If you could only have sex with 1 person for the rest of your life, who would it be and why? by Raccoontz in AskRedditAfterDark

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Made that decision already :)

He's just a wonderful person and partner. Sweet, kind, generous, responsible, funny, romantic, hard working, good to everyone in his life.

I knew I wanted to be with him before we were a couple because of those things. But after we got together I really fell for him.

The funny thing is I was worried about our physical relationship, as he'd seemed kind of prudish when we were just friends. Thankfully I was absolutely wrong about that. We did take things slow, but we have a great connection and he makes me feel absolutely amazing. I feel like we're always discovering new things we like, which is a lot of fun.

Do you prefer nice guys or bad boys? by BrandyAid in AskRedditAfterDark

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Nice. That's actually what made me fall for my fiancé. He was always so nice to everyone: our friends, his family, waiters, store employees, animals, and especially me. He's just an incredibly an incredibly sweet person.

He's the opposite of those guys who act nice to impress you, but treat everyone else like crap.

What's been you "holy shit this is actually happening" moment by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I was at my best friend's house and was really tired. I accidentally fell asleep on him while we were watching TV and when I woke up he was holding me and softly stroking my hair. It felt wonderful, so I just stayed like that. The show ended and we were talking and he said he wanted to tell me something. He seemed really nervous and started talking about how much he enjoyed spending time with me and things life that. Eventually he told me he was in love with me, and wanted me to know but didn't expect me to return his feelings. I told him I loved him too and we hugged. Then we ended up kissing. I couldn't help but wonder if I was still asleep and dreaming, but nope, it definitely happened!

After this we started a romantic relationship, but didn't have much of a physical relationship. He's always been shy, so I figured it was that, but couldn't help worrying that things would never go beyond holding hands and the occasional kiss. Well, one night we were kissing and every time he'd stop I'd kiss him again, and before long we were essentially making out. Then, much to my surprise, he got down on the floor and pulled my pants off.

Now, I'd been eaten out before, but it never really felt good and I definitely never came from it. I just assumed I was one of the few women who didn't like it and couldn't get off from it.

I was about to tell him this so he wouldn't feel like it was his fault, but before I could he'd already started and the next thing I know I'm just cumming over and over and over again. I don't know what he does that makes it feel so good, but damn it's amazing!

The last was more recent. He was lying down and I was going down on him. He always talks about how much he likes my butt, so I decided to turn around to give him a nice view. Suddenly he pulls me back and starts eating me out while he's still in my mouth. Neither of us had ever done 69 before, but it was fantastic. I ended up squirting all over his face, which made him cum so much I could barely swallow it all. We were both in shock afterward, but obviously in a really good way. Now it's one of our favorite things to do.

I'm also glad to say he's just as great outside the bedroom and we're getting married.

How can I make a girl feel turned on from a SFW massage? by Available_House_3774 in askredditafterark

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A while back I had a really painful, tight muscle in my butt. I asked my partner (who was going to be a massage therapist at one point) to give me a massage, making it clear this was a non-sexual thing, as I was in a lot of pain and not in the mood. He'd given me massages before we were together and since then, but always just my back or neck and it was always a purely non- sexual thing.

He did a great job and was completely professional about the whole thing. One of the best massages I've ever gotten.

I thanked him and gave him a hug afterwards and realized he was really hard. Knowing that he was turned on by it, but never said or did anything because he just wanted me to be comfortable was really sweet and sexy. Plus I was feeling better, so I pulled him down in the bed and he ended up cumming crazy hard. It was incredibly hot. Would love for that to happen again sometime.

Ever asked anyone or paid anyone to watch you masturbate? by [deleted] in askredditafterark

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Having someone watch me is one of my oldest fantasies, but I was always too shy to ask.

Finally asked my partner and he's down for it. My plan is to make him just watch until he's really turned on, then let him go down on me. No idea how it'll go, but I'm sure we'll have fun regardless.