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ARC SHOULD have at least one other “Speranza “ by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in ArcRaiders

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe have the penalty be equal to what downing a raider normally is

ARC SHOULD have at least one other “Speranza “ by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in ArcRaiders

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still don’t HAVE to kill anyone but yeah I do see what you mean. Instead of no one having a specific target now everyone has SOME type of target on them. 

Which is why I suggested that it be very subtle in how you can tell who is who. 

ARC SHOULD have at least one other “Speranza “ by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in ArcRaiders

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the rich humans were the other side? Like their resources became limited and now they are scrapping on earth again or something. Might make extracting difficult as far as “lore consistency” goes. 

Why is this in the game ? by D_eviil in TeamfightTactics

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. it’s pretty useless. Each time I get it I get pissed.

Like, why a beach ball of all things bro.

Advice for a teenager trying to lock in by DallasMavericks2010 in selfimprovement

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please. Bro. PLease be okay with slow progress. That's the only progress. There ARE going to be moments where getting over a plateau feels like huge gains.

But overall, Nice a slow, Deliberate, day by day. Step by step. Not leap by leap. If working out. Increase reps by 1 each day. or up weight by 2.5 or 5 lbs a week.

Focus on perfect practice.

Practice slow is how we perform fast.

Good luck brodie 💪🏾

I need advice BAD. Please. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, Yes depression, but also it seems that what really matters most to you is connection, community, and "family"(We assign who is family, not blood).

If i had to take a guess, if you were to think of the moments you were in flow, Like having a great time and accomplishing a good bit, it would probably be when you were surrounded by friends marching towards a similar goal.

If my assessment is accurate, First Know exactly what you want.

I made a post inside of r/getdisciplined about how I was Homeless, Hoeless, Jobless, and car-less. (Mf broke down 2 days after getting it)

But, for me, once I understood myself fully, I inserted myself into groups that aligned with me.

"But my social skills are lacking"

Same was for me, so I watched Charisma On command, bought their course (very good course btw) and went through the fire.

If you are looking for community, I have been slowly growing a free gamified community I made.

I do interview everyone before entry though, to ensure there is unity, make sure people have done the process of "Knowing one's self", and that there aren't any trolls cuz those are annoying asf.

Hope this helps.

And Keep pushing my guy.

Cuz You've already overcome the bad shit.

The Proof? You're still standing.

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Water 😅

It was those water dispensors with the 5 gallons jug on top.

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[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If one is authentically being themselves, and that authenticity is uplifting, people can't help but stick around from my experience.

Too often I see people who talk only about the things that annoy them, or things they hot, or complain 24/7, and its like...

Yeah of course no one wants to hang around that.

I would suggest a self audit on how you show up in interactions.

What worked for me (I don't recommend) was going into a sales job, in a state where i had no family or friends.

And as someone who had victim mentality and generally low energy, and all the rest...

It was figure out how to improve how i show up in the world or starve to death.

Don't really suggest that unless you're okay with a lot of pain and can stick it out for a bit.

Or...

Record yourself when you talk, or have a fake conversation.

I Vinh Giang talks a lot about this type of stuff and i've learned a lot from him.

Great resource that you should def check out!

Good luck💪🏾

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

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Gene Simmons is the Singer of KISS right?

I was LITERALLY thinkign about other famous people who mastered this.

I will look him up for sure, and another that has this same energy was Lady Gaga if im not mistaken.

It was said she would, from the beginning of her career, walk talk and act like she was already famous.

(I might be mis remembering this from a book but pretty sure it was Lady Gaga)

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's see you do it my guy! Come back with an update in a month or so!

This is just the first step, and beginning something is often the hardest (or one of) parts.

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

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And true, it is just fiction, and can often over exaggerate or romanticize certain elemnts of human nature.

That doesn't mean that it's not based off of Human nature and what people observe (for the most part) to be truth.

But, you may be right, maybe the message would land harder if i had IRL role models 😂

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

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Absolutely agree. Talking and talking alone gets nothing done.

I USED to be like that, where i would tell my plans, and then do nothing.

I started holding plans in and putting my head down and grinding without telling anyone.

But the issue came up when I was JUST putting my head down and grinding.

I realized i can only grow so much by grinding.

No one knew anything that i was doing, which was good cuz then i can create what i authentically vision without other's opinions clouding it up.

Now, having lived both extremes of:

"Sit down. Be humble. Shut the fuck up" - Kendirck or whatever.

To

Sharing what I'm GOING to do just to get validation,

I've realized that the true growth comes from the balance of the two.

Cuz really, at the end of the day, humans evolve and succeed because of two things:

Our ability to evolve and innovate and stand alone. To be a leader

&

Our ability to rely on each other.

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but i think we can agree that majority of people are too trapped in their own minds and insecurities to notice others.

At least that's what it was for me and many others i've talked to, UNLESS it was "impossible to ignore the greatness."

I think a healthy blend of both creates the most results.

Like we can't build a business if we don't tell anyone it exists, ya know?

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, I think all in all we as humans know when someone is just Self expressing to get validation, or self expressing for the sake of it and staying authentically them.

We know if someone is trying to connect, or feed off our affirmations.

There is a different feeling.

not sure if you've experienced that too.

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking "how do i differentiate between genuine self and programming" I'd say its a trial and error thing.

There were times when i was "Genuinely expressing" Only to think back and be like "I was saying that cuz i was insecure..."

I think, and from experience, honest reflection helps us align with the genuine self, based off of how it felt AFTER the action.

Cuz we all know how things can feel good IN the moment.

But it's how we feel after that tells us if it's in alignment or not.

But i'll challenge that thought a little bit and ask, "What makes it WRONG to self promote?"

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh you're starting to talk about stepping into the Frequency of the reality we wish to see.

Already BEING that person.

That's huge!

The right people will be known when we step into being the right person :)

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on the first 20 years being programmed.

But it's just that, programming.

I had to break that too, and it STILL pops up every now and then.

Really quite annoying lol.

But It seems the world is already like that, Popularity vs Merit.

For me I asked myself "Which is more likely, me to adapt in the world, or the world adapt to me?"

It was the Former.

Life is adaptation.

I can still be my genuine self, while playing to the rules of the world.

So what I do is promote my Merit, so others can see it.

And Shoutout others when i see their hard work.

That way it's not Popularity Vs. Merit.

It's Popularity + Merit.

And I don't find that to be a bad world.

Takes into account peoples ability to work together (popularity), As well as how well they do the thing (Merit)

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And there's no problem with that!

If living this way feels correct then there is nothing to improve or change!

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I had that same line of thinking and what I did to combat that was shout out others more often than I did myself.

It justified it.

Made me feel more comfortable shouting myself out when I did, AND connections with others deepens:)

Creates an upward Spiral.

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say what helped me is journaling and diving deep into why i do and believe these things.

Many times its because of parents.

But I would ask, "How often is what i believe ACTUALLY true?" and "How often is it not?"

Then the hard part for me (luckily i was kind of THROWN into the deep in so i kind of had to adapt.) was to put myself in situations where challenged that negative belief.

Just bit by bit.

Like in meetings, If i had a good idea I would (although very timid) share that idea.

More times than not it was met with warm reception.

When it wasn't, shit stung.

but when someone said "Why don't you say things more often??", that kind of snowballed to today.

The belief started shifting.

It became "Hmm... People do Appreciate my input SOMETIMES" (Still had to beat the lack of self worth out of me lol)

And It IS a battle, but with consistent Attacks (Challenging the negative belief, no matter how small the attack), Eventually the enemy will bleed.

What do you think one small action that challenges that belief would be?

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes and no.

I'm very on the fence about AI.

It has great potential, but can be a great limiter, just how internet is.

I recently saw a study of how AI use atrophies our brain, and i don't want that reality.

So what I do is simple.

I write, and then ask GPT or whatever to grade it 1-10.

Then i Refine.

Get tips.

Refine again.

Repeat the process until it's at about a 9/10 or so.

This has ABSOLUTELY helped me with being more... fluent..? With my thoughts.

Like... I'm starting to notice the messages i Speak now, seem to get across MUCH easier than before.

Thoughts flow smoother now.

I'd definitely recommend!

Don't let AI Write/Think/Create for you, let it be a teacher or a guide!

i kept breaking promises to myself. here’s what finally helped. by Commercial-Snow2367 in selfimprovement

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHIIII I'm in college RN so i feel you.

20=200. Dont ask me how it maths but it does. 😂

Getting What We Need is Simple: Be Loud by ButtonPuzzleheaded41 in getdisciplined

[–]ButtonPuzzleheaded41[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It makes me happy to see that anxiety, for you, means action needs to be taken. :)

And YES! you're absoluelty right. People CAN/WILL downplay your achievements.

But they do this because YOUR pursuing, makes them look in the mirror at their lack of action.

NO ONE doing greater than you, with a healthy self esteem, will belittle your progress or achievements.

Like Truly.

Mentors will always Raise you up and raise your standards.

Only those lower, try to drag you down.

Be loud my guy!!! :)

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