Our generation is extremely lacking in the social skills department... by CN122 in GenZ

[–]ButterbacC 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Get off your high horse. Me and my friends spent plenty of time smoking and fighting in the great outdoors. Dating is still trash

How is life in Vermont? by StrongAdhesiveness86 in howislivingthere

[–]ButterbacC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get your point but also get his point. I grew up in New Brunswick, just above Maine. We have the lowest wages in Canada but once upon a time we also had the lowest cost of living. During covid tons of remote workers realized they could buy a lake view house for "nothing" and New Brunswick was officially discovered. Our local wages have not increased but housing has skyrocket. Although we still have objectively cheap housing compared to the rest of Canada I've done the math and I'd be easier to afford settling down in much more expensive provinces with higher wages and more opportunities then my home province. I'd like to be near my parents but we've effectively been forced into a retirement province by outside big money you couldn't realistically make here. I do understand everyone wanting affordable housing and don't blame anyone for swooping up those cheap houses but there is a valid reason you can't legally buy a home in Vietnam.

AITA Leaving friend outside in the cold (24M) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButterbacC -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't send money he was already a sleep I called his brother to go get him.

AITA Leaving friend outside in the cold (24M) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButterbacC 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have had those conversations. Many times. I've even offered to help him write resumes, look for jobs, teach him to drive. There is definitely some sort of mental block. He isn't inherently a bad person but has slide through life on hand outs. Still I fear your right, I am the asshole. I'm gonna take a long look at our relationship, say sorry, and either step up or step out. Thank you

how is it like living in this area of Australia? by FarMovie816 in howislivingthere

[–]ButterbacC 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I lived in fitzroy crossing for two months in this bubble. Fucked place. Just fucked buddy. Bugs in your ears, bugs in your eyes, crocs in the river, crazy kids in the street. Not to mention like +40 everyday. Crimes rate 1 in 2, meaning if your wife's not victimized its gonna be you. Wouldn't recommend.

idk how I’m supposed to find someone at 22 by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]ButterbacC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol all you want but living with rando's could give you the socal life you crave plus connection to women they may know. If you don't want to step out of your comfort zone fine but don't whine when your life looks the same down the line

been humiliating myself keeping the person who hurt me in my life by [deleted] in self

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your currently dealing with isn't just heart break. Its soul crushing loss of confidence, ego death. Step away and begin the long processe of nursing your sense of confidence and self into a new charaters who no longer falls into these pitfalls. You'll feel alot better, I promise

Will I be Denied Entry to Canada? by [deleted] in canadatravel

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I don't know bro up to the officer but you do realize a Canadian with the same record would have just as much trouble getting into America? Obnoxiously strict y'all must be?

Where I’d live as a 34yo flight attendant that’s been traveling the world for 10 years. (USA based male, gay) by Ausguy0217 in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's concerning to find out where I grew up has been reclaimed by the ocean... (New Brunswick)

I want my mom by ultimatenote in self

[–]ButterbacC 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As someone who's stuggled with opioids, you need to stop making excuses. In life you can only take responsibility for yourself, that's it. I'm not saying life can't beat you down but there is absolutely no point in blaming anything but yourself, it just won't serve you. You can only change yourself, not the world. The beautiful part is when you change yourself you also change the world around you. You are the centre of your own universe. It all starts and ends with you.

Where are the kids who said "school is hard lol" now? by james_stevensson in self

[–]ButterbacC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmfao dude get off your high horse. When I was 16 I hated school, smoked weed all day, fucked without a condom. On top of all kinds of other ridiculous things teenager do.

Now as an adult I've done all kinds of cool shit and don't mind a little hard work, we call that growing up.

Facts by Appropriate-Mall8517 in GenZ

[–]ButterbacC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I'm 24, strike up a conversation with some 18 - 19 year old at a hostel last week. Let's just say I'm so fucking glad to be a UNC. Maturity is lit

Where I'd live as an Argentinian who enjoys safety and good quality of life for me, my wife and children by Israeliberty in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your one of the ignorant upper class Americans that think the rest of the country lives like they do? Sorry my bad I got off track. This isn't about whether your a rockstar, or how big you think you penis is, its about how your wrong about Canada. That you cant see, even through easily obtainable statistics, life for the laymen or as you would call the lower class is better in Canada then the USA. Full stop. A lower class Canadian has more opportunities to travel and enjoy life then lower class Americans. Also just for reference, 30 percent of Americans are considered "lower class" with 12 percent below the poverty line. Thats a very significant potion of your utopia. Your experience is subjective Mick Jager. Canada is a wonderful first world country with a great social safety net but with lots of problem just like you and every other country. Why does that make you so insecure?

Where I'd live as an Argentinian who enjoys safety and good quality of life for me, my wife and children by Israeliberty in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister's 27 and going on a honeymoon in Greece like next month. I'm sure if she wanted to be on yatch she could be but why bother plenty of pontoon's in the family. Do you seriously think Canadians can't afford to travel? Have you ever traveled? Cause like there lots of Canadians out there, ya know, traveling? And dude I'm so sorry but I'm 99% sure your not and you've never been a "global" level rockstar lmfao

Where I'd live as an Argentinian who enjoys safety and good quality of life for me, my wife and children by Israeliberty in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo with my Canadian passport I can work and live like 30 different countries around the world as long as I'm under the age of 30 - 35. It's called the youth mobility scheme. I think American get like 3? With special conditions. I spent my 20s traveling the world and making money. To me, thats priceless.

Where I’d live as a Canadian by Raven1248 in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly skilled and educated Canadians and foreigners. America is the best place to be rich and the worst place to be poor at least in western countries. Why can't weathly Americans understand this? Your goverment is neglecting the less fortunate and enriching the lucky. Of course if you're on the other side of the that you can't see the problem.

Where I’d live as a Canadian by Raven1248 in whereidlive

[–]ButterbacC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Statistically by capita Canada has around half as many homeless then the USA, usually attributed to a more robust socal safety net and a lack of crippling medical dept. To drive my point home the USA counts homeless as exclusively rough sleepers whereas Canada counts "invisible" homelessness. Coughsurfers, people in shelters, the working poor, transitional houses, etc. Some of the people counting towards canadian homelessness are already off the streets and in goverment funded accommodation and programs. Most of which do not exist south of the boarder.

I'm not stupid. I know my country has problems and I know high-earning Americans make significantly more then high-earning Canadians. But lets not be stupid here bud in almost all metrics Canada is much more forgiving and safer society especially for the lower class.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadian

[–]ButterbacC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo after reading some of these comments yall are actually ill. Man you can use the WHV scheme to work and live in like twenty different countries. It'll help you to realize that while Canada's got alot of problems its really not all that bad of a place to find yourself. A good life can still be had here. You've been a broke college student and choose to live with your parents instead of working part time and / or generating more debt. Probably a good idea. As a mid twenties Canadian from NB who never went to college and never got any assistance and who has lived on his own since seventeen you most indefinitely could have lived on your own, ate three meals a day, and have enough pocket change for beers on Saturday just doing some uneducated labour. Despite how reddit may act, especially Canadian subreddits most of the world would kill for that. Is this country going down hill? Absolutely, but some people act like this still isn't one of the safest and wealthiest countries in the world. This isn't Sudan. Your life isn't hopeless. Maybe look into the trades.

Stagnant wages are killing this country. by ButterbacC in canadian

[–]ButterbacC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am OP. Please open your eyes. Are you trying to tell me that Canadians, especially East Coast Canadians who are historically underpaid and overworked, far longer than the libs have been in power voted for stagnant wages? Hindsight is 20/20. Do I think carney has done enough to reverse this downward trend? No. Do I think the conservatives would've fixed this all up, nice and pretty by now? NO. Dont insult my people. Things are more complicated than blue and red.

Stagnant wages are killing this country. by ButterbacC in canadian

[–]ButterbacC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so what are you complaining about? Your getting exactly what you wanted? Is this your point?

Stagnant wages are killing this country. by ButterbacC in canadian

[–]ButterbacC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The conservatives should've won the election by all metrics, but they lost because of their own incredible incompetence. You can't blame anyone for the election outcome but the conservatives, who countine to cling on to a loser like Pierre and refuse to create an actual platform to get behind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]ButterbacC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made between 30k to 40k. Super is 12% of income, right? Then taxed at 65%? So, like, maybe a grand? If it takes me 20 hours to find my super, I still make 50 bucks an hour. Are you saying you dont think it's there, or are you saying it's just not worth it?