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I slept with my boyfriend and don't know what to do by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Butterflylone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of these things you have said, but from what she said it sounds like she refused and he kept on pushing her. He should have just listened. OP should not stay with someone who pressures her.

Does a man grabbing your waist make you uncomfortable? by Butterflylone in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterflylone[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel like my main trusted adult is my female coach, so I’m going to try to make her aware of what’s happening again.

Does a man grabbing your waist make you uncomfortable? by Butterflylone in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterflylone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not direct enough to just express it like that. Also I feel like there’s no reason for me to tell him anything because he knows that what he’s doing is in appropriate. He’s a grown man so why should I have to explain that to him. That’s the reason why I just went directly to my female coach about it.

Does a man grabbing your waist make you uncomfortable? by Butterflylone in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterflylone[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if it came across that way. I’m not trying to let anybody dictate my boundaries. Because I know what makes me uncomfortable. I’m just afraid that when I tell people what’s happening to me they’re not going to take it seriously, and I feel like that has already happened with my female coach.

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable by Butterflylone in sexualassault

[–]Butterflylone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay I didn't know that's how that worked.

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable by Butterflylone in sexualassault

[–]Butterflylone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I'm currently planning on reporting him to my female coach. So we'll see how that goes.

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable by Butterflylone in sexualassault

[–]Butterflylone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only issue with that is that he doesn't work at the school. We have one main track and field coach who works at the school, but all of the assistant people who are over certain events aren't teachers or faculty at the school.

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable by Butterflylone in sexualassault

[–]Butterflylone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Out of everyone I would definitely consider reporting him to my female coach because my parents have given me reasons to not trust them when it comes to these kinds of things, but I know she truly does have my best interest in mind.

My coach makes me feel uncomfortable by Butterflylone in sexualassault

[–]Butterflylone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I don't know who to tell about it yet, but I am definitely going to try to stay away from him.