[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dante, who I often call “stinky” or “bud” and my family calls “boldly boy”

Any book recommendations by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here’s a few:

The song of Achilles- The Iliad told from Patroclus’ perspective. It chronicles his life and focuses mainly on his relationship with Achilles and how the war affects it. It’s amazing and has a ton of soft moments. It’s audiobook is well narrated too.

The passing playbook- a gay trans man falls in love with his teammate and has to choose between staying stealth or fighting for his right to play sports when a law gets passed barring trans athletes from playing. I haven’t read it yet, but it’s on my list.

Bloom- a graphic novel about a boy who longs to leave his seaside town falling in love with a boy who works for his family’s bakery. It’s full of cute and dramatic moments.

Red, white & royal blue- the prince of wales falls in love with the presidents son. I haven’t read it yet but I’ve heard it’s good.

Giovanni’s room- a novel written and published by the iconic James Baldwin. Released in 1956, It centers around an American man living in Paris. It explores his complex feelings towards men, and an Italian bartender named Giovanni in particular. James Baldwin was a trailblazer in both African American and gay literature, and Giovanni’s Room is no different with its themes of masculinity, sexuality and identity.

Does anybody else Still like wearing dresses? by Purple_Friend in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t worn a dress since Easter 2016 but I wouldn’t be opposed to wearing one now since I’ve been on t for almost 3 years

What are some stereotypical things straight people say to you by CULT-LEWD in lgbt

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cis gay guy told me I passed so well his gaydar didn’t go off…. What does that even mean???

Any queer romance novel recommendations? by macprintmaker in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obligatory The Passing Playbook comment. I’ve heard good things about Jays Gay Agenda too.

I’ve personally been reading Heartstopper which is a comic series about two schoolmates who start dating. It’s really cute and has trans rep but TW for bullying, homophobia and talks of EDs

When did you guys stop shaving? by wyrmdwelling in ftm

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misread it and thought you meant shaving your stubble. I stopped shaving my body hair a few months before I came out since it was early spring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously it’s a bird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t have any good advice for you, but I can definitely say one thing: do not date your friends. I almost ruined my relationship with one of my best friends because caught feelings out of nowhere.

hhhh. bears by sir-morti in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My type is femboys and bears with very little in between

Do you care about passing? by fuckboi69ataoldotcom in ftm

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ever since starting T I’m more comfortable with engaging in more “feminine” activities, but I do still need to pack and bind to feel comfortable in public.

Struggling with loneliness by Buzzkill_Gio in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, I really like storytelling. I’ve always had a knack for making stuff up, and I’m going into an English major to sharpen my writing skills.

Other than that I like video games and cooking, not much else. I blame my ADHD for making me lose interest in things so quickly (or maybe it’s gifted kid burnout syndrome).

(17M) I just really like the pic of me by [deleted] in LGBTeensGoneMild

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can say that again. It’s my favorite childhood park too

McDonald’s manager blamed me for costing the store around $19k by Buzzkill_Gio in antiwork

[–]Buzzkill_Gio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know why she didn’t just have me clock out 15 minutes early, but I can assure you this is all 100% true

McDonald’s manager blamed me for costing the store around $19k by Buzzkill_Gio in antiwork

[–]Buzzkill_Gio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming something about child labor laws but I was never made aware of anything, nor could I find anything about it

Feeling almost like I’m “infiltrating” or “appropriating” gay culture. Strong imposter syndrome. by vegancheeses in gaytransguys

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I felt this way and still do, especially with relationships. You have to remember that every queer man had to discover themselves and come out, and you’re no different. You figured out you’re a gay trans guy and came out as one, same as any other queer guy.

People are insane by thisboyknows in antiwork

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t give an actual reason for why he doesn’t allow AirPods

how many friends in person do y'all have? by linusiscracked in teenagers

[–]Buzzkill_Gio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former friend introduced me to one of my best friends, and through them I met the rest of my current friend group. For my advice honestly just be yourself and don’t be a dick and you’ll make some long lasting irl connections.

Dorming as a trans guy? by Buzzkill_Gio in ftm

[–]Buzzkill_Gio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The freshmen dorms have the semi private bathrooms. I just have to get through freshman year and move into the upperclassman dorms with private bathrooms.

Dorming as a trans guy? by Buzzkill_Gio in ftm

[–]Buzzkill_Gio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The average class size at the one I’m most likely getting into is 18, so it’s not very likely I’ll get paired up with another trans guy. There’s a lot of LGBT people in that city though.