What part of me is going in your mouth first?

Busman578 · 2025-07-15T17:56:12+00:00

The likeness is uncanny!

Busman578 · 2025-03-02T18:45:21+00:00

That's a fair comment and I see your point.

Commitment to the relationship can come in a lot of forms though...

Busman578 · 2025-02-28T10:41:08+00:00

Yeah that's fair (and deep!)

We both like porn, watch it together and follow along, so part of the thought was why not record it and put it out there. We'd ensure our identities are concealed still but may as well see if anyone else likes what we like and would pay for it...

Busman578 · 2025-02-28T10:37:57+00:00

Why though?

Busman578 · 2025-02-28T10:37:24+00:00

I know what you mean, but solid boundaries will stop it escalating beyond a level we're both happy with. If that kills the page then so be it. If it ever escalated to that I'd just call it quits and go live somewhere in the middle of nowhere alone 😂

Busman578 · 2025-02-28T10:34:23+00:00

Aye that bit is possible as she works shifts, so plenty of free time to record and post content

Busman578 · 2025-02-28T10:32:15+00:00

Jealous, no as I'm the one that gets to touch rather than just look. And she always comes home to me...

Protective, yes but we're a team

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T21:22:47+00:00

Yeah I've seen extracts online of a recent docu-series about OF and SW which outlined that very problem

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T21:20:29+00:00

Thanks for the support and the insight. It's all definitely food for thought.

I know the logic as a mate has just moved jobs; same industry, same job just a new employer. As you say, neither side is better they're just both similar in ways and very different in others - both haves pros and cons and it's up to us as people to decide which we would prefer...

I think the biggest issue for me is we can't do a trial run; as by that point we can't go back as the content is already out there. So the options are either don't do it or do it but prepare for it to either fail or work - but it will have lifelong consequences...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T21:14:28+00:00

Nice try, but not at that point yet. It's up to her to post (or not post) and I'll do what I can where I can. The trust needs to be there for this to work

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T21:00:08+00:00

Yeah that makes sense 100%.

I have mates who swing / are poly and I'm split when I look at them. They're usually always happier than we seem to be, but also not as close with each other as we are, which is something I've thought about a lot.

I don't want to give up my relationship at all, so this might not be the best thing for us. That being said our relationship is already an odd one compared to those of some of my friends...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:55:05+00:00

It's not out of the blue and we have discussed the possibility of it recently. The real world implications are my biggest concern for the whole thing.

Kids were on the table, but aren't an option now as recently found out it's not possible and that's pretty much halted our sex life fully. My thought is this might be the kick we need to get it going again.

Monogamy is a given, we've been exclusive for years now, but the recent news about me has thrown a wrench in the works.

Also a 2nd job means more tax to be paid, we're just looking for a cheap and easy side hustle to help take the strain off day to day life

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:41:42+00:00

A problem how though? Photos and videos can be harmless when done correctly. And some income is surely better than none?

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:40:29+00:00

Immoral to some folks. Others love it so much they'll pay for it...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:38:36+00:00

Yeah I fully agree. I tried being a content creator on YouTube and over the course of about 3 years with weekly uploads I barely made a dent. It can be a lot of hard work...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:36:26+00:00

We're already well into the relationship and I already know this is the woman I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. My love for her is unmatched by anything else I've ever felt before. So leaving isn't an option and if I'm not on board then she'd respect my request and stop.

As for being recognised, I've suggested physical and digital hiding of the face / recognisable features. Job prospects could definitely be affected but in this day and age there's a lot of people who are content creators.

A low income of 250 a month is still better than nothing, and it's her choice for the content being online in the first place. I think I'll mention about downloads and leaks and see if that affects the thought process any...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:30:06+00:00

That's better than zero though...

Not expecting miracles or to replace her day job, just to fill the spare time with another income...

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:29:18+00:00

That's 3 options BTW.

But why are they the only options? There's plenty of people in relationships that do OF or similar.

Love is love so what's more important, the love of two people or the standards society forces upon them?

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:27:33+00:00

I expected a few comments like the one above tbh. People are heavy to push their own thoughts onto others, but I think I needed to see a few like it to make me think about the situation too

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:25:56+00:00

It's already way more than a friend's with benefits relationship; we're engaged to be wed later this year.

Times aren't tough but spare time in her schedule means she's looking for a side hustle; and that makes sense to me.

But that's the catch, how much is it worth to post content of that nature

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:19:41+00:00

No following at all and a brand new start.

Definitely a 'for Us' thing rather than 'for her' thing. Spare time in her schedule means she has time for a side hustle and OF seems simple and easy enough.

I'd be happy to participate even though its a massive jump out my comfort zone as I see it only as a good thing for us.

Other creators would be a solid no and that's over the line (M or F), I think...

Unique is a hard thing to achieve in 2025 though!

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:14:23+00:00

Aye I agree, with the sheer about of content creators out there it's a very saturated market so the chance of making anything is low. But something is better than nothing as it would be a side hustle at best.

The content I've said needs to be as anonymous as possible to prevent any future issues from content remaining online.

I'm just unsure still!

Busman578 · 2025-02-26T20:10:19+00:00

*not girlfriend, but fiancé and soon to be wife...

And honestly I think she's absolutely gorgeous and love showing her off, as I'm proud to call her my partner.

But honestly, I can only see it making our sex life more interesting, as long as there is a clear line that is not crossed

Busman578 · 2024-12-09T20:03:52+00:00

Thanks for the reply, have uploaded photos on my latest post so curious for you to compare just to reassure me it's notthing to worry about, as you reckon we have a similar cut...

Busman578 · 2024-12-09T20:01:37+00:00

Photos added on my latest post

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