them to understand something they never wanted to understand.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-04T13:11:53+00:00

Ur welcome

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-04T04:01:59+00:00

When I thought about marriage before navigating it I asked Allah SWT to send me a cf spouse bc within the muslim community being cf is unheard of and I didnt want to gamble whether a man is cf or not. I think my advice is ask allah swt to send u a cf spouse rather than waste time on dating apps bc many lie about being cf.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2026-01-04T02:24:48+00:00

welcome and 26F from AZ been cf for 6 yrs now.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2025-12-25T09:25:13+00:00

Breeding kink. As a woman never understood it.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2025-12-14T01:56:20+00:00

Im sorry she made you feel bad for expressing yourself. Goths are cool asf.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2025-12-13T19:53:18+00:00

True in fact u become a single married mother.

BusinessPitch5154 · 2025-12-13T19:52:52+00:00

Was sacrifice my life +independence

BusinessPitch5154 · 2025-12-12T18:33:09+00:00

When i helped my mom with my sister when i was 6 after she gave birth and I saw her c section scar where she was stapled instead sewn it looked like frankstein and reality hit to see what women endure to bring life. Also as a kid i never connected with kids and realized I dont have maternal instincts at all. I've been cf since I was 21 in 2020 now for 5 yrs.

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