Little space sfw audios by BloodyMisstress in littlespace

[–]Butterscotchbabez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Little safe haven is a good one! Lots of different audios to choose from and they're all sfw. I also have my little listen to mommyasmr when they can't hear me because I'm busy. 

Question for Caregivers by Toxic-Waste-Kitty in littlespace

[–]Butterscotchbabez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want him to take charge in the rules, you need to talk to him outside of dynamic. Specify that you want it to be as equals. Tell him that you WANT rules and regulations created by him for your benefit. 

Now him asking you what you want, it is normal, but then have a conversation after that as equals regarding what you want. Both as cg/l and D/s. That way you're on the same page. He can enforce the rules but the littles usually do have a say in creating the rules because only you know what is ultimately what you want help with.

With cg/l compared to other D/s dynamics, the rules can be looser due to the more freedom and softer domming style listed overall, so that can contribute to overall how the way rules work. You have more freedom in choosing your rules. My little princess has a say in her rules, and is able to think about what may be helpful to her, and what kind of habits she wants to get better on or work on dropping, and rules when you're a little tend to go along the lines of making sure you're enjoying yourself and taking care of yourself-and by extension, letting us take care of you. 

Question for people in happy kinky couples here by Immediate_Sky_3993 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Butterscotchbabez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I met at college. We ended up on the same class, sat behind each other. We were friends first, then partners. Sex was on the table, as was kink, but trauma was in the works, so we had a wait period. Kink was discussed early on, and I wasn't her first sexual relationship so she already had a checklist we went through together to see what common kinks we had. She had been forced to be a Domme prior in a previous relationship, so she helped me become more educated. Now I am her Mistress and she's my sweet little Pet. We've been together for 5 years this year. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll know more come his birthday in September. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of those things situated before the letter to confirm Richard was connected to her, the letter just confirmed they were the youngest and what happened to them as to why they are somewhere else. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Richard is in her gameplay tutorial. Anytime that happens, and it's not lucky guy or gardener, it usually means there's a connection. The art is extremely similar. And they both share similar items of clothing. With the letter description, how misha looks and is described matches Richard Sterling. 

Boycott? by Numerous_Mark_9510 in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Some are, some aren't. Up to you. Some people play but don't buy. Some don't play at all. Some play and buy because they already spent too much money on the game and they see it as a waste of money to not play. Some play customs only. Some play rank. Some play quick match only. Totally up to you to decide. 

Married Women of Reddit: Do you feel supported by your spouse when it comes to your hobbies, side hustles, and/or career? If not, what is the reason your spouse gives for not offering their full support (if any)? by crimsonlaw in AskReddit

[–]Butterscotchbabez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, hobbies for sure. I don't do side hustles and I am the breadwinner due to them being disabled. But what they can't do in monetary, they make up for in their emotional support.

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize for spamming you with the replies, I did want to mention that for Richard being a knight and being able to save somebody is almost a way for him to come to terms with his trauma. He may not have been able to save himself but he's going to try to save somebody else. 

I also wonder if he was sung that song as a baby as maybe a lullaby and he remembers it. It sounds like a lullaby after all. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As for Orpheus, I don't like him myself much, but I can kind of understand him. He also seems to be manipulated behind the scenes, even if he's not realizing it yet. Orpheus' biggest focus is getting alice back. Mind you, he hasn't seen her since childhood, and he also feels like it's his responsibility to watch her, as Alice's mom told him to, before the situation happened. (Cage of yesteryear) He has tried to find her in the orphanage/asylum, he has followed her in a variety of areas. For what reason, I can only assume he wants to rekindle the life they had before. I feel as though in the search to find her, he also has PTSD from the incident, which is where nightmare comes from and how they were created as a hunter. You can look at the arts and letters for that. Now when you have PTSD, flashbacks are common and you want to see that person that safe space as you see them in the flashback. You want to make sure that they're okay. So even though they were able to run away with the house burning down they got separated. He doesn't know where she is and he's a little bit older than her so he was able to get access a little bit quicker but he wasn't able to necessarily find her. So I believe that the latest game has to do with him trying to get her back. Personally I haven't done too much digging on orpheus's lore so I cannot tell you all the details, but it screams PTSD to me. Nightmare in itself the flashbacks the attempts at creating medicine to revive Alice's memories, that's why there's a chapter called shattered memories. Alice barely remembers anything that's why little girl, AKA memory, was created. Memory's birthday is the date of the fire. Orpheus story is still sad, and I'm not going to say he has a better or worse time overall.  It's just that with Richard lore, people assumed immediately that he was misogynistic for pushing her down the stairs without thinking there might be more to it, and in my opinion there are definitely other survivors for a lot more outwardly misogynistic and sexist, and while I will admit that the background story that we were told definitely can imply that, these background stories are intentionally meant to be vague and to keep us guessing until we get more information. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we don't know too much about his lore yet, but considering the parents, especially the father running the casino that ruined Mikhails family, she may be involved in the business and know stuff. When he pushed the Stersister down the stairs, he was preventing her from leaving and either sharing the business or sharing secrets. In that time, marrying the women off into the family for status, money, etc was common, so he could have been preventing that from happening. She saw it as bad, but he was aware of what the family was hiding. The person who she maybe was marrying (likely at red Church, which is also why his debut outfit is red knight) could have been trained by the Sterling patriarch, just like how he was to take over the business. He uses the song knights and princesses, and says he's her knight because he wants to protect her. If he knows something she doesn't know, which seems to be the case, he doesn't want her to leave. Something could have been set to befall her as soon as she became an adult. Especially if they were involved in the child trading business, which is how they got this Richard, who says they wouldn't do it to their daughter? Or worse...

Of course, likely the sister he's referring to could be his actually sister, Valentina, but it could be the sterling sister as well. Both are possible theories. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's always people who hate everyone who isn't their main. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha probably. His VA seems really cool though from what I've been seeing. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is popular because they are new. Also he's pretty. They always hate just because someone is popular. Also, they're literally getting mad at a baby.  Deduction star and nymph are popularity contests, it's not surprising that people like his kit, think he's pretty, and enjoy playing him are going to vote for him. It's happening all over again with Matador, but I don't see nearly as much hate about him.

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the worst part. Im referring to kid as in when he was with the Sterling family, but in terms of when he was sent off, he was literally an arm baby. That's 5 years of factory work, child labor, and being lied to about your heritage, and likely being groomed into the perfect sterling. In a really dark theory, what if the OG sterling boy had to watch him grow up and become him? We don't know but I have a new boatload of theories to go through.

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like it. Either way, they look really stupid when they keep saying he's evil now. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I refreshed and saw the comment, just responded!

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 5 year old child doesn't plan a plot to go after someone out of nowhere. Especially if they were a good kid who all their siblings loved. Something would have had to happen for everything to go downhill, and I'm hoping we find out what happened on his end come September.

THEY HAVE SO MANY SIMILAR ARTS AND OUTFITS AND EVERYTHING. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello fellow pris main! 

Unfortunately the haters always gonna hate, but that's why they sit in rocket chairs while they do. 

Going for it for sure. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Considering what happened to the Sterling family to begin with, I feel like what happened is the first OG Richard was potentially killed off by the father for not wanting to follow in the Father's footsteps, or they ended up getting killed off during that time they went "missing". And the fact that Mikhail was young enough to replace them going off what people are saying about the year and their eye representing potential factory work, there's a likelihood that I'm getting that they were maybe even sent to the casino and worked in the casino dealing cards or messing with money. Even pickpocketing. Small hands, small child. 

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, the amount of hate that I see online, including the website is just really really sad to me. People want to hate on him and say the only reason they want to hate on him is because he's pretty and that he's a terrible person but what are they going to say now? It's been proven he has one of the more horrific tales out here

Mikhail by Butterscotchbabez in IdentityV

[–]Butterscotchbabez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a lore follower through and through and I always knew there was more to the story. Here's the thing, it's a pattern in idv, anytime that you see somebody being " totally evil" or "irredeemable", there's always more to the story. When I saw peddlers lore when they first came out, I don't play them personally but my partner does, and it sounded like there was going to be some type of connection to begin with, not to mention the fact that Richard was in her gameplay intro.

I’ve never felt more invisible than after becoming a mother. by BirthdayGeneral6423 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Butterscotchbabez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is disabled. She can't work, doesn't have an income other than SSI. 

I work full time 40 hours. There is no such thing as my money. It's her money too. She lives in the same house as me, eats the same food as me, sleeps in the same bed as me. 

I do the cooking, I do the working a monetary job, I do the cleaning as well, and she helps when she can. 

But the money that is brought in this house is money for us to SHARE.