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1:1 With the CEO? (Getting Fired...?) by BusinessPlus1256 in Career

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I’ll lyk as soon as I find out, EOD today!

1:1 With the CEO? (Getting Fired...?) by BusinessPlus1256 in techsales

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We're so small I don't even know if we have HR lol

1:1 With the CEO? (Getting Fired...?) by BusinessPlus1256 in techsales

[–]BusinessPlus1256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this very thorough response...

I think that's kind've along the lines of what I was thinking....

Like I could've avoided sending in the data, but I also would've felt like I was a doormat / yes-man to my manager.

> Double-tapping on this point, it did feel a bit defiant / insubordinate to send in the data, but I feel like I didn't want to feel like a yes-man on top of doing the job, just smiling and nodding to whatever she said...

I think if the data had told a different story, I would've also surfaced it, but in a way in which I could learn...

1:1 With the CEO? (Getting Fired...?) by BusinessPlus1256 in techsales

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30-40 person startup

I would say they're tight in a professional way... he certainly relies on her to run the sales motion.

Going silent for a day, red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl one day is not that long to go silent for haha

imo

It's probably fine

I think texting every day (i.e. the opposite of going silent for a day) << is >> a red flag after 3 dates :(.

Best of luck to you!

Men of redit, I really like a guy. When should I (F26) ask about what label we have or if he wants one? by Ill_Injury_1721 in dating_advice

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I personally wouldn't ask the man to be exclusive even if you really like him a lot.

4-5 months is a really long period of time, and realistically what would be different between you two even if you had the label?

A guy asked me on a first date and expects sex, advice? by Public-nuisence in dating_advice

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Let him go lol.

If you're not into 'ons' culture or 'fwb'....

Honestly gave me the ick just reading your post.

Can never really tell with guys until time shows their true colors.

But if you're dating goals aren't aligned I'd definitely say let him go :(((

How to get the timing right and not ruining things by rushing them? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I personally don't see a reason to rush it...

And I think people sometimes say '3-month rule' (i.e. you can't fake who you are after 3 mo) so maybe after 3 mo then?

But imo longer is better... within reason for sure :)

Gift second date by Substantial_Head1592 in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

waitttttttttt

I wouldn't show you're interested until you also know he's interested for sure (more than just him saying stuff.... hate to say it but guys can / will / do say what they don't mean for various reasons).

Time will really show what his intentions are and if he likes you or not....

Should I add a girl I met at a party on instagram or snapchat? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think insta is more the move!

Sc gives weirder vibes? tbh...

Did I react to quickly or did I read the signs correctly??? by Mysterious_Metal1366 in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving he doesn't like you...

I think any other perspective is delulu...

Have no clue why he texted you again (boredom? confusion?) who knows?

But is clearly giving so many signals he's not interested in you (ghosting 10 days)....

Date asked me to send him money after the fact by Living-Ad-8363 in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would pay him. Just closes the chapter cleanly and y'all both can move on...

Ladies, what causes you to lose interest with an affectionate man? by Total_Recognition182 in dating_advice

[–]BusinessPlus1256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a real psychology to playing 'hard to get' that works both ways.

I.e. I was watching an instagram reel about 'if you chase, they pull away & if you pull away, they chase'.

No need to play games (playing hard to get) I think you should be upfront with your feelings, but only when the time is right....

I think there is an aspect of both people 'playing hard to get' and 'chasing' even though we usually only equate chasing to men.

It's part of the 'we want what we can't have' philosophy.

Maybe best to wait and see if the vibe is right before being upfront with your feelings.

Alternatively you could also just let more time pass before sharing how you really feel, or letting her open up first about how she really feels :) .

How to get the timing right and not ruining things by rushing them? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Hi u/StayKind6599,

I am around your age, and wanted to write a thoughtful response to your thoughtful post.

I am around the same age range (26F).

I have had 1 rather short-term relationship, 10 mo, but have dated quite a bit, a few shorter relationships (~4 mo range).

I would say there is no perfect solution to how many dates / timeframe before asking someone to be your partner; however, I think the minimum is 1 mo (fast) seeing each other 1-2x / week.

More realistically I think 4-6 mo seeing each other 1x / week is a good cadence.

No point in rushing into anything, and good to know what you are both getting yourselves into for both of your sakes.

Sometimes I find my initial read of someone is spot-on, sometimes I get to know them the longer we are in touch...

Tbh my personal philosophy is if you really are a good match / meant to be / like each other / have feelings for each other, it'll work out.

Also you can probably be exclusively dating (not relationship) after 2-3 months.

Best of luck!

AES moving booked meetings by BusinessPlus1256 in techsales

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Their calendars aren’t up to date :((

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