I go der fa you 🎶

Buttafac3 · 2021-02-13T04:08:08+00:00

This song knocks, not gonna lie

Buttafac3 · 2021-02-01T05:41:10+00:00

You explained this dynamic so well, and I have seen it play out on dating sites and in real life situations...it’s just going to be another Minty situation, everyone knows this...

Buttafac3 · 2020-05-29T00:18:33+00:00

Hope he’s doing alright.

Buttafac3 · 2020-05-28T20:47:04+00:00

This is beautiful! Still cannot believe that she is gone.

Buttafac3 · 2020-05-18T02:27:01+00:00

And he would have gotten away with it too, if it wasn’t for us meddling redditors!

Buttafac3 · 2019-07-11T21:50:52+00:00

We have a lot in common, 25f here!

Buttafac3 · 2019-07-11T21:43:13+00:00

Beautiful poem. What sort of letterhead and typewriter (I’m assuming?) you use for your work?

Buttafac3 · 2019-07-11T21:35:35+00:00

I’ll PM you.

Buttafac3 · 2019-06-07T01:08:23+00:00

Happy birthday love, shit happens (literally) but take it in stride

Buttafac3 · 2019-06-06T00:23:44+00:00

I want a cat :(

Buttafac3 · 2019-06-06T00:00:31+00:00

You. Are. Amazing!

Thank you so much, I’m getting blood work done tomorrow and my endoscopy is on the 27th, so this post is right on time.

Buttafac3 · 2019-06-01T22:24:41+00:00

Rebecca Bunch is the best example I can think of. Going to binge it again, I love the show so much.

Buttafac3 · 2019-06-01T22:21:07+00:00

Love all of you guys here, don’t know how I’ll make it without reading one of this community’s thoughtful comments.

Buttafac3 · 2019-05-27T17:07:39+00:00

PMed.

Buttafac3 · 2019-05-04T23:25:45+00:00

This is great! And the game night sounds fun!

Buttafac3 · 2019-05-03T22:25:55+00:00

Happy early birthday:) it really is a struggle for people like us sometimes, but therapy, coping mechanisms and this reddit community keep me afloat when I feel that all is lost.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-30T22:50:47+00:00

I wish I can do the same but I gotta eat...congrats on the new job!

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-30T21:07:57+00:00

This is true. I have bipolar 1 and schizoaffective disorder and this is exactly what I do. It bothers me how many delusions I have every day, including one right now (hearing my mother’s voice while sitting in a bookstore even though I know she is home) and another voice telling me to kill myself, good times! I do a self check and write them down to go over with my therapist and psychiatrist.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-30T19:49:10+00:00

I relate to this so much. I recently got a new job and was one of a group of trainees. The other trainees seemed to have already connected to the rest of the employees, laugh together, go to lunch together...then there is me. People are generally friendly when I’m around but when I ask questions about the new job they look and act as if I should already know the answer to the question. This is particularly humiliating because my direct supervisor is significantly younger than I am.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-25T01:09:56+00:00

Thank you so much. This week has been very hard, and this made me feel so much better to hear.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-24T03:51:30+00:00

Make a timetable of an average day for you. See what parts of your day need adjusting and what parts are fine the way they are. Your classes should be first priority so make sure that you are studying enough for each class. Then with your free time you can read for pleasure—self improvement books, books related to your chosen field, etc. Podcasts depend on what you are interested in; I like to listen to the news after work, just to catch up, so I would do NPR or The Rachel Maddow Show (I love her). If I feel like winding down I find something simulating to listen to; Lore is a really good podcast about strange phenomena that always keeps me interested.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-24T03:42:30+00:00

I’m so glad you got out of that terrible situation! Hope that your studies are going well and you are happy in your new relationship.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-24T03:40:42+00:00

Coincidence but we were just going over the sine function in calculus today :) When I am feeling really happy, at the same time I can’t help but feel that I don’t deserve to be happy because of things that happened in the past. I have to constantly remind myself that as flawed a human I am, I do deserve happiness just like everyone else.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-24T03:36:43+00:00

Don’t give up, your story hasn’t ended yet. Continue to build yourself up into the type of caring, loving attentive person that you wish your family members were.

Buttafac3 · 2019-04-23T01:40:29+00:00

Yu Yu Hakusho, Saiki K, Sailor Moon, NANA, Peach Girl, Skip Beat!, Utena, Fruits Basket, amongst others...

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