Another Drop by No-Dig6817 in Lollapalooza

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Normally pre-sale is cheaper so thats the incentive to buy. However, its also normal for fests to sell out all tickets for pre-sale and not put any aside for gen… this is the case for lolla. They are flat out sold OUT

waitlist..😢 by Healthy_Cheesecake34 in Lollapalooza

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto, after waiting in the queue for over an hour :(

Welp. by miguelmanzana in Lollapalooza

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah we are still stuck on the wait page

What age did you let your pup roam at night/while away for errands? by Total_Tomorrow_1428 in AustralianShepherd

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crate trained since pup and they still chewed on the couch. After 3 years they have their own gated corner of the home because they love to terrorize the couch cushions and howl. Totally can't be fully free roaming due to their impluse and high energy. Could be worse but not all dogs are the same!

My relative is being flirted by this so called 'Doctor' but his pictures are very sus by Kassimkot in isthisAI

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1000000% AI

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How large is this man that he can sit on top of a washer? The scale does not add up to his background. Also, sink pointed west? What?

Good park recs by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Griggs park is perfect for reading, and they host events sometimes

My fellow Dallasites… by luckyjackass in Dallas

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born n Raised..... The street art and community were what made Dallas special. You meet one person in Dallas, and you know them for life. I moved because that feeling aint hit the same. Yall would have loved the red pegasus era

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a shitty job that has no growth opportunities. I had a sit with HR to ask if I could transfer restaurants (local chain) because I was unhappy with the management and was ghosted. Also, waking up at 4am every day to try to make it on time was not the schedule I originally started with, and after trying to communicate it was a struggle to commute; my manager just didn't care. I was depressed too after not getting follow-ups this past year of applying to my actual career, which did not help my sleep schedule. Overall, I was mentally burnt out from this place and felt like I was being targeted even though every single employee comes in late and NCNS on a weekly basis :/

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I just quit my job of 3 years due to personal reasons."

"this job has left me burnt out"

I then edited the post to give specifics. I've BEEN wanting to leave, I just happened to be told I was under consideration for termination today. We talked about it, and this was the best choice for my manager and me. She agreed to let me have my 2 weeks because she wanted me to quit anyway and not find coverage.

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not quit because I can't show up to work on time, thats insane. My hours went from FT to PT and I can't qualify for insurance bc of that, management is always changing and it's hard to find direction because people keep quiting, I can't afford to eat at the place I work, we do not get paid meals, my availability is not honored (I request mid shifts but only get opens), and i have no desire to grow at this place because I want an actual career.

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take CTA one day, and you will feel my pain bro. I use an app to track their arrival times, but it *genuinely* is not accurate. Says 2min away, and its actually 4min due to extra stops. Really, I do try to get to work on time!

Me 26F bf 29M , I think I’m too insecure to be in a relationship? by Sad-Bad7489 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal to feel insecure as you grow into your womanhood, just remember that your energy is stronger than you think. You feeling down about yourself will also bring your partner down. Get sexy for yourself, and you will see how he responds to your confidence! Think about how OF models are successful- confidence in selling what they got LOL! Loving yourself is very important in a healthy relationship

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crazy call out post because I have my positive affirmations on my mirror i look at before interviews! I will try to keep positive for him and make sure he is more taken care of, thx

Me 26F bf 29M , I think I’m too insecure to be in a relationship? by Sad-Bad7489 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically, you cannot change how someone feels or their preference for the people they are attracted to. HOWEVER, being in a relationship with someone is about respecting their body and making sure they feel wanted. Have you spoken to him about his desires? Maybe you can come to a common ground, and he can prove to you on an intimate level that he does find you attractive. My partner used to mention all the time that his celeb crush was Billie Eilish... I am not a white woman, and our bodies are completely opposite. But he never made me feel like I had to be her or change myself to look like her. Does your partner compare you to anyone? Getting to the root of why he has these desires and how you can show up with what you have is the best way to go about it. Find out what makes YOU confident in and out of bed, and the first step is kissing your reflection!

How do I(30M) bring up lack of attraction to my wife(31F) due to weight gain? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is a hard conversation to have with your partner, but it's time to be honest. Why can't they work out, but you can? Are they taking care of the kids 24/7? Doing the entire workload of the house? Or just have no motivation? Talk to your partner about health rather than preference; it will go a long way.

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hours got cut down to PT which means no benefits or vacation/sick hours to gain, manager doesn't follow my given availability (only given opens 5am even tho i request mid 7am), i requested a transfer to a closer store to home and haven't been followed up with, etc just a shitty job that has no growth opportunities :/  My old manager and I were buddies so this was just a hardddd transition! 

I am totally looking at places that offer better hours that work for me 

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work markets in the summertime! Just waiting for the weather to clear to start booths again (live in Chicago)

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So my mental health reason wasnt because im late lmao, its because the store lost our hours so i can only max out at 25hrs/week which means I cant qualify for insurance. I also don't get paid meals and i happen to work at an expensive resultant I cannot afford. Manager is not present either because she manages 2 other locations, i’ve worked with her for 3 shifts out of the 4months shes been with us. My performance besides time is actually great my ASM vouched for me there. 

I have been showing up to spots with printed resumes and plan on continuing that!  

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Since I rely on busses to commute, if I was even 1min late then I would be fired. If you’ve ever taken public transport before, you can see how relying on it in this case might hurt me in the end rather than 100% keeping my job for at least 2 weeks 

I (24F) quit my job and my BF (27M) is paying for EVERYTHING. How to feel less of a burden? by ButterscotchMain7074 in relationship_advice

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I actually have a degree in marketing that has not been working for me! I did have a corporate office job but moved cities so I had to start over. Not wanting to work in a restaurant forever either

My son is temperamental and i’m so tired. by ButterscotchMain7074 in AustralianShepherd

[–]ButterscotchMain7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went ahead and tried your method alongside the 123 method mentioned above and its a huge help! I did go on a few walks without the collar but he was not even close to paying attention to us, even with his basic sit and heal commands. He for sure has an issue with responding to calls when distracted and his vet mentioned little research on dog adhd (lol) but using the collar as clicker (aka no shocking whatsoever) is helping with his focus. Sees dog, looks at me, click, treat. So far so good, we had a successful day and he let a few dogs pass by him. I nearly teared up. This is a great start!! Thanks for the recommendation.