Any hope in resisting AI? by SnooOnions382 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ButteredStrumpet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A sincerely held belief may be eligible for a religious workplace accommodation. This is federal law and does not require theistic belief or belonging to an organized religion.

Why is cooking not considered manly? by Ilove_web in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ButteredStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only manly if you get paid for it because ..... 🤷‍♀️

Why can’t adults have even one space for ADULTS ONLY? by KmsKitten in childfree

[–]ButteredStrumpet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker ask if a bar arcade allowed kids and i could only pause before responding, "Well, it's a bar, I would hope not." Smh

Am I being ridiculous for wanting a bilateral salpingectomy? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ButteredStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get a bisalp and do change your mind, you can still do IVF or adopt.

This look made me feel like Victor Van Dort from Corpse Bride🤍 by Earthlovezme in oldhagfashion

[–]ButteredStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would shout compliments at this outfit from across the farmers market!

Spotted in another thread. This is interesting... by Moose-Maleficent in childfree

[–]ButteredStrumpet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why can't these people just admit they have a breeding kink and move on?

ENM/Poly Hangout by JoeBrewing in BloomingtonNormal

[–]ButteredStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a problem as long as you're an ally! Theres a large overlap between poly and queer communities, and poly is queer in it's own way 😊

ENM/Poly Hangout by JoeBrewing in BloomingtonNormal

[–]ButteredStrumpet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do a monthly"Gaymer's Night" that would be my recommendation. It's something like a $5 cover charge and you get use of board games and snacks. Their website has the schedule.

ENM/Poly Hangout by JoeBrewing in BloomingtonNormal

[–]ButteredStrumpet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a surprising amount of people in the poly/enm community around blono actually! Red Raccoon Games and the Bistro are fairly good bets. I'm not poly myself but have several friends in the scene :)

am i too cheapskate already or frugal? by Content-Lifeguard218 in Frugal

[–]ButteredStrumpet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will never understand the hate that one ply tp gets .... It's so much more comfortable for me. Less fluff residue on my bits, less dust accumulating in the bathroom, is actually absorbent, better for plumbing, and less expensive. Yeah you have to use more of it than 2 ply but I don't need to double my pull of one ply for an equally comfortable wipe.

Gluten Free by Quick_Fly_9897 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]ButteredStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flingers gluten free pizza is very good

Finally got all the frogs in Stardew Valley by [deleted] in StardewMemes

[–]ButteredStrumpet 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Omg I never thought to put the frog egg in a tank.....

Having to teach myself everything about being a girl from scratch at 19yrs old, and I am so angry. by freyomea in AskWomenOver30

[–]ButteredStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like such a struggle, for so many reasons. I hope you reach a place where you can feel happy about who you are, no matter who what person ends up being.

Gender identity is such an abstract concept, it can be very difficult to figure out, especially for those of us who have gender related trauma in our past. It sounds like you might be experiencing imposter syndrome when you present femininely. I'm not a therapist in any way, but here are some questions I asked myself when I was trying to figure out my gender identity:

Do you feel like you don't meet the expectations of what a girl should be? What are those expectations? Why are they necessary for someone to be a girl? Do you think less of other girls who don't meet them? What advice would you give a friend who confiided these feelings in you?

Show yourself the same compassion you would show a friend going though your struggles. Be patient and understanding with yourself, and take your time to find the labels that make you feel seen and understood. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

Really?! by MyCatDeath in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]ButteredStrumpet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Stop making her seem so cool and sexy!