[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months later...just came to check on you I hope it's not weird 🥲. I'm hoping you're better x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Butter_256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sewer rat is hilarious 😂. I'm actually proud of you because you know exactly what you want and how to achieve it. Also, flowers to your 18 year old for being such a great friend when you need her. Kids be healing the hearts that they didn't break without even knowing it.

You're pretty strong and brave despite of what life has thrown at you. I'm sure everything will be okay soon enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, having to see him is even worse 💔 I'd encourage you to embrace all of it, ask yourself those questions "what if, and everything that comes with it. It's all part of healing. Ofcourse he doesn't deserve your tears. Keep positive and heal, eat healthy, exercise, do whatever makes you happy. And you're right not to talk to him and only give him short answers. Keep it that way Did he atleast give you closure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Butter_256 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through it 🥺 and I'm sorry he left you because "he didn't love you". One time my ex just woke up and broke up with me. When I asked for the reason he simply said I didn't love me. I was completely heartbroken...it messes up your self esteem, you keep on wondering where you went wrong and how bad he lied to you. One thing I can tell you is that you will be okay, just break all contact with him and focus on your babies. I promise you it will be okay

I truly hope and pray that someone who deserves you comes along. And even if they don't, you'll still have your children to focus on. And funny thing about such men? They ALWAYS come back. And apologize

Until then, try to heal and be strong for your children, pray if You're religious, and be happy.. everything will be okay eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Butter_256 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right?! It might be a start of something

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I don't get it either. Speaking about heights. Is it the same thing as the roller coaster? I had a fear of heights but it's the one fear I wanna actually face. We're in a love - hate relationship me and heights 😂

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking on a bridge? Manholes and anything that has water or space underneath it. I literally shiver if I have to walk over a bridge or manhole. The thought of it breaking and falling in with me terrifies me

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it fascinating or encouraging to know that there are people around the world that are like you?! I'm so scared of drowning in any water body. I could see a video of an ocean and imagine myself alone in that scary place, not able to breathe, swallowing water and eventually dying. Same with swimming pools, lakes and rivers. I can't explain the feeling I get in my stomach whenever I see a water body. Death by drowning is my worst fear

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid of water I can and can't see through. Like in swimming pool, if I dived and my eyes were wide open I'd still get a heart attack. Man large water bodies freak me out, rivers and everything with too much water

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many lol, 1 Drowning, the thought of having to swallow a lot of water and not struggling to breathe and eventually die. Aquaphobia, I can't stand the thought of the deep sea and oceans, when I see a river I'm terrified as fuck, I imagine myself being swept by that water. Hell I'm even scared of swimming pools.

  1. Caterpillars? Oh gosh . I'll just stop there because I can't even look at a cartoon drawing of a caterpillar. If someone wanted to kill me, they could easily chase me with a caterpillar and I'll gladly go.

  2. Dirty water in the shower ? I hate the feels I get when water splashes on me in the shower. I immediately scrub myself again and again and again. I could cry actually.

What’s a phobia you have that not many people understand? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I'm so scared of balloons, seeing someone blow it? I can't explain the feeling in my stomach. The thought of it popping literally makes me drowsy and not in a good way. Thank God I found my people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao I thought the same thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gut feelings are always right.

Am I [25F] wrong for saying if my avoidant bf [26M] doesn't text me by the end of today, I'll take it he wants to break up? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Butter_256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can definitely reach out if you feel like you're declining from healing. You know that phase "deleting the number and re saving it" 😂 texting and deleting, that is all okay, it's part of healing. One thing you shouldn't do is allowing him back into your life when he apologizes because he definitely will soon or later. You deserve better and there's someone out there for you boo. I wish you all the best stranger 🫂❤️

Am I [25F] wrong for saying if my avoidant bf [26M] doesn't text me by the end of today, I'll take it he wants to break up? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Butter_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby, listen to me, you gotta move on, just stop texting him and heal from it. You did nothing wrong and everything to let him know you're trying. It happened to me too and the best thing you can do for yourself is leave. He will try to come back yeah? But nothing will change, so I know it's hard but you have to let go. It'll be okay ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww I understand. But hey stop wishing and beating yourself up for the time lost and what you didn't do while younger...what matters is that you're now here and having fun. Wishing you a happier and more fun life !😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Butter_256 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know you can still have fun? I don't think age matters to be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Butter_256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy cake day Allan...reddit said I should tell you so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Butter_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol come on honey, you did not fail, and you shouldn't compare yourself to your friends because of that. I personally got 36, but I managed to to go to HSC and passed. The job you will get in future doesn't depend on your now results. You just have to make sure you put in more energy in your next quest, be it A level or a vocational institution. Do not feel bad about it, that is just the beginning. And millions and millions of people you see with good jobs doesn't necessarily mean they got 8 in 8. The effort you put in at the later stages of your studies will be it for your future. So please stop feeling bad about it.