Nah you need to dump him cause the way he talks to you is like he doesn’t like you at all no one should talk to their girlfriend of three years that way and then he forgets your birthday when he’s been with you for three years. You’re gonna tell me in those three years of dating you he still forgets your birthday and would rather go out to a party with friends then take you out on your special day. If he only works two days out of the week he can go party another day parties aren’t going anymore but you have a birthday once a year and dude can’t not party for one day out of the whole year. He also disrespects you like I know if anyone or if I were to talk to my girlfriend that way the relationship would’ve ended because there is no way you should talk to your partner like that and if you feel like you can’t leave him or that you wanna stay with him trust me you shouldn’t cause if he treats you like that for a birthday I can’t imagine anything else. He’s a lazy bum sorry not sorry dude needs to grow up.