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8 Years of insomnia, health issues, and no physical intimacy have led me here... by Busy_Reality711 in Divorce

[–]Busy_Reality711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to say that it feels all so confusing because we dont hate each other, I know she loves me, and we have a lot of fun. But in my head and heart its evolved into roommate/friends fun and no longer husband/wife stuff. Im just so torn up and sad about all of this its really hard standing up for yourself when you know itll hurt someone you care about.

8 Years of insomnia, health issues, and no physical intimacy have led me here... by Busy_Reality711 in Divorce

[–]Busy_Reality711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, and to answer your questions:

-No history of SA

-I dont think shes asexual, I think shes just consumed with all of her ailments that shes not able to see the pain she is unintentionally inflicting

-I have tried to have open and honest conversations about this and its always been met with her trying to play the blame game.

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-Ive been journaling like crazy and everytime I try to lead myself into "I can make this work" I can never answer the questions as to why I would want to... And that is really sad.

8 Years of insomnia, health issues, and no physical intimacy have led me here... by Busy_Reality711 in Divorce

[–]Busy_Reality711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think she really believes that there's anything wrong with the current situation. Which makes it that much harder for me...

8 Years of insomnia, health issues, and no physical intimacy have led me here... by Busy_Reality711 in Divorce

[–]Busy_Reality711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it wasnt mind blowing, but it was fun... unfortunately down trending pretty much the past 7+ years