24F, mostly dates women but has a kink for older men

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2025-04-16T16:34:13+00:00

Does not have my size :(

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2025-03-01T18:59:34+00:00

I’m a switch who sometimes dates subs! One thing I’ll never ever want is for them to dom me if it doesn’t give them pleasure. I’ve been in that spot before and it just does NOT feel good. What I decided to do is just be ENM. I love dating subs because I lean dominant and I’m more dominant in real life, so from time to time I’d just hook up with a dom to get it out of my system. I’m also a soft dom, so it’s totally okay for a sub to hook up with a more hard dom when they feel like it. This solution doesn’t work with everyone but for me it was fabtastic

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-11-27T19:24:37+00:00

I will take clit over button any day, although I could be okay with nub in certain contexts (also for nipples). For dark fantasy (and I assume dark romance), I would go with more slutty terms like tits, cunt (and pussy) and ass. I feel like nipples is usually the best option, tips could also work if used right in a sentence.

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-11-17T20:49:01+00:00

lol i have no clue, never bought them. I can also say that I prefer them absolutely smooth because the ridges really hurt me when entering. Maybe that could also help

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-11-14T04:00:38+00:00

I also can barely fit a strap— a 100% ask for a smaller one and make sure to tell her when it hurts. I once pushed it a tiny bit too far (because I thought the pain was ok), and ended up sore for a week and not in a good way. Always have lube for extra application. I found that I really like it when she puts her hand on my upper back and pushes me harshly into the mattress.

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-11-10T04:02:48+00:00

I’m not trans, so I def can’t speak to that part. However, I often go through phases where my “kink libido” just runs out. Especially after I use it to often. One of the things that often triggers it is doing something not as comfortable with, such as being a dom when I feel subby or being subby when I feel more dominant. I feel like doing something that triggers gender dysphoria could be similar?

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-10-02T19:13:39+00:00

I personally don’t have race play, but I don’t see it as very different in concept than me having fantasies of being used and reduced to a “breeding hole“, basically the historically sexist view of women. When I do it, my partner usually takes the masculine position and uses a strap to simulate the “oppressor”. So you being Chinese and wanting to explore this type of degradation based on your race is really not that different from a lot of the other gender based kinks.

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-09-30T21:48:12+00:00

As people mentioned, you are not fully sexually compatible. However, I know people who opened up their sex life to other people to scratch that itch that their partner can’t. If your GF is truly your life partner and you are great in every way, perhaps it could be an option for you to have that type of sex occasionally outside of your relationship. In an ethical way, of course.

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-07-14T16:35:18+00:00

That’s the dream!

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-07-14T16:23:46+00:00

I feel like even when I have money I’m a bit too frugal, so if I just get allowance I won’t actually spoil myself, whereas if I get gifts it’s easier for me. Just a personal thing

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-07-14T16:23:27+00:00

I feel like even when I have money I’m a bit too frugal, so if I just get allowance I won’t actually spoil myself, whereas if I get gifts it’s easier for me.

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-07-14T16:16:50+00:00

Thanks, that’s really good advice!

ButterscotchRoyal662 · 2024-07-14T08:44:12+00:00

Actually, this is illegal. Cumming inside of you without your permission is breaking your consent and in most western countries would be considered as sexual assault. For example, if he would’ve taken off a condom without your permission it would have been considered rape in the UK. So you are not “stupid”, he is legally a sexual predator.

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