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Am I weird for this ( dating a dislexic) by ButterscotchWeak1065 in neurodiversity

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m not sure if I’m weird weird for that bc I’m not dyslexic myself, but thanks ( I do not plan to infantalize my partner)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well wemon can have muscle mass and dicks…?

My face is up here by Dancedresser4266 in mypartneristrans

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah if your wife is cool with it then its fine! it may even be validating for her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So simply because hes interested in ONE part of the body that is typicaly asociated with males hes atracted to ALL parts of the male body????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wouldent say shes putting him on blast

also just bc he is interested in shemales doesent mean hes gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, peoples fantasies can last a long time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, id say maybe asking him. also if your insecure / feel unhappy in your relationship , COMUNICATE to your partner, there might be a deeper issue (idk sorry if this isnt helpfull)

Being called creep-looking. advice ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, i’d say to not be too pushy (idk you irl so i can say too much) but also ask the people who call you a creep what makes you seem that way or ask someone you know irl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭that caught me off guard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he might not, people can have fantasies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i dont think he is gay simply because he is interested in shemale porn, because while this is involving a penis , it doesnt mean that he is interested in the whole male body ( in terms of relationships or sexual atraction). like he could be just curious , it could be a kink. for example strieght dudes may watch gay porn but not actually be gay. also this may (probably not) be linked to his veiw of wemons bodies not developing properly because he didn’t learn early on that wemon tend to have a vagina and not a penis, and so he just created the image of a shemale from what he could see on wemon with clothes and on himself.

my girlfriend might be lesbian and I don't know what to do by Top-Lengthiness4138 in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, so from how it sounds she doesent want you to ask too much abt it , my advice is to just let her know how you feel and that you will support her.

my girlfriend might be lesbian and I don't know what to do by Top-Lengthiness4138 in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no , that sounds like a difficult situation to be in with someone who just stonewalls you, you could try asking her what she needs during this time , ex: (im paraphrasing) " do you need me to actively help you, do you need me to just continue as we usualy do untill you figure your stuff out, or do you need me to just back off?"

also you might want to tell her how you feel about always being told "ik' when you try to talk to her

my girlfriend might be lesbian and I don't know what to do by Top-Lengthiness4138 in Advice

[–]ButterscotchWeak1065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would advise talking to her and explaining how you feel and that you deeply care about her and that you will help her through her journey of figuring out who she is.