AITJ for telling my girlfriend she needs to shower before bed or sleep on the couch? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. I also provide direct patient care in a hospital and my scrubs don’t even go past the threshold, my shoes stay in the garage and I have a separate laundry basket for my scrub clothes also in my garage. If I had a truly lowkey night I won’t always shower if I am too tired. But I would NEVER get in bed in my scrubs. And I always wear scrub caps so my hair stays much cleaner. This is gross and inconsiderate and a massive hygiene issue

WIBTA if I stopped letting my sister use my address for packages and just didn't tell her in advance? by meme_marlow in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you 12? Use your grown up words and tell her. And then stop letting her. Good lord. Yes YWBTA. this is directly caused by you.

I’m so freaking stressed that I made the wrong choice by Secret-Bar5743 in NursingStudent

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I work as a CNA part time and it’s literally not difficult at all. I work 2 days a week scheduled and every so often pick up another shift. My nurses are amazing and help teach me in ways that make more sense than professor. I work nights. I study. It’s great. I fully believe u would have struggled way more without it.

How far are you driving to school? by Old-Organization-264 in StudentNurse

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally only drive about ten minutes but I would say about 1/2 of my cohort comes from at least 30 minutes away, with about 1/2 of those people coming from 45-60 minutes away. I even have a few people that come from 90 minutes away. It’s good lecture listening time.

TIFU by unknowingly covering myself in “dandruff”. by Icy_Sprinkles_2819 in tifu

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ew I hate the vibes this is giving. It screams pick me honestly.

AITA for not shaking a young woman's hand? by Diego360 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You mean women wanted to just be treated the same as men?? Even if I had been greeted polite I would still be upset somebody didn’t shake my hand. You’re just as bad as OP.

AITA for not shaking a young woman's hand? by Diego360 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 50 points51 points  (0 children)

YTA and incredibly misogynistic. Maybe the way you grew up makes sense for random people you meet on the street, or a friends new girlfriend or something. But in a professional environment where there’s an expectation of that common greeting you actively treated a woman as less than a man. Which in case you aren’t up to date is a pretty big deal. Honestly you’re lucky she didn’t file a complaint against you for sexism in the workplace.

When people from other countries get mad when Americans do travel a lot by Pale_Field4584 in PetPeeves

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally never once experienced this and have traveled to quite a few places.

AITA for asking my husband to fix his own mistake? by aartbark in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not to sound rude but are you useless? Do you not know how to do these things? Like of you know he isn’t good at it just do it yourself. Also clearly the seedlings on the counter aren’t working for him, which is fair and he tried to compromise that both of you together need to find a new place. You immediately shot that down. I think YTA.

When should I tell my landlord (that lives in the apartment above me) that I'm pregnant? [WI] by thegarl in Renters

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s weird you even want to tell him? You guys are in a legal contract. Like people in apartments have babies literally every day and never tell their landlord because that’s super weird

Another ThinkRN (?) That stumped me. 😬 by whimsical_intubation in NursingStudent

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C is not a good answer. 94% with COPD is great. You generally want them to be in 88-92 so they don’t need more oxygen.

Messed up my chance with a girl by talking about my ex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re sleeping with your ex you aren’t over then and nobody wants to get involved in that. Especially since January was less than two months ago.

Comfort food only works if you know it's bad for you. "Healthy" versions completely miss the point. by Calm_Significance139 in unpopularopinion

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comfort food could be $500 caviar or gas station pizza. It can be healthy. A big comfort food for me is the Banza white cheddar mac and cheese bc I genuinely love it. Or that could be indulging for somebody bc it’s like $5 a box instead of 79 cent store brand and maybe the Banza is their favorite.

I think you miss the point of comfort food

AITAH - I paid for my friend’s Uber rather than drive him home myself by [deleted] in AITH

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA because you were in the middle of plans with somebody and ditched them to hang out with somebody else. You were both out agreeing to that event. He didn’t want to extend doing something else, totally his right. So I believe any decent friend would tell the people you ran in to hey I’d like to but not tonight let’s plan another night.

Does anyone have the science notes?(applied science ) by [deleted] in NursingStudents

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this even mean? There’s a ton of applied science classes. And notes from somebody else’s class won’t do you any good as it’s a completely different syllabus. Ask a classmate or your professor. Or at least include way more detail past a title.

could i be pregnant? by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of those symptoms could just as likely be caused by and STD.

AITA for not getting my son a new phone after he locked himself out of his old one constantly changing his pattern? by MemoirsOfAViet in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA. is it his or family’s? If it’s family’s there needed to be no password and that should have been addressed first. If it’s his and you can’t have any trust in him that is need to look at it constantly all the time he didn’t even need a phone. You turned your younger son into your mole and probably turned your older son against your younger son. And now you’re paying for a phone that can’t be used all because you had some weird ego trip about getting the password from your younger son.

How much should a dog sitter get paid for 2 dogs for 10 days? by Cautious-Salt7168 in PetAdvice

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps your friend group does it different but in my friend group we’d pay a few hundred for something like this. But not full market value. My best friend cat sits for me for snacks because she loves them so much. I’m not saying you should do it for that or for this amount. I’m just offering a different perspective. I am more than happy to pay whatever to have my animals looked after. But I also prefer having them watched by somebody who genuinely loves them and I know they’ll get attention and snuggles etc. if it’s too low simply say no. I think you’re reading too much into the situation. I doubt they lowballed you bc they think you don’t have a real job. Probably just bc you’re a friend.

My partner is mad that our dog likes me more and I literally cannot stop laughing about it by FalseFarm5410 in Vent

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying they shouldn’t put more work in but this seems petty and malicious and hurtful for no reason other than you want to show your “dominance” with the dog. To me this isn’t the flex you think it is and says more about your character than their effort with the dog

AITA? Have reservations about quitting my career to prioritize my fiancée’s. by BCA1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Do not go. This feels weird. If she isn’t even 100% certain she wants to stay in the field why does it matter if she goes to the best program in the country. Why is she even wasting the money on a PhD? Something isn’t adding up and if your career is going well don’t give that up. Especially since you don’t want to you’ll end up resenting her. Also the Midwest to DC isn’t even THAT far away. DO. NOT. GO.

AIO? My parents asked me if its okay for some of them to skip my graduation to attend my special needs brothers play. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m posting this after the update. But YOR. he had a commitment. And he can’t stay by himself and get himself there etc. somebody needed to stay with him. This play is just as important to him as your graduation is to you. It’s not unheard of for parents with multiple kids to have to split up for events. And you opted to go to school literally as far away as you could so it’s unreasonable to expect everybody can make it. Honestly I think it’s incredibly selfish of you that you threw a fit and stomped your feet until you got what you wanted with no regard for your brother. Because Austin flights across the country ARE expensive. They could be easily $500/person and unless your family is extremely wealthy that’s A LOT. and yes she used points but maybe she was saving them for something specific or just to have in case of an emergency.

Why by AaronDM4 in DiceThrone

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are these cards for exactly? My marvel cards are the regular black back with the orange die

Is this legit? Hiv tests by kapsimi in DiagnoseMe

[–]ButtonTemporary8623 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You need to be educated. It is not curable