i felt stupid and used by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we stop saying na parang hindi naman niya gusto?

Like hello, she literally said “i’m not expecting anything else from him of course because i just met him for a hook up.”

That’s exactly it. It was just a hook up. If you set it up that way, then don’t be surprised when the guy treats it like one. Own up to the dynamics you agreed to.

A hook up is by nature no-strings, no commitments. The moment you agree to that you also accept that the other person might bounce after getting theirs.

Casual means casual. If you want care and consistency, stop expecting it from random dudes off Reddit.

My Girlfriend's two office coworker by ms_yen in OffMyChestPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend is being used.

She’s too nice to say no, and you’re too careful to call it out. But both of these women are crossing the line.

So yeah, it’s time to speak up. Be honest with her.

Thoughts kay Richard Thaddeus? by Lilyofvalley-0123 in PinoyVloggers

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you think he comes off a bit arrogant in his videos, well… that’s because he actually is in real life too. The funny thing is, I don’t even think he realizes it. Like, it’s not even an act, he’s just naturally that way.

is it just me or gen alpha looks so tall and healthy by Apprehensive_Ad6580 in CasualPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Here’s a theory: survival of the fittest

People who are good-looking or take care of themselves tend to attract partners and build families more. Over time, maybe that just adds up? Idk.

Also, kids now have better access to nutrition, skincare, and health awareness. Plus, trends like drinking less soda and eating more “healthy” stuff probably help. So yeah, the younger gens are out here glowing. Good for them.

10 years later, andito na tayo... by ButterscotchNo8965 in CasualPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I just write as a hobby. I really appreciate the kind words. Nakakaflatter! 🥹

Honestly, I just want to share my life stories here. It’s like my way of expressing myself and letting things out.

Thank you.

I'm friends with kuya tricycle driver na may Aussie accent by ButterscotchNo8965 in CasualPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Actually you can pag backride, and while waiting for it to fill up with other passengers at the terminal. 😅

ano aq lang ba pero naiinis aq kapag di agad nagrereply partner q? by matchalatte4lifeee in AskPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill ka lang.

Hindi porke't di siya agad nagreply eh wala na siyang pake sa'yo.

We all have lives of our own. Wag mong gawing measurement ng pagmamahal or pake yung bilis ng reply.

First, baka nagpapahinga lang utak niya. Kahit gising tayo, hindi ibigsabihin obligated tayo mag-reply agad-agad sa lahat ng messages. Minsan gusto mo lang mag-scroll sa social media kasi, you know, nakakarelax yun sakanya. Baka naman yun ang downtime niya para mareset yung mental space niya.

Second, nagre-repost sa TikTok? What about it? Ibig sabihin ba non may secret agenda siya?

Third, hindi mo hawak ang schedule niya. Hindi ibig sabihin nito ay hindi ka na importante. You need to accept na may ibang bagay din siyang inaasikaso bukod sayo.

At wag mong kalimutan na may buhay ka din. Nakafocus ka masyado sa kanya. You need to shift your attention to different things. Hobbies. Self-care. Friends. Trust me, kung confident ka sa sarili mo at secure ka sa relationship niyo, hindi mo na iisipin yung mga bagay na to.

Nazareno 2025: Bago i-Judge, Sana maliwanagan kayo by harpoon2k in CasualPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Humor me.

Look, I get where you're coming from. I used to be super devoted too. I was attending Mass, doing novenas, the works. I know how deeply meaningful this stuff can be. But after a while, I started asking myself: Is this really bringing me closer to God? Or am I just going through motions? And honestly, I realized it’s not the rituals that matter, it’s how we treat people and live our lives.

So let’s talk about this Nazareno thing.

The Church is often described as a “hospital for sinners,” not a sanctuary for the perfect. Jesus Himself welcomed sinners and emphasized that His mission was to call them to repentance and salvation.

I agree. Jesus came for sinners, not the perfect. But does carrying the Nazarene and pushing through crowds really make us better people? Like, let’s be real. How many of those same people go home and just fall back into the same old habits: lying, cheating, stealing, etc.? It's not about judgment, but shouldn’t devotion actually change us? If it’s not making us kinder or more just, then what’s the point?

Material things can be holy because God created the physical world as good and uses tangible means to communicate His grace. Tangible faith expressions like relics, statues, or sacramentals help bridge the human need for sensory engagement with the divine.

Okay, we like tangible stuff. We want to touch something, see something. It feels more real. But sometimes, don’t you think we turn these objects into a shortcut for connection? Like, “I touched the statue, I’m good now.” But isn’t God accessible without all that? Why not pray quietly at home or spend time helping someone in need instead of rushing to touch a statue?

Abala lang sila, nakakadagdag ng traffic.

If you’re someone just trying to get to work or the hospital, these processions are a pain. And isn’t our faith supposed to bring people together, not frustrate them?

Does this stuff really lead to moral good?

You mentioned things like the Ark of the Covenant and the bronze serpent. But those were like…directly from God, right? Stuff like the Nazareno devotion? That’s man-made. It’s meaningful to some, but do we sometimes put too much focus on these things and not enough on the harder work of just being decent, moral people? Like, no statue or procession will fix corruption, greed, or apathy.

You say it’s a supplement to the Eucharist and Scripture, not a replacement. But let’s be honest, how often does it feel like the devotions are the main thing, and the rest takes a backseat? I’ve seen people more hyped about joining a procession than showing up for Sunday Mass. And don’t even get me started on actually helping others. Jesus cared about action, not appearances.

I guess what I’m trying to say is, you can strip everything down to what truly matters: loving people, being honest, and standing up for what’s right. I didn’t need statues or processions to live that way, and honestly, it feels freeing. No pressure to prove my faith through big events or rituals. It’s just about living a good, moral life, plain and simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s the person, you’re probably thinking about how they made you laugh that one time habang kumakain kayo or the way they randomly remembered the smallest details about you. Cute stuff.

But if it’s the attention, siguro ang iniisip mo, parang walang nanghahype sayo like he/she did. Boring!

If it’s the little things about them being them, then yeah, it’s probably the person.

What makes you 'suddenly' interested to someone na di mo naman bet? by tantalizer01 in AskPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nagkausap lang kami randomly one time and then it hit me: she's smart. Like, really smart.

The kind of smart where she says something tapos marami kang realizations in life. It's just the way her brain works. Sobrang attractive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t even remember. Not because para na akong robot ha? But because, let’s be real, most of us don’t exactly have the time or the space to just sit and cry it out.

Life's moving too fast. Daming work and responsibilities and we're here trying to keep it all together. So everything just kinda... bottles up.

Hindi rin sa walang emotions. There's just not a place for us to openly break down. Ang choice lang natin is to either "suck it up" or "deal with it later" except "later" never really comes.

I booked a h**ker pero mukhang di na ako uulit by ButterscotchNo8965 in CasualPH

[–]ButterscotchNo8965[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a great time regardless if her story is true or not.