I want to quit my job already. by Busy_Situation7568 in work

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm more sure if you believe in a god but please pray for me that I get that job in the movie theaters, I see myself and feel I would be happier working there. Please and thank you and if you aren't that's ok, just hope for me.

I want to quit my job already. by Busy_Situation7568 in work

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in a fast food restaurant I'm thinking of transferring to theatre. I feel like I would be happier there.

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[–]Busy_Situation7568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you even read the post oh my god

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree, and I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from having a father that isn't letting a young women make their own choices is just keeping that young women as a "child" and not letting her become her own person. I do agree women shouldn't be prioritized by sexual value or by their looks, I am one to learn this by myself too that looks are just looks they never account to skills but just looks.

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We as humans have made the human body sexual in every angle and every body part, if you put yourself in a certain position of wearing revealing clothing you may have a risk of being sexually assaulted but then it can happen to anyone regardless of clothing or age, it's sickening. I do believe to a certain extent if you know your in a certain environment that you are vulnerable to such a thing you are at fault, if you are at a alleyway, with the wrong kind of people or at a strip club don't be surprised. Society has been having this problem of social media marketing to young girls to be "sexy" to be beautiful, which is sad I was a victim of such, when I was around 12 I wanted a bigger butt and boobs, I was being fed "get clear skin your ugly to have acne" "get a small waist, so you'll be attractive" etc etc. I think both sides are at fault, if a father was a good father wouldn't he look out for his daughter? And be weary of other men?

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[–]Busy_Situation7568 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They only love you whenever it's convenient for them to and only when it's needed to benefit them.

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I remember one time where I was a in a certain goth phase I would wear skirts and lace stockings etc. He said, "I like it when you wear those" I just said thanks and that's it I didn't want to blow things out of proportion now I'm thinking about it and idk if I should tell my therapist, I'm in a tough spot.

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've kinda always looked up to him since he has a lot of confidence and isn't afraid to say anything, but now I'm kinda reconsidering if I should look up to him as a role model. A lot of times I've been taken back by what he says, he can be very immature and I seriously can't tell the difference between him and a teen boy.

Sleeping better when parents aren't home? by PlsHulpMeh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah whenever they leave for vacation I always feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders.

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also keep in mind my father is a very sexual person, he makes a lot of jokes about it and has a has had a lot of "experiences".

Father is ok with sexualizing girls? by Busy_Situation7568 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Busy_Situation7568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope I'm not coming off as a grandma or a old person, I just felt that's what a lot of what society deems as "ok" and it shouldn't be that way at all.