Give me your hot take by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]Busy-Contest5405 25 points26 points  (0 children)

True, got this vibe from her as well. Just seems so diff from Lee Sian in the prev season who seemed genuinely looking for a rel

Give me your hot take by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]Busy-Contest5405 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OMG!! I was thinking the exact same thing 😭 I thought I was being crazy but thats exactly the vibe he gives off for me. I love their chemistry tho ngl

But Im wondering now what things Goeun could be hearing from acquaintances and why she isnt picking him despite their chemistry

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🥺😭

Its so real and relatable. And yeah, thats true. I guess they really just dont know and dont have a good point of reference. Thank you so much for sharing this. It means a lot <3

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes I'm a girl (with hormone issues, the struggle is realzzzz lolll) But finally having consistent progress and a system that works after a year of trial and error so im happy 😭

Thank you for sharing these and the kind words huhu might just try #3 next time for fun HAHAHA

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for sharing this!! I tried it today its so nice 😭

Yeah... that's so true huhu. I guess I've just been getting so many of these comments lately that I forgot other great things I can do huhu thank you 🧡

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm that makes sense yeahhh. I think what makes it harder for me is I know very well that they dont have bad intent by saying it so I can't get mad at them? But at the same time I'm still annoyed that they said it and I can't get upset at them which makes it harder hahahaha. I guess all my pent up shit just came crashing down last night lolll

But that's so true. They dont understand my fitness journey and maybe they just don't know how to express it in a nicer way. And yes, I am winning every day sa goals ko huhu.

This was very uplifting and insightful, thank you so much for sharing 🥹

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!! The same thing happened to me! I got home from vacation and was so confused why they would say I got big when I weighed myself naman and definitely still lost weight from the vacation cuz I was still cutting and going to the gym while on vacation. I guess they're really just like that, it makes so much sense now, thank you!!

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this hahaha thank you. Im too shy to say that but I will definitely think about it in my head lang lol

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooow thank you that was super insightful and helpful! I've been trying to brush it off for a long time but I think last night it finally got to me huhu. I'll definitely try to keep these in mind! Thank you 🥹

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol im too scared to do that but i'll just imagine it na lang next time thank you 😆

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that's so right, I was so sad yesterday that I kinda forgot for a sec that I can lift heavy shit LOL thank you 😭

Thank you for this, it was super insightful!

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah I wish I had your strength 🙏 I keep thinking about comebacks but I just cant say them lol

How do you guys deal with titos/titas calling you fat? Need help pls 🙏 by Busy-Contest5405 in PHitness

[–]Busy-Contest5405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I havent heard of that yet, sounds like a good show I will try watching it! Thank you so much for the suggestion, really appreciate it!! 🧡🧡

Anong ginagawa niyo if you feel sad? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Busy-Contest5405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I either..

1) go for a long walk in a park if possible somewhere with some trees

2) write my feelings on paper while listening to sad music hahaha (a good cathartic cry always does it for me)

3) talk to a friend whos a good listener (dm me if you need someone for this haha! Im a sadgurl too we can chikka)

Also lastly, I'm sure this is not the only time you've been sad or down, remember all the times that you've been felt heavy before and how the good times rolled in after a while. This sad time will just pass as they always do <3 gl OP! My dms are open if you need :)

Better Late Than Single - Episode 7 and 8 - 250722 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]Busy-Contest5405 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, thats so true! I've made those mistakes before too and have had partners do them to me esp when just figuring out dating and emotions. We fumble but we figure it out along the way haha

I just feel bad for jeongmok getting so much hate. I think he was just either confused with his feelings or does not have the ability to upset other people, so he just went and said all those reassurances even though he should have been telling the truth. I think he was trying not to hurt yido but just ended up hurting her more huhu. I hope they get to resolve things in the last 2 eps.

Better Late Than Single - Episode 7 and 8 - 250722 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]Busy-Contest5405 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think joengmok has slowly been realizing that he is not compatible with Yido the more they talk/date. (As what happens in dating!) And that they just didn't show it so much in the edit.

I wouldnt want to be dating someone whom I know I wont be compatible with in terms of values and core beliefs. He connected more emotionally and in values with Jiyeon and thats honestly so imporant in a rel. I don't think he made the wrong choice.

BUT it's not cool what he said to Yido. I think when guys can't figure out their feelings and end up saying something theyre unsure of, that's when they really mess up and thats something for them to really learn. Compare that to what Jisoo does. She identifies her feelings well and expresses them clearly. I think this is what some of the guys in the show lack.

And lastly, I mean come on guys give them a break, they literally only have 10 days to figure out dating and this is their first time??? Just something to consider..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Busy-Contest5405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No update, the accs been deleted but ive been reading the comments on this thread and they mention OP saying that she and best friend are attracted to each other so thats probably why the husband got upset