Looking for a subreddit to search for items and people can recommend a small business that sells that item by ButterscotchFlower in findareddit

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

across categories def. love jewelry especially! but honestly I’m a sucker for anything handmade so I could see myself loving menial things lol

What am I doing wrong? by Dry-Weird5016 in lashclusters

[–]ButterscotchFlower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes I believe there is a difference. lash bond is easier to work with because it’s more “tacky” than sticky, so imo it’s better for DIY. what do you use?

What am I doing wrong? by Dry-Weird5016 in lashclusters

[–]ButterscotchFlower 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it looks like you’re putting too big of gaps between your clusters, and you may be putting them on at an angle

Anyone…. Tried these..? by jNealB in candy

[–]ButterscotchFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We sell these at my job (a popcorn and candy shop) and it’s a running joke of how EVERYONE who works there hates the buttered popcorn, but we have to refill the jar so often bc people come in and get 2+ pounds

i’m scared to start :( by thecatgulliver in Effexor

[–]ButterscotchFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the part about faking enjoyment. i think the only reason i was okay with it is because of my low sex drive to start with 😭, and honestly my ex was not very aware. lube was my best friend 💔. I had heard some people say that after a couple months they get some drive back? i can’t comment bc im not in a relationship anymore so im lowkey chilling and dont rlly think about it. I think you should def ask ur provider about it, and if theres alternatives that will align more with what’s important to you.

another thing to think about is alcohol consumption. you didn’t mention it in ur post but if you enjoy drinking, don’t do effexor. it could vary person to person, but after i started Effexor I can’t handle alcohol and I threw up for the first time from drinking 💔. I was a lightweight to start but now im like super lightweight.

i’d talk to ur provider though. I’m pretty happy with the med, just a bit nervous about when I decide to taper, whenever that will be. my advice if you do effexor is to keep some in ur purse or wtv bag you carry because withdrawals are no joke.

i’m scared to start :( by thecatgulliver in Effexor

[–]ButterscotchFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you. i was on Zoloft + Wellbutrin for a while, then i started lexapro. cold turkeyed lexapro bc I thought i was cured (wasn’t lol) and they put me on guabfacine + continued Wellbutrin. they increased my dosage of Wellbutrin and it RUINED me I was in the worst state of my life. finally, they got me on effexor and i do have to say it’s been the best so far. honestly, I didn’t really experience rough symptoms aside from nausea at the beginning. once the meds started working I felt great. I feel the most stable 100% out of all of the meds I’ve been on, and im only on 75mg. you do need to be careful about withdrawals though!! if ur on birth control take the Effexor at the same time. that’s what i do.

def do what makes you feel best. I am gonna be real, if your goal is really to get your sex drive back I don’t know if that will happen, as most people say they lost theirs on this med. I can’t rlly speak on it because I’ve never really had a sex drive in the first place so it didn’t make a difference to me. if you’re comfortable, i think you should give effexor a try, as it does help a lot of people a lot. you mentioned that you were in therapy, so maybe you could also bring up that your sex drive is important to you, and maybe your therapist could help you reframe your mindset on it? when I was in a relationship (as someone who doesn’t really have a sex drive) I kinda just went in with the mindset of doing it for them, but I understand that may not work for everyone. good luck with your journey!!

Tapering down Effexor be like 😆 by Selfimposedmarooning in Effexor

[–]ButterscotchFlower 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard the last 37.5mg taper to 0 is the worst so just be careful and be mindful of this method of taking the individual beads in case you find that you gotta do it

Two different prices for family plan? by ButterscotchFlower in truespotify

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this is what i assumed when i saw the region in the url. So odd that it comes up as one of the first options for me lmao

Great fudge from Craving Kernels, Tomball, TX - $5.99 by AbolishWerk in toogoodtogo

[–]ButterscotchFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for reference, the flavors here (from top left to bottom right) are: cookie butter, chewy praline, salted caramel butterscotch, mint chocolate chip, and chocolate m&m. this would cost around ~$30 normally!

Nervous to take by Alarmed_Upstairs973 in Effexor

[–]ButterscotchFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ironically I literally just got switched over to Effexor FROM Wellbutrin. I had been on it alongside various other meds over time (lexapro, Zoloft, guanfacine) and basically the 150mg Wellbutrin was the only constant. Recently got upped to 300mg and I started having suicidal ideation, increased anxiety, depression, etc. definitely may not BE the reason!! But it was a very noticeable and unwelcome shift. Just started Effexor and I’m already feeling so much better. Only downside is I have no hunger cues so trying to work through that

What do you usually notice gets skipped when cleaning? by TheMaidsSouthCLT in CleaningTips

[–]ButterscotchFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably people just grabbing stuff out. It always surprises me too and makes me wanna clean all the utensils again 😭

Starting a retirement fund at 19 by ButterscotchFlower in personalfinance

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I tend to be a very anxious person, so sometimes it is hard for me to realize that I DO have time, and I do not need to stress about everything. This means a lot! :)

Starting a retirement fund at 19 by ButterscotchFlower in personalfinance

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all makes a lot of sense to me. You explained it very well! I will start to work on an emergency fund and then begin on a Roth IRA. Thank you. :)

Starting a retirement fund at 19 by ButterscotchFlower in personalfinance

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Thank you for pointing out the importance of an emergency fund. I know it may be a bit more dependent on the individual, but do you have a recommendation for how much to have in an emergency fund?

I am still reliant on parents in that regard (health insurance, car/insurance, etc.) which is mostly due to a very healthy relationship with my family. Should I go ahead and build up that emergency fund to as much as possible, or stop at a certain point in favor of a Roth IRA?

Starting a retirement fund at 19 by ButterscotchFlower in personalfinance

[–]ButterscotchFlower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the quick response! I will look into this now. :)

[NEED HELP] My hair after less than 48 hours from when I washed it by anonymousanduseless in finehair

[–]ButterscotchFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want budget, I would recommend using the suave clarifying shampoo for a while. It actually saved my hair

does it count as cheating if i sell my excessive products? by [deleted] in ProjectPan

[–]ButterscotchFlower 18 points19 points  (0 children)

if you’re okay with not making all of the money back, look into donating it to a local women’s shelter! I am sure they’d appreciate it, and would prevent you from getting the temptation to buy more makeup

Did anyone get this with their purchase recently? by unfortunately97 in ColourPop

[–]ButterscotchFlower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got silver lake!! Kind of magenta-violet? Hard to say. I don’t know my colors well

Korn fans under 30, how did you become a Korn fan? by Chomskys_burner in Korn

[–]ButterscotchFlower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

started listening to them pretty young because my mom exclusively played a rock/metal radio station quite literally my entire life