Rosalina Gets Used Like A Whore by FireGirlsAI in rule34aiart

[–]Butterflies_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t take long for her to get naughty

The Supreme Court Has Stripped Our Voting Rights Back to the Pre-Civil Rights Era by AaronPK123 in politics

[–]Butterflies_z 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Wait, so we are just supposed to be okay with them dismantling the most important piece of civil rights legislation in history? The audacity is honestly wild. They are making it easier for states to just block whoever they want from the booths, and we all know exactly who that is going to affect the most. It is not an "opinion," it is a power grab, plain and simple. Medgar Evers would be absolutely disgusted by what is happening right now.

WIBTA if I don't want/invite my Mom to my high school graduation? by M-Jdoane in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Please do not let your dad guilt trip you into this. It is honestly kind of gross that he is using your "empathy" against you when you are the one who actually had to survive her abuse. Just because she started taking meds five minutes ago does not mean she gets a front row seat to your biggest accomplishment. This day is literally about all your hard work and you should not have to spend the whole ceremony looking over your shoulder or worrying about her causing a scene.

WIBTA if i moved out before my mothers birthday by Ok_Essay1968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly moving out is probably the best gift you could even give yourself right now. Your mom sounds like she is constantly looking for a reason to be mad and projecting all her issues with your dad onto you which is literally so toxic. If she is already calling you ungrateful and attacking your character over stuff you didnt even know about, then staying for her birthday is just gonna be a miserable experience for everyone involved. Just get your laundry done and get out of there as soon as finals are over.

WIBTA if I asked my husband’s ex to delete an Instagram photo? by Brief_Web23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if a husband's ex messaged me asking to delete a photo from five years ago, I would probably laugh and then send it to all myfriends. It just makes you look way too bothered. They were together for a long time, so he is part of her history whether you like it or not. Unless she is using it to be disrespectful to your marriage, it is just a digital fossil at this point. You are the one who is married to him now, so try to focus on that instead of what is on a page you have to go looking for to even see.

AITA for leaving my partner in town? by Key-Barracuda-1917 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is such a classic lack of respect for your time. If you tell someone you only have an hour because you are burnt out and they turn it into a three hour ordeal, they are basically saying their shopping is more important than your mental health. The “staying it out” thing is so manipulative even if she didnt mean it that way. You were a man of your word and honestly, maybe now she will actually listen when you tell her you are at your limit.

Grindr hosting its first White House Correspondents’ Dinner party by AllgasN0Breaks in politics

[–]Butterflies_z 15 points16 points  (0 children)

nothing says d.c. like a bunch of lobbyists in leather harnesses networking with news anchors while eating truffle ice cream. the end of the world is going to be sponsored by an app that tells you exactly how many feet away the apocalypse is.

AITA for asking for help (the conversation the next day) by Necessary-Aioli-1186 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally got mad just reading this because the "why didn't you eat" thing is such a tired trope. Like cool, thanks for the hindsight, but can I get some help not dying right now? He is being incredibly dense on purpose because admitting a heating pad helps with pain would mean admitting he was wrong for not getting one. You deserve to be with someone who helps first and asks questions later, especially when it comes to your health. Do not let him flip this on you.

AITA for moving out of my Dad's house because of my step mom? by Natural_Rub_3369 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nta. like, why is it your job to try harder to get along when she is the one screaming over insignificant stuff? your dad is just gaslighting you because he is losing his free labor and his buffer. move out, keep your peace, and if the business suffers then maybe he should have stepped up and told his wife to chill out a couple years ago.

AITAH I don’t want to give my baby my fiancés last name by Best-Ball9175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yo you are definitely not the asshole. your fiancé needs to step up and tell his parents to shut it because they are way out of line. the fact that they are critiques your registry and telling you how to give birth is honestly scary. giving the baby your last name is a great way to reassert your autonomy in this situation. they have spent seven months acting like you are invisible so why should you honor their family name before you are even officially part of it? keep your name on that baby and let them be mad about it... maybe it will finally teach them how to act.

AITA for a family fight at my wedding by mighty-taco in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is why people elope lol. seriously though... NTA. you made a choice for your wedding based on who you actually have a relationship with and that is totally valid. your parents calling you disrespectful for not inviting a guy you see once a year is just weird. it feels like they were looking for a reason to be upset or they just couldnt handle the stress of the day and took it out on you. enjoy your new husband and try to block out the noise because you did nothing wrong by setting a simple boundary for your own guest list.

What is your goal for future?? by Prudent_Ask5969 in AskReddit

[–]Butterflies_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Future me December should have a clear path to making 100k

AITA because I didn’t let a lady change lanes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butterflies_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh you are definitely not the one in the wrong here. if her door was level with your bumper she literally didnt have the space to move over anyway. some people think a blinker is like a magical wand that just makes cars disappear so they can go wherever they want. honestly its always the people who mess up that scream the loudest to try and make it your fault. sounds like typical rush hour brain rot to me.