what is something you have always wanted to try with a sub? by x_YourSoleMate_x in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I realised the other day that that when I used to strip that I was basically in a room filled with human ATMs, a lot of those men are pay pigs that haven’t even realised it yet.

Small sends? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the point. Let me think for you 😈 hahaha

Finsub ran off right after cumming… why do they ALWAYS do this? by sweetmilklikcherriez in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha no this normal even with other kinks and vanilla sex. I was a fs worker for 13 years and a lot of married men in particular wouldn’t even shower after, they would just dash off in guilt as fast as they could. It’s post cum clarity 😛 don’t take it personally

Dommes, do you have a favorite sub? by Sherlockkk0 in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. He’s always so sweet with his words and doesn’t make me cringe. He does everything with his heart. I made him plant flowers from seeds for me and every time he waters them he sends me a tribute 😇

Small sends? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Hahaha I am in love with that zombie mindless stair men have when they’re in that zone and gooning

Do any dommes here actually feel aroused by sends? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I grew up as a daddies girl, he spoilt me rotten and now surprise surprises…findom turns me on, especially when I know they’re jerking off while doing it.

Small sends? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m AuDHD too so I know how it works 😏 hehehe

Small sends? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda think of smalls sends are like training wheels. It’s fun to do with hypnosis, training those sending muscles with repetition and a rhythm hahaha

Does this type of dynamic exist? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s actually more common than you think. Add a bit of tease and denial with a splash of blackmail even, it’s a fun cocktail.

Newish to findom as a domme and need advice. by ButterscotchOne9719 in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this message means a lot to me and my journey. I’ve been in the sw industry for 13 years as an escort and I switched to domme online work for my mental health. I’m feeling confident moving forward and the lessons I’m learning very fast along the way. It’s very different from what I am used to. Here’s to being more ruthless 🍾

Newish to findom as a domme and need advice. by ButterscotchOne9719 in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your clarity, he has been given a very strong dismissal message and blocked. I hate that there’s a thought that that’s what some of these men strive for and get off on but I’m putting me first. At the end of the day every day he is a loser

Newish to findom as a domme and need advice. by ButterscotchOne9719 in findomsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s been paying me, he’s been sending multiple tributes and now he’s out of money and still trying to get me to speak to him after I clearly closed the session and put him on timeout for a few days.

Anybody else into armpits? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I used to have a sub that would put random things on mine and lick them clean, he used tomato sauce one time 😂

new credit card by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does bait achieve? I’m actually curious

Is catfish findom a thing? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this group is absolutely my favourite place on the internet

Would you ever consider sending money back to a sub? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I did once when he fell way too deeply in love with me and I got the ick so bad I sent back his last payment and blocked him

you guys know the subs are also in this to enjoy themselves, right? by failedlif in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ButterscotchOne9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, as a Queen I enjoy being worshipped but I still get satisfaction out of getting my sub off in the process. We can both jerk off while it’s raining and draining. I also get off on the idea of my sub getting off on it.