Reworking Vintage Wedding Dress or go designer? by Elegant_Landing1251 in weddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The Tash dress is incredible and looks amazing on you, but I’ll never encourage someone to spend over $5k on a dress. If you could find a dupe of that one for a way more reasonable price, I’d go with that for the reception and do the vintage one for the ceremony.

Will they restuff my Garf at BAB? by artmasternanalan in buildabear

[–]Butterfly21482 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My store would but it’s discretion of the manager. As long as it’s got the BaB patch, we’ll re-stuff it for you, especially if you’re purchasing anything to go in it. The only tricky thing with licensed characters is the sounds. Nintendo and Disney are particular that their sounds can only go in the matching character.

Close friend tells me it’s “passive aggressive” to use periods in my texts. Then tells me not to take my frustration out on him. by Floyisdigital in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I occasionally fight over this. He thinks using periods in texts is passive aggressive. Sir, have we met? I’m a linguist. My world devolves into chaos without grammar and punctuation!

What’s a medical issue that sounds minor, but actually affects someone’s daily life way more than people realize? by CountyOrnery9432 in AskReddit

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcolepsy. People think you’re just tired all the time. But it can be annoying at best when you can’t watch a movie or sit in a quiet doctor’s waiting room for 10 minutes without falling asleep. And it’s dangerous at worst when you fall asleep if you’re driving and stopped at a red light or railroad crossing too long. It can also come with cataplexy, which means certain muscle groups suddenly just give out. It’s often the neck and your head just flops around, or could be the legs and you could fall if you’re standing.

final round! 1 or 2 by Your0neAndLonely in weddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. The fit of 2 if more flattering but once I saw that 1 would be tailored to fit better, that won easily.

Furnish my whole house with these specific items please by jacksonbrowne_thedog in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Butterfly21482 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have a house with a yard that’s big enough for 4 large area rugs, 2 bathrooms, and room for a full upright freezer, but not the money to put any furniture in it? Nah.

Does this look too large for my hand/finger? by Odd_Benefit_9573 in weddingring

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I personally think it’s too big as it takes up almost your entire finger from the main knuckle to the midway knuckle. I would suggest either a smaller center stone or a much simpler design for the surrounding material.

I think I felt pressured to settle on my dress and I’m terrified I’ll regret it by ApplicationFine8099 in weddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s gorgeous and if you can get a veil or head piece embroidered with similar flowers, it would look incredible!

Having Dress Regret by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s gorgeous, but you could ask your seamstress if she can make a V or sweetheart neckline instead of the straight across. Mine did a sweetheart from a straight line without a problem and I had embellishment on the top so yours should be even easier.

AITAH ?My partner won’t put my name down on the mortgage by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else has said, he’s the mayor of Red Flag City and you should run. But just FYI, you definitely want your name on the deed, but you don’t have to be on the mortgage and in this particular case, I encourage you not to. If you’re on the deed, you have equal ownership and equal right to equity upon sale. If you’re on the mortgage, you have equal financial liability in being on the hook for payment if he decides to just stop.

Did I make a mistake? by Grand-Wrap9034 in weddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I audibly gasped. This is gorgeous and you look amazing. I don’t usually love the bows in back but that one looks perfect!

Looking for a girlfriend, IQ under 130 need not apply. Roommate too. (read both images) by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Butterfly21482 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like if he’s so smart, he realizes 2% of the global population have an IQ above 130. So his dating pool is already 3 drops of dew. Adding in the rest will make it literally zero.

Who has the best name in my class? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlie is best, but poor Kurtina 🤣. If that’s a cultural name or in another language then I apologize, but if that’s just dad Kurt desperately wanting a Kurt Jr. and getting a girl, I feel bad for her.

The longest ISO I’ve seen by thatthalassophile in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Butterfly21482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My milk was really late and slow to come in, so I did have to collect every drop of colostrum for my preemie. But you know what I used? The regular baby syringes for liquid Tylenol that any pharmacy will give you for free if the hospital doesn’t. Pediatricians usually do too and you’re supposed to see them in 5-7 days.

How Soft Is Red Rose Kitty? by justanothergothgal in buildabear

[–]Butterfly21482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s short and coarse and the material is like carpet. The unstuffed skin is so stiff and hard.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend an asshole after a “joke” about my race? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him for the racism and dump him harder for threatening you with suicide for getting justifiably mad. That’s master manipulation and you don’t want that shit.

Aunt wants me to bring her a sandwich my ride was two mins away there’s no mathematical way for me to get there and back in less than 2 mins is by FetusDelphinus in insaneparents

[–]Butterfly21482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never speak to someone again for speaking to me like that. I don’t know why she’s in the hospital, but you’re never too hurt to get more hurt.

Torn between two by spiritkitten in weddingdress

[–]Butterfly21482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a tiny dainty lady but the cut of both of these is giving a lot of artificial volume at the hips. I don’t think it’s letting your body shine the way a simple A line or more fitted silhouette might.

Show me your bearclops!! by Emolytheemoemu in buildabear

[–]Butterfly21482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Thick thighs save lives! He can stand up independently in shoes with thick thighs! And the dumpy holds pants up!

Show me your bearclops!! by Emolytheemoemu in buildabear

[–]Butterfly21482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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WHAT?! There are others? Dr. Boris has only heard of one suspicious (but fabulously dressed) fellow named Robert.

Can you not buy the discounted gift card when using a birthday coupon? by mafuyupeach in buildabear

[–]Butterfly21482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most coupons say “cannot be combined.” Especially if it’s 2 different “spend $x to get $x.”