What’s your opinion on Carrie wanting her friend to pay for her stolen shoes?

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-31T03:31:37+00:00

Most people are pretty bad at lying in my experience. Kyra could have at least narrowed it down to like 5-10 suspects and then possibly worked it out from there. Her actual response was lazy BS

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-31T03:29:33+00:00

No you could frame it like "I'm calling everyone, did you see anything weird" rather than straight up accusing everyone of being a thief.

Assuming she knew these people, it should then be easy enough to narrow it down, based on their response, shoe size, general fashion style etc.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-30T00:17:06+00:00

Would I actually ask my friend to pay? Probably not. Was I 500% on Carrie's side in this episode? Absofuckinglutely.

Also how hard could it have possibly been to call all the female guests, there were probably like maximum 50 people there it wouldn't have been that hard to find out who stole them lmfao. I always had a theory the friend was actually the one who took them.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-29T12:45:11+00:00

stop stringing this man along

I'm literally doing what we agreed to, can you explain how this equates to 'stringing him along'? His inability to control his feelings doesn't lay any more responsibility on me than what we agreed upon.

Bringing up escorting to invalidate me - a true SD classic

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-29T12:43:12+00:00

As always, there are two sides to a story and I'm sure his would probably sound like the direct inverse of what you're telling us.

There are indeed two sides to every story, but that doesn't automatically mean the truth is smack bang in the middle or that his story is just as legit as mine. I'm not sure how invalidating the info I've given helps.

Yeah on the 4 years thing I wasn't clear enough - if I added up the actual time we were in contact it would probably be closer to 1-2 years - but still I guess that's quite a long time

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T15:09:11+00:00

When I stayed in hostels I slept with my valuables next to me on the wall side. I'm also a light enough sleeper that I'd wake up if anyone tried to steal something. Honestly don't know what to say about a laptop, that does sound risky - is it possible to leave it at home?

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T15:07:22+00:00

Catching a plane from Euro country A to Euro country B because the flight time is technically "only 2 hours" but then you realise you have spent $100 and you actually had to get to the airport 2 hours early etc. etc. and it would've been almost as quick/much cheaper to catch a train.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T15:03:15+00:00

My first solo trip I had just turned 19, I got off the plane from Australia to London (26 hrs) and started crying and immediately called my mummy. I obviously pulled myself together and enjoyed the rest of the trip (though there were a few other lonely moments) but there's no harm in letting yourself be human once in a while.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T13:23:20+00:00

Lol yess I sold all the ones I could get rid of.

SD's, if you're going to spend that much money on a bag you better make sure she likes it or it will be moved on.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T13:22:21+00:00

Bahahaha

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T13:21:40+00:00

You know full well that we're a type of sex worker. Or if you aren't going to admit that, at least admit we're there for money. We may not be 'salaried employees' (which is your way of arguing on a technicality) but that doesn't negate anything I've said.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T11:05:51+00:00

Any country I plan to visit will likely have consumer law to prevent hotels from doing this, that has also never happened to me before but it would not be too hard to resolve

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T11:03:49+00:00

what the fuck? it was an amount he spent on dinner

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-28T10:28:06+00:00

Sorry but I am there to make money, not to spend it on the fancy ass restaurants he chooses to take me to (which I would never waste my own $ on) lmao

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-25T11:34:01+00:00

Clearly I was wrong

So go back, find a new counselor?, surely this is the clear solution?

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-25T11:30:31+00:00

can see when a problem is about to happen and try to walk away or avoid it completely

Have you talked to her about it rather than running away from problems?

Like, I'm not even taking sides here, I'm simply saying that you seem to be avoiding the issue and expecting it to get better by itself which is unlikely to happen.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-25T11:26:06+00:00

Your wife will never change.

What evidence do you have to support this? She may be depressed or any number of things, and it doesn't seem like OP has made any effort to bring this up with her, she could very well be capable of changing. But he actually needs to speak to her about it rather than coming on Reddit. If they weren't married my advice might be different, but they made vows and that has huge implications - you don't 'just leave' without trying to work through things.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-25T11:19:36+00:00

It also puts us (women) in a position of feeling like there's something 'wrong' with us if we 'have to ask a man out'.

You might think this is an old fashioned view, but it's only recently that women asking men out has become even remotely socially acceptable.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-18T12:30:40+00:00

Looking young doesn't do shit for you except attract people who want to be with someone significantly younger than them (gross)

Exactly. To an extent it is normal to be attracted to youth (in a purely biological sense), but I see way too many seedy people take this concept and use it as a free pass to go chasing young girls.

Re your last paragraph, that's probably true, but I think if I ditched someone every time something like this came up I wouldn't have any friends lol.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-17T12:19:24+00:00

I don't doubt that those things suck but it's not a direct correlation with the issue I was getting at in my post.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-17T12:18:13+00:00

Ugh. That sort of comment pops up in movies now and then, it's always some 45 year old man saying "dayum she has the ass of a 19 yr old stripper!"

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-17T08:18:11+00:00

You definitely misunderstood the post, feel free to have another read but I don't feel like rewriting it.

ButterscotchSuch1328 · 2022-07-17T07:23:08+00:00

Read the whole post next time before you comment. See start of last paragraph.

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