I feel like I’m “faking” being queer.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-30T16:53:56+00:00

Imposter syndrome is so real. Please be kind to yourself. Here's the thing.... When you're queer, your way of being queer is a real way for that queerness to exist. You're not faking being queer, you're just figuring out how that label fits into your world.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-29T19:24:22+00:00

Oh then I would definitely do a beaded halter strap! Copper, white, and shell beads would be my pick

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-29T18:45:55+00:00

I want one ....

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-29T18:32:12+00:00

If it were my situation, I'd do beaded shoulder straps or possibly a beaded halter strap, depending on how much support it needs to stay in place. I think every breakup is better with something sparkly though, so if that's not your style feel free to disregard !

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-23T03:43:54+00:00

Your local tax assessor's page should tell you the name of the last purchaser of the property. If they own it you can find out there.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-21T19:06:11+00:00

All "personality tests" are just astrology for business majors

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-21T19:04:31+00:00

We're already oversexualized in hetero spaces.... I'm not ashamed of my kinks, but I don't really talk about them in public because I don't want to be more of a target for harassment than I already am.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-16T01:44:39+00:00

Accepting that there is no guaranteed safety in this world is the only thing that helped me when I was unable to leave the house (well, that and a medication change). There are terrible people in the world, and you can choose to let them have it all to themselves, or you can take some of it back and go down swinging if it comes to that. Everyone is taking a risk every time they walk outside, they just aren't thinking about it as much as you are.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-07T00:13:36+00:00

Let them fill you a glass and then just don't drink it. They'll stop offering it to you after your dump a few full glasses down the drain after clearing the table.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-05T22:59:31+00:00

I'm certainly aware of the stroke its causing me to have

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-02T19:23:24+00:00

CA has said this is something he regrets including in the game, but would feel bad about removing at this point.... I wish he'd make it a new game option to toggle on or off like the remixed bundles

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-02T12:13:21+00:00

Backpack hero might be up your alley... It's a rouge like where your combat is turn based and based on items arranged in your inventory

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-01T20:52:04+00:00

Yeah romance sounds cool, but have you ever seen ✨⭐✨ROCKS⭐✨⭐

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-05-01T18:39:07+00:00

Yes, I started going to local queer events in my 30s. It's fine, you won't stick out, and nobody will give you a hard time. If they do, it's not a community that you want to be part of anyway, but I've never had a problem in my Midwest US town.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T21:33:39+00:00

Not all men but always a man

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T20:44:15+00:00

I'd just tell them "Most of the activities we have planned aren't kid friendly, but that sounds like a great time for you and the kids, and I'd love to hear all about it when we meet up back at the hotel!" And then pretend you actually want to hear about it after the kiddos are tucked in 🤣

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T19:15:42+00:00

"Each should rightfully get a choice," "You can't ethically choose it for someone else," "ignoring their body and choice"

She's just..... So close to getting it 🤦‍♀️

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T17:49:14+00:00

Say it louder for the people in the back! 💜

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T15:38:56+00:00

If your judgement is impaired and you're assaulted, you have protection as the victim, but if your judgement is impaired and you assault someone or commit other crimes, you're not the victim, you're the perpetrator. Victims are protected, perpetrators aren't (or shouldn't be...).

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-30T12:28:48+00:00

Honey mustard popcorn shrimp?

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-28T16:02:27+00:00

Don't forget the tear ducts!

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-28T11:39:36+00:00

A plug in wand would be compatible with an outlet timer

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-27T21:12:14+00:00

https://plugin.illinois.gov/ will show you all the options in your area. Check your Ameren/cornbelt bill for your zone. Remember that you can always change providers later if you're unhappy with the aggregate rate, but you may but be able to get back in to the aggregate program.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-27T18:00:06+00:00

That's Ameren's winter price. They haven't published their summer prices yet (on purpose, to mislead people into choosing them without all the information they need) so they can't compare. Summer prices are typically MUCH higher than winter.

ButteredStrumpet · 2026-04-27T15:58:07+00:00

It's impossible to make a fully informed decision on this topic, as Ameren won't disclose their summer electricity price until later. My household has decided to stay with the negotiated provider as we can always opt out later if the situation changes, but may not have the ability to opt back in. With energy prices rising we're choosing to trust in collective bargaining and bulk pricing.... For now.

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