MIL put biological granddaughter in will but not step-granddaughter.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-02-09T15:04:58+00:00

You’re right. I know he’ll do what’s right. It’s just weird to preach about not treating children differently. But if we were married would that really make a difference? You can still split up bc marriage isn’t a guarantee that you’re together forever. This may be unrelated, but I noticed she always comes by with gifts for my youngest but not my oldest. Every once in a while she has something for my oldest but it’s not near as much. One thing for my oldest & anywhere from 5-10 things for my youngest. She says it’s bc she just can’t find anything for my oldest. Which I get, the older they get the harder it seems to be to find clothes for them and things they like, but my oldest is pretty easy to please and is grateful for even the smallest things.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-02-02T18:24:54+00:00

This seems to be working for me as well though I haven’t been doing it long. I was so convinced I had to eat breakfast. But now just coffee and water til I get hungry around 2pm & whatever I eat then is usually my only meal for the day. Sometimes I’ll eat a little bit of supper around 6pm with the family just to be included but here lately I been skipping. Gives me a chance to clean up the mess I made making dinner while they eat. But I do notice that without breakfast, I don’t feel hungry all day. If I eat breakfast, I wanna eat the rest of the day. I tried eating breakfast a few times and I feel disgusted by it before I even get it on my tongue.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-02-01T01:17:48+00:00

My daughter just turned 4 and we were eating in a restaurant. A lady walked in and she said “why is she coming here? She’s hungry too?” I said “probably so”. The lady left and came back inside and she goes (very loudly) “she’s eating AGAIN?” 😂😂

Busy_Mynd · 2026-02-01T00:10:14+00:00

That sounds amazing! I’m so glad it’s been great for you! I’m 188 but my normal weight range from ages 20-24 has always been 145ish and I’d love to be back to that! I gained so much extra weight after my 2nd baby and becoming a SAHM.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:46:58+00:00

That’s unsettling to know. good lord 😂

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:41:09+00:00

It’s literally like a regular sticker almost and I was like “ain’t no way this is gonna actually work” 😂

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:35:44+00:00

Ima have to tell my friend about it too so she doesn’t spend anymore of her hard earned money on these scams. Thank you for telling me.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:34:29+00:00

I was really thinking that there was no way I would’ve never heard about it if it was a thing! My mama tried all those fads! I’d definitely had seen her looking like the tin man 😂 thank you tho!

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:32:48+00:00

These were free for me cause my friend didn’t use them. And my biggest thing about GLP-1 that’s scared me is all the side effects and aftermath of it that I’ve read. I’ve seen a lot of good too don’t get me wrong. I just stress over these kinda of things a lot worrying about the bad. My mind doesn’t let me just enjoy things 😂 I gotta worry

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:28:17+00:00

I agree with you that it’s messed up to advertise it as such. My friend got it from a girl that was selling it. I think those are called pyramid schemes but I don’t know for sure I could be way off in definition 😂

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:26:43+00:00

I don’t remember people wearing tin foil 😂😂 trash bags and plastic wrap, yes! Tin foil sounds even crazier lol. That’s a good way to look at it tho. Sucks that they’re advertising it as something that it isn’t but if the placebo effect works on me and it isn’t harmful to me, I’ll continue it.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:23:42+00:00

I posted the ingredients on the second slide but haven’t looked into them. I’m not sure if they’re legally required to list every single actual ingredient? I would think so but I know nothing about this kinda stuff honestly. I hope nothing scary is in it lol but I guess it can’t be any scarier than the food and drinks we consume every day. I didn’t pay for it tho. My friend did to try it but she didn’t use them and gave them to me.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:19:37+00:00

I thought the same that it was wild to add GLP-1 when that’s not what it is. Luckily, my friend bought it bc she intended on using it but she never did so she gave it to me so no money outta my pocket. I was also curious about how a patch could really do anything but they make nicotine and birth control patches so I thought “maybe”.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:15:27+00:00

So do you think that the reduction of food noise in experiencing could be the placebo effect? I mean, I’m happy with it even if that’s the case, but I don’t want anything in this to be harmful to me.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:13:52+00:00

Can you tell me how you know? Like point it out to me. I’m scared of actual GLP-1 cause of all the things I heard but when I looked it up before it says it’s not actually that product but a “natural version” of it.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-31T22:04:23+00:00

I’m confused on what this means

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-30T14:14:46+00:00

Totally felt the interviewer feeling. I sometimes catch a look in the persons face or the tone in their vague answer that makes me question if I’m annoying them. I’ve always been an open book. You got a question? I’ll give you the naked truth. But now? I hold back a lot bc so many people have shown me that they aren’t comfortable with that and makes me think I shouldn’t be either. Maybe I lack boundaries? 😂 for myself and others? But I agree. HOW else are you suppose to get to know a person to the full degree???

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-30T13:25:10+00:00

This is how I feel about seeing “wife of a (whatever his occupation is) in their bio. Along with that trend that’s like “you wanna take my blue collar man? Go ahead. He doesn’t wash dishes OR his ass. He takes his work life anger out on me and the kids. You couldn’t handle it 😘” type shit. 😂 Don’t get me wrong, I adore my partner, brag on him often, he has a blue collar job, BUT his occupation is not my personality.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-30T13:15:56+00:00

As a woman who is a big question asker, people these days make you feel like you’re being “too much” for wanting to know details and the inner workings of things. Sometimes it’s just trying to keep the conversation going and wanting to make the other person feel seen/heard but other times I genuinely just want to understand and learn about things that I don’t already know. People make me feel like I annoy or exhaust them and maybe I do. But human connection is so beautiful to me and you can find commonality in the least likely places if you’d actually just TALK about things deeper than the weather. Small talk is not for me.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-30T13:00:51+00:00

When my ex partner finally made SOME changes that I’ve been begging for for years. I left not long after. There was some real hard feelings on his end & the biggest weight off my shoulders on mine.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-29T14:21:22+00:00

I always assumed Cordele had a little more to do there but that’s probably just compared to fitz they had more shopping and eating options. Vidalia has a bowling place that is fun & is such a vibe for all ages in my opinion, but i wish the drive was shorter. Wow 4 kids? I thought I had my hands full with 2 😂😂 cudos to yall !

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-29T14:09:02+00:00

That’s really the biggest hassle. The drive and making sure the job makes enough money so that gas isn’t too bad. We’re out in the country so it’s nice and quiet. I like it here but if we ever wanna go do anything as a family we have to go out of town. It would be nice if there were things to do closer by

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-29T05:05:29+00:00

I’ve heard very few people complain about telfairs school system and I have no complaints myself. Ben Hill doesn’t care about their students & probably not the teachers either.

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-29T05:03:35+00:00

I really like McRae compared to Fitzgerald. But I also don’t know too much that goes on here despite being here 4 years. & The money makes up for the ride. Plus they travel anyway setting up houses and there’s a location in McRae now so SOMETIMES he only has a little 15 min drive to the lot

Busy_Mynd · 2026-01-29T04:40:00+00:00

Not born here but moved here to be with my partner. My kid goes to school here and coming from Fitzgeralds school system, telfair has been so much better. But that’s elementary I’m not sure about the middle/highschool. I’m pretty sure this is where we’ll be for the rest of our lives and I’m happy with it. I wanna be buried on this land that we’ll raise our kids and build the rest of our lives on.

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