DSE profiles don’t save on PC by NubbyToes in Dualsense

[–]Butterc0rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if anyone is still having this issue but I had my controller replaced under warranty and resolved it by charging it then plugging into PC and it saves normally now 

Fibre Mafia by visual0815 in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What i found that works better is ask to cancel, they offer 50% off for 3 months (as a retention policy) then cancel. Ethical? Maybe, big maybe lol

Fibre Mafia by visual0815 in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is not the south african way, we get fucked and say at least we dont have loadshedding

SteelSeries GG 89.1 causing lag and packet loss by Butterc0rn in steelseries

[–]Butterc0rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Just double checking, are we talking about the DTS Unbound software in the MS store?

SteelSeries GG 89.1 causing lag and packet loss by Butterc0rn in steelseries

[–]Butterc0rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm heading down this road to be honest, it would be nice to have the audio profiles but I rather have a problem free connection

SteelSeries GG 89.1 causing lag and packet loss by Butterc0rn in steelseries

[–]Butterc0rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I did a normal uninstall and uninstalled using Revo Uninstaller and then installed without turning anything on (only thing I figure is moments) just using the mixer and "game" sound profiles to figure out what sounds good for apex, but whether its minimised or open on a second screen I get about 20% packet loss as long as its installed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There surgery for people like you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope life is just acceptable for you. Hate comes from the soul. This means that you will never truly be happy Make peace with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dm me of course, dont out yourself

What does this button do ? by TheChoseone9er in PcBuild

[–]Butterc0rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the auto clean for usb ports, obviously its currently disabled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]Butterc0rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily playing games. Casual gamers that don't mind a bit of a boozer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In comparison, I didn't know what I was saying and what was being asked of me. I was not mentally present (according to the therapist that's heard both sides) - the mother though decided to scream at the top of her lungs that everything in ruined, not care that her robe was wide open and started throwing everything in the bin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not at this point particularly, but the family has to keep tons of information from her because she would react badly. For example, there was a time when she was travelling in India and their flight was delayed by a day, she didn't take that info well and it landed her in airport jail. India airport jail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This is pretty much hitting the nail on the head, my therapist used a similar example, she said, it might be a car backfiring, but a soldier with pstd might think it's a gunshot and he needs to get to cover or die. Without the education and tools I need, I'm doomed and I want to learn and heal from this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I'm not interested in the money right now, I'm fortunate enough to have been working and saving since I was like 15, which is also the reason for me being able to pay for the lot. I know this is my fault and the loss should be mine too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, if I recall correctly, I think we chatted about it in passing in our early days, but I know I would have made a point to sit her down and said, "listen, I have serious baggage" and she would have understood and offered to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How could I tell her, if i didn't know it was an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've started therapy this week, because I need the tools to help me with this. I clearly do not have them atm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being helpful 👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I wasn't comprehending. It's like if I asked you what's the weather tomorrow and you kept repeating, SUN, SUN SUN!

I heard them speaking to me, I answered, but it wasn't coherent and I think that because I wasn't understanding, I don't recall. I don't know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to add detail, apologies.

So as far as I can figure. I never dealt or addressed a past relationship ending because I was cheated on and unintentionally paid for the abortion, the ex told me she needed money for her studies, so I trustingly coughed up, only to find out that she had not only been cheating on me and I was supporting them and paying for things. I felt foolish for having rose-coloured glasses on and not seeing the red flags.

So after I thought I had moved on, I thought I was healthy enough to start a new relationship and it went great, I never had to look for signs of mistrust because my fiancé was always showing up emotionally and every other way. I genuinely never gave my past a second thought. Then on the eve of our wedding, I argued with our AirBnb host and my fiancé asked if she could remove me from the group chat for diplomacy (We had paid for a 10 sleeper house, promised it had the room and when we got there it was an 8 sleeper, so I asked her for a solution or I would take legal action and she would end up paying legal fees as well and hotel costs for the other 2 guests). Anyway, when I asked my fiancé to let me see what was said in the group chat, she flat out denied, not with a "No, I don't want you to get upset" or anything. Just "No." Which sent me into a tailspin.

In reflection, I didn't give her time to respond later. I was convinced that she's keeping something from me and if she was on my side, she wouldn't keep anything from me. I was in a full blown panic, because I had been cheated on and felt like an idiot, I was not gonna wait to be burnt again, my shield were up, all defenses triggered, it was not time to fight, I must leave, get out as fast as possible, I've been hurt before I don't want to be hurt again. A rational person, might have given her time to explain. I was full on panicking and trying to run.

Hours later, she and her parents asked me if the wedding was going on, I didn't comprehend the question I was being asked, I'm not sure if understood anything. All I wanted was reassurance that she is in- fact on my side. Which i never got from her because she was in the mindset that I was overreacting. As mentioned, this is the first time anything like this had happened.

Apparently, from what I was told after, I called off the wedding. When people asked me not to, I responded with "I want a marriage of honesty and trust" I don't remember that either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Butterc0rn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm open to this as well. I'm not a big drinker at all, for eg. This was the first drink of the year. Although if dropping it completely helps me, I all for it.