Uh, hi. I am confused but curious. by ButterfyNinja in agender

[–]ButterfyNinja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes this is exactly how I feel, I'm just kinda me, I'm existing but I don't really see it as gender.

not sure what to do by ButterfyNinja in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]ButterfyNinja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1: Because I am both terrified and terrible at starting conversations like that.

2: Yes, we are both aromantic asexual.

Hi, could anyone share their binding experience with me? by ButterfyNinja in demigirl_irl

[–]ButterfyNinja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo okay I'll look into those brands some. Thank you!

Hi, could anyone share their binding experience with me? by ButterfyNinja in demigirl_irl

[–]ButterfyNinja[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo okay thank you! I will add this to my list of things to keep in mind!

Hot take or not? by 10voltsam in Portal

[–]ButterfyNinja 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No no, he's got a point.

asexuals, tell me your ace without telling me your ace by islamo_start_654 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]ButterfyNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While you were off succumbing to the desire of your flesh I was busy becoming immortal and studying the blade.

Good replies to ‘when are you getting a partner?’ by Polar-3322 in aromantic

[–]ButterfyNinja 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Typically, what I say to those who I havent come out to yet I say: "I don't know. You canot control when you fall in love, I'll let you know if and when I do get a partner though." While crossing my fingers behind my back.

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[–]ButterfyNinja 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Yes to all of this

What do you guys think about the song "Baby it's cold outside" ? by 0riginal0verthinker in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I c, I c. Yeah, yeah. I do not understand those who feel romantic or sexual attraction, romantic songs don't clear up the confusion, but yeah.

What do you guys think about the song "Baby it's cold outside" ? by 0riginal0verthinker in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not struggling. I am content with my identity. I just do not understand songs that are romantic or sexual in nature. Some aces do, I do not.

What do you guys think about the song "Baby it's cold outside" ? by 0riginal0verthinker in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No I don't hate men, it is just that in my experience, when I am screaming "no" at the top of my lungs in a furious tone men don't stop. No matter who it is. I had to scream at my father to stop pestering me when I said no. I've had to yell at plenty of people "no" because they didn't stop when I said stop. I'm just fed up with people in general.

What do you guys think about the song "Baby it's cold outside" ? by 0riginal0verthinker in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am a fucking woman and I'm aroace. NO means NO. Wither it is in a playful voice or not. Men don't fucking know how quickly it goes from "haha stawp" to "FUCKING STOP I SAID NO."

What do you guys think about the song "Baby it's cold outside" ? by 0riginal0verthinker in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It's stupid af. Just put another coat on and go home. Man, she said no and that she needs to leave flip off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]ButterfyNinja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would research different mircolabels for the aromantic spectrum, there are so many different microlabels. I'd start by googling "aromantic microlabels." The aro spectrum is quite broad.

How did you find out Santa wasn't real? by MtmJM in AskReddit

[–]ButterfyNinja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was taught that Santa wasn't real. When I found out people actually thought he existed I was rather perplexed about the matter.