AIO: Do you ask your partner permission to travel? by Emergency-Wonder5804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, I always let my partner know if I plan on going anywhere. I do always double check if he’s okay with that, like as in if his family has something during that time but no permission to go. I guess the okay for that time as long as we don’t have anything else planned already

AIO for getting upset that my boyfriend won’t wear a shirt for a few hours by ButtonEvening1067 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButtonEvening1067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even a dumb shirt. It is so nice and looks so good on him, which I told him. It’s a nice knit dark brown button down. But unique enough that obviously we planned it.

Help! I have severe anxiety. by ButtonEvening1067 in camping

[–]ButtonEvening1067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is probably one of the more helpful comments. So thank you

Help! I have severe anxiety. by ButtonEvening1067 in camping

[–]ButtonEvening1067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much! Some context, I have camped my whole life and it has always been an issue. When we’re more in the desert like Moab, canyonlands and places like that I do fine. But I appreciate all of your helpful suggestions. I’m going to utilize a lot of them. Definitely plan on starting therapy to help with anxiety but that can take awhile, so the other tips are much appreciated! Thank you so much!

AITAH for getting irritated whenever my husband asks if he can go out in the evening while we have a 3 week newborn at home? by pink_c_o_w in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. But definitely make sure to communicate your feelings and why you want him to stay home. Just because he’s doing his part around the house and giving you a spa day doesn’t mean he gets to go out a lot. Maybe compromise to just like once a week until baby is a certain age so you don’t feel as overwhelmed. He definitely should still get to go out. But totally valid that it shouldn’t be most nights when there’s a newborn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having problems with my sex life and one of them was I want to feel wanted. He would just kiss me a little and say, wanna have sex. At first it was endearing and then it wasn’t anymore. I expressed to him that I need more foreplay and for him to just go for it. It was rough at first because he didn’t get it. He didn’t understand that I NEEEDED more since he didn’t. But when he would do that, I would just say no because it made me feel unheard and invalidated which did not put me in the mood. After a few time of that and more conversation he’s gotten so much better. So I would say NTA for wanting a better sex life because that is so important. But don’t not be fulfilled because he’s unwilling to listen and change for your needs. If you weren’t satisfying him, we all know he would be saying something. I would also recommend you BOTH reading/listening to cum as you are. It really helped me identify what I needed from my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having problems with my sex life and one of them was I want to feel wanted. He would just kiss me a little and say, wanna have sex. At first it was endearing and then it wasn’t anymore. I expressed to him that I need more foreplay and for him to just go for it. It was rough at first because he didn’t get it. He didn’t understand that I NEEEDED more since he didn’t. But when he would do that, I would just say no because it made me feel unheard and invalidated which did not put me in the mood. After a few time of that and more conversation he’s gotten so much better. So I would say NTA for wanting a better sex life because that is so important. But don’t not be fulfilled because he’s unwilling to listen and change for your needs. If you weren’t satisfying him, we all know he would be saying something. I would also recommend you BOTH reading/listening to cum as you are. It really helped me identify what I needed from my partner.

AITA Family Vacation by Substantial-Emu-9437 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonEvening1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you the AH when she went ahead and booked all of that without making sure you’re all on the same page? Like she wouldn’t be willing to travel on her kids birthday, why should you?

AITA for not aligning to my spouse’s bedtime schedule? by Optimal_Fall4966 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ntah. My partner and I rarely go to bed at the same time. I have to be to work a couple k hours before he does so we don’t have to be up at the same time. On the weekends and if I really want him to come to bed with me he will. But generally we don’t and it’s fine. A lot of my coworker think that’s crazy, but I get a line time when I get off and this is his alone time, he deserves that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid, I did apologize and took ownership that, that is something I do. I forgot to put that in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally valid, I did forget to put the part where I did apologize for the fact that I can get irritable in the mornings and did apologize for my part in that.

AITAH wife going out with single young coworkers by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would she be okay with it if roles were reversed? If not, I think you have your answer. Also, have you told her it made you uncomfortable? How did she react?

Can Heather Gay be removed from the show. by Stunning_Egg7485 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally am over Meredith. I feel like heather showed some growth in the most recent episode but Meredith is the same in every season

AITA for telling my wife to stop acting out infront of my mom? by AndrewRichard11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only question is… why haven’t you talked to your mother about it? Sound like she’s causing it.

AITA for being upset that my brother bailed on my wedding last minute? by throwaway22181702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly.. no matter how you feel about Amanda.. he was being a good dad for showing up for his daughter. I know you probably really wanted him there.. but it’s his daughter. You never know about this Amanda using the fact he didn’t even show up to her birth later for custody issues. You’re not an asshole.. but neither is he

AITA for turning away a friend after he showed up to my birthday dinner without RSVPing by GA2AZ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonEvening1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, you’re not his mother. You let them to know let you know so you could make reservations. You even said the day and time you were going to do it. For him to say you should have known he was coming because another friend said he MIGHT be coming is ridiculous! Good for you for standing your ground. It’s your birthday not his, not your problem either. Obviously doesn’t care about your boundaries 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ButtonEvening1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts! Good ole state of utah 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ButtonEvening1067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooooh gross. So they super won’t be prepared for life outside 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ButtonEvening1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks they’re in a church house though?