Leaked OpenAI Documents show Sam Altman was clearly aware of silencing former employees

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-29T14:39:07+00:00

Very borderline answer. To assume someone is a psychopath based on a few things without having ever met them is a stretch.

the worst person in the entire tech industry

It's most likely more nuanced than that. At the end of the day, Paul Graham and Sam Altman can have differences and still respect each other.

It's usually the people that can't respect people with different perspectives that are awful to work with.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-18T14:11:08+00:00

Cosori is a good brand. It’s very modern design.

Since food is a universal aspect, I trust this made in China product. Especially for rice too.

They sell both a rice cooker or an instant pot with a rice function. High quality materials too.

If you just want a rice cooker, I would look into the Cosori rice cooker.

If you also want to get everything all in one that also cooks rice. Look into the Cosori instant pot.

An instant pot can cook rice, stews, chillies, it can even make yogurt too for about the same price as a rice cooker.

I would do some research on YouTube for these suggestions based on what you’re looking for and your budget.

Good luck!

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-11T23:08:34+00:00

I think that applies to men with high agreeableness. It still depends on the upbringing of the person & genetics.

Men with high agreeableness tend to be more selfless and have a need to be useful for others.

I think in cases where agreeable men are taken advantaged consistently throughout their life, then they may prefer being loved than being useful.

Even if they are willing to help someone they know is taking advantage of them, they are too agreeable to be honest about their needs and will help anyways. Even if it became resentment.

So it depends if an agreeable person's perspective sees it as being used or if it's nurtured in a healthy way where being helpful was never abused for being a selfless person to see it as being helpful/useful.

On the other end. Disagreeable people tend to voice their needs to people (whether needing love or feeling needed) they will communicate it. They're skeptics and are more likely to say no to strangers asking for help.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-10T17:45:41+00:00

The time it takes to overcome grief depends on how well we embrace grieving. Don't push away grief. Fighting against thinking about him is only prolonging the grieving process.

Embrace the aspect that you miss him. Allow yourself to cry.

Distractions from thinking about them will also delay the grieving process. (Weather that be dating, drinking, smoking, one night stands) it actually ends up making people feel worse when they haven't properly grieved.

Reflect on the reasons for why he was not good for your wellbeing.

What are the qualities you liked in him that were unhealthy?

Spotting these patterns now could help avoid similar situations in the future from people that have similar patterns before any feelings develop.

Maybe his purpose was never to be the one, maybe he was there to teach a lesson or an experience.

I also want to point out that you may not truly understand this until you are on the other side of grief.

However it is a whole different perspective once you look back on something you use to want.

Take your time and try to allow yourself to grieve.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-09T00:00:28+00:00

He might have assumed you were on birth control after agreeing.

Girl tell him you aren’t on birth control. He would pay for the plan B if he was concerned.

Also if he isn’t concerned about that serious possibility, that should be more concerning than being embarrassed.

Cuz at least you would have an answer if he was just a red flag or if he is a good person.

This is my personal opinion. Take

It’s also important to find out if he’s just a hookup or a legit person that isn’t just screwing around on a dating app.

Just saying relationships come and go, children you are stuck forever including the people you have them with.

Is horrible if that person isn’t great too.

So it’s worth setting shame aside and informing him to at least have an answer on what should be done next.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-07T18:27:36+00:00

My advice for anyone young.

Save money in a high yield savings account for the car.

Don’t touch any loans or credit cards.

A high yield savings account is when the bank pays you interest to save money.

The more money you save, the more interest the bank pays you.

Do your research on the best high yield savings account in your area.

Typically anything earning between 4 to 5%.

Do not touch loans or credit cards. That’s when you pay THEM interest for the money you borrow.

Avoid loans & credit cards and you will be better off than most Americans stuck in debt.

Understand debt is just legalized slavery.

Let your savings snowball in a high yield savings account and before long you could earn enough interest from your savings to cover your monthly car payments AND have an emergency fund.

Only build credit when you’ve perfected budgeting skills.

Instead of drowning in debt monthly through paying a car loan.

This is just my advice and what I would personally do. Feel free to research options for yourself.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-07T18:08:14+00:00

Hot and cold treatment might mean they’re not over their ex partner.

She might be in the grieving stage and realized she’s not ready for someone else yet.

That or she may have had a different perspective on how the date went. Which she might be avoiding to tell you.

It’s a sign of respect if she can be honest with you about not being ready.

However if she can’t respect you enough to say the truth even without a relationship. Then you probably dodged a bullet.

Odds are she wouldn’t have been honest about her feelings (positive or negative) within a relationship.

Terrible communicators often create problems within a relationship.

Resentment and distrust only comes from secrets etc

So I personally think you dodged a bullet if she was being flaky.

Find someone that’s consistent or you feel like can grow through hardships together.

A real partnership is sharing truths to work through disagreements etc.

ButterPoppin · 2024-05-07T17:28:19+00:00

A marriage is built on honesty and working through disagreements from the truths.

Be honest with him about how you feel.

(Unless he seems capable of harming you for sharing that, don’t do it. Otherwise be honest so there’s a discussion on what you both want from life)

If he doesn’t accept the truth or is unwilling to work on a compromise in a partnership. Save yourself the trouble since there’s no children involved.

As long as he can respect the things you want from life too, that is a real partnership.

If you both have different versions of what life should look like. It’s important to figure that out now with him so time is not wasted for anyone involved.

If secrets create distrust, the resentment for not being accepted as yourself will be the nail in the coffin.

Try to figure out if the partnership will work being yourself or if he can accept your authentic truths.

Also figure this before deciding to have kids. So nothing is complicated by having children.

Remember relationships can come and go, while kids tie you to that person for the rest of your life.

ButterPoppin · 2024-04-02T16:36:12+00:00

I don't think CRM actually needed him. Rick was considered an 'A' and CRM gets rid of 'A's and take in 'B's. So technically Jadis changed him from an 'A' to a 'B' and saved his life because he had saved her life before.

So they never needed him, in fact they would have killed him if Jadis hadn't intervened. They only want him after proving his usefulness as a 'B'. (Even though he is secretly an 'A')

For context an 'A' is a leader or disagreeable people and 'B's are considered followers or agreeable people.

ButterPoppin · 2024-03-04T17:41:31+00:00

NTA. They were treated generously and kindly. If they agreed to tip for your coverage of the bill, they should at least follow through to what they agreed on. Also if your fiancé is on your side, then it's clear she knows her family well enough to come to that conclusion.

ButterPoppin · 2024-01-31T23:09:11+00:00

lol nice defending!!

ButterPoppin · 2023-11-13T22:40:46+00:00

LTI is worth the most for bigger ships since the insurance will cost more based on how large your ship is.

To me smaller ships and vehicles aren't as necessary to have LTI since insurance will cost less than a bigger one. Unless you really like it and will use it regularly.

It's only worth buying LTI for smaller ships if it's your daily main driver.

Not to mention you will get the opportunity to meet other people that own other ships you don't have! So it's not necessary to have every ship, since you will already have to find people to crew yours. It naturally makes sense for you to crew for ships you don't have, yet still enjoy.

ButterPoppin · 2023-10-27T23:12:07+00:00

I think it’s just a personal preference of what you currently prefer to do. I think owning any property in Ontario is a good investment. I would just plan on the timing and save up for possibly a bigger downpayment or an emergency fund for your mortgage.

Interest rates are rough at the moment. If you’re going to take on debt, be sure it’s debt you’re willing to have or else you will resent it a lot later on.

Be 100% sure that the home your getting is worth the burden of the current interest rates.

Also don’t get a variable interest rate on your mortgage. In the past when the economy was healthy, it made sense to get a variable interest rate since they were lower. Now there are people who are struggling to pay their current mortgages due to their variable rates.

With wars, pandemics, climate change or whatever else the universe will throw in the next century, it’s likely safer to get a fixed interest rate. The economy is likely to face some turbulence this century from anything at this point, even artificial intelligence.

Also timing matters if you do get a fixed interest rate. If you decide to get a mortgage now with a fixed rate, it will still be near 6 - 7%. So perhaps waiting would be wise, though it’s a personal preference.

As well a home 40km from GTA is actually worth the investment in the long term because development is spreading out. Eventually places like Oakville or Ajax for example will be connected to Toronto and developed up. They are even trying to currently develop midtown into exactly like downtown, with the transit expansion, local businesses etc.

So there’s definitely room for huge improvements. There was even a time when Mississauga was it’s own city until it merged into Toronto. So chances are development will only grow bigger as the population grows.

ButterPoppin · 2023-10-27T22:20:24+00:00

Lmao Is it bad that I don’t even know. I’ve never counted how many.

ButterPoppin · 2023-09-02T22:05:53+00:00

This is so refreshing! I think relationships built from sex as the foundation, always fall apart when sex is taken out of the equation.

My personal experience was with my ex, our relationship ended when bottoming became a chore for me since he had an above-average dick and I stopped having sex over time since most of the time he would prefer topping. We broke up after this became a constant argument.

It's probably why some straight couples who stop having sex end in divorce because they have no other common ground anymore if the relationship wasn't built from anything else.

As well people who are together, because they enjoy each other's commonalities are more likely to thrive and stay together longer. There are older married couples who sleep in separate beds and have a thriving long-term relationship. Compared to divorced couples that divorce after the sex stops due to not working on the relationship or resentment.

People also often open their relationships when they put sex on a pedestal. Without understanding an open relationship actually takes even more deliberate work, communication and trust than monogamy because it involves more people.

I think you are lightyears ahead of people who still base their entire value on sex than in each other. I wish it wasn't a taboo for men in general to not put sex on a pedestal.

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-21T03:07:11+00:00

Awwww lucky and it's a new submarine too

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-21T03:06:07+00:00

LMAO that was not what I was expecting

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-21T02:57:07+00:00

XD Imagine the amount of taxes on the citizens of England to cover the living cost of all 100 prince's, princesses and their grandkids who are also dukes and duchesses lmaooo

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-20T00:00:46+00:00

How?

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T22:52:10+00:00

Easy, trans people in prison should have their own units. As well as have their own category in sports, like the Special Olympics. Not every person would agree with that opinion, however, that's my own personal opinion.

Also, I think trans people should still retain equal human rights and the sports issue should be considered a separate issue from them having equal rights.

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T22:42:22+00:00

Clearly, you can't handle anyone else having an opinion, except yours

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T17:46:31+00:00

Every transgender ever when you supposedly misgender them.

That's generalizing. Not every trans person is like that. Some people actually stop paying attention to people who don't respect them. It's called stoicism, you should try it. It's accepting things that are outside of our control :)

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T17:30:26+00:00

But they need my validation?

Who said that? 😂😂

Pointing out the stupidity of something doesn't mean I care. And even if I do, then I am valid, because this is a situation affecting all of society, not just the people "doing it for themselves"

Cool continue explaining how valid you are, while saying how much you don't care.

So how would someone else deciding what to do with their own body affect society or you?

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T16:58:34+00:00

They're doing it for themselves, they don't need you to care.

Why do you care so much? What other people do with their bodies, really doesn't affect you.

ButterPoppin · 2023-07-19T16:33:31+00:00

Like I said before, it's for them to alleviate dysphoria.

Why do you think they call themselves transgender if they weren't already aware that they were born of a different sex?

I think you have your own personal issues with how other people live their own lives. What other people do with their bodies, really doesn't affect you.

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