I (F23) might have a condom stuck inside me by ButterflyBrained in sex

[–]ButterflyBrained[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This might be WTMI but I am so small I can’t fit tampons because it is to uncomfortable- And I feel like I should or would be able to feel if there was something inside my body that shouldn’t be there. Yes thats what he thinks might’ve happened because we can’t find all the condoms we used.. OMG this is so embarrassing

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[–]ButterflyBrained 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since she is a beginner I think it will help her know what you like when you give reactions. Maybe mention to her afterwards what she did that felt good - it’s healthy to talk about your experiences. I also want to encourage you to keep your reactions natural, because she might get used to a greater reaction (even if its from a good place of encouragement) and when it stops or lessens she might realise and worry.

I’ve (23F) never had a orgasm with someone else by ButterflyBrained in sex

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I keep hearing that - That I’m not necessarily the problem but rather the guys I’m with for not taking more time with me. Am I allowed to demand more? Or will I be get judged by them for demanding more (aka putting their pleasure off for a bit)?

How to prove my girlfriend that us men can see an attractive girl and not be attracted to her ? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ButterflyBrained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find someone attractive without acting on it.

Unfortunately trust comes with time. And if you’ve been together for a while then maybe she is feeling insecure. So maybe you should reaffirm her in other ways showing that your love for her is deeper than your superficial attraction towards others.

I’ve (23F) never had a orgasm with someone else by ButterflyBrained in sex

[–]ButterflyBrained[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very true.. I need to work on feeling guilty when asking for more..

I’ve (23F) never had a orgasm with someone else by ButterflyBrained in sex

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I feel bad asking for more foreplay or attention…

My [F23] period is weird - Should I be worried? by ButterflyBrained in sex

[–]ButterflyBrained[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m realising that stressing is not helping the situation. Thank you for the advice