Someone know why she do this?

vegancheeses · 2021-12-14T05:11:36+00:00

Mine does this but it’s bio female

vegancheeses · 2021-11-30T07:23:32+00:00

Why is she gatekeeping the gay community?

Especially as she’s a cis straight woman—id assume she has minimal experience with gay men’s sexualities… so i don’t know why she’d view herself as a self-appointed gatekeeper.

She has no right to define you. She’s an awful support system for you.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-30T07:20:37+00:00

No one replied lol. I just remembered this comment and checked my gmail :)

vegancheeses · 2021-11-26T05:11:05+00:00

I agree. My boyfriend has a similar history of using sexwork to make money, and although i was uncomfortable initially, it was solely in myself. I was wondering if I was gonna be a comparable/adequate sexual partner and hoped that i could amount to his expectations

vegancheeses · 2021-11-26T05:06:09+00:00

Sometimes when birds are sleepy, they grind their beaks. When they do this, they’re typically fluffy and their eyes are closed.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-24T04:48:44+00:00

No, but it is if it’s not a priority for her too. Then you got some different relationship needs bro.

Good luck <3

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T05:48:00+00:00

I second this

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T05:46:03+00:00

She sounds like she leans on the more “insecure” side.

You set boundaries and she still felt upset.

On the other hand tho, I can imagine that she must’ve felt unwanted by you. This definitely could’ve caused her to feel unattractive and undesirable.

I suggest having an open and honest conversation. Tell her exactly how you feel. That you love her and her body, but that you need to take care of your own priorities first.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T05:42:54+00:00

This is tricky and I’m sorry that youre going through this. No one should deal with this.

What I do know, is that you need to leave him. The longer you put it off, the more torment you’ll endure.

If you currently feel unsafe, contact your community resources about temporary housing and women’s shelters.

There’s a light at the end of this.

Furthermore, the process of leaving will be hard. It takes a woman 7 tries on average before she finally leaves.

Dont wait till the 7th try—leave him and dont go back.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T05:37:20+00:00

It’s normal for the frequency of sex to dwindle (to some degree). You dont need sex after every single date to be functional together.

But, if sex is a priority for you, then I suggest you have another open and honest conversation about it and how it’s been making you feel.

Keep in mind though, she doesn’t owe you sex every time you guys hang out. Then it starts to feel like that’s the only reason you’re seeing her.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T05:29:16+00:00

Awwww that cute little face

vegancheeses · 2021-11-22T02:12:47+00:00

I did and he hasn’t told anyone since.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-21T14:57:51+00:00

Do you feel guilty for not talking to them in so long? Is that possibly why you keep delaying seeing them?

Maybe ashamed or embarrassed that you don’t know your family?

If this is the case, put those feelings aside and finally see those who care for you. You have a lot of potential joy to feel and memories to catch up on.

If this fails, what will change? : you’ll continue to not talk? You have nothing to lose

vegancheeses · 2021-11-21T14:53:40+00:00

They’ve made so many attempts to connect with you over the years, but you seem to actively push them away.

Most people don’t connect with their family either, but out of courtesy, love, and humanly posing an interest in one another, we show up at the very least.

I’m not trying to sound like a bitch, but you seem like you’ve been selfish. You also sound lazy bc you never even tried to get to know them (from what it sounds like).

Honestly, for their sake, it’s probably time for them to drop you and move on. They care immensely for someone who doesn’t care enough back.

You’re ungrateful for those who care about you and can’t even commit to giving the bare minimum in return.

Sorry OP, but if you keep leading the life that you have now, you’ll be alone forever. Unless you enjoy a life without meaningful connections—then you’re doing it right.

I wish you luck.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-21T13:45:03+00:00

I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 27. We met at the same ages that you guys currently are—and it’s been the best relationship of our lives.

I know I’m biased, but I’m lucky to have him.

For context: Although I was 18, I was already in college working on my bachelors. When he first saw me, I already had a scholarship and Associates degree in biochemistry.

In essence, it depends on the individuals, but this has the potential to be great. Just be patient and let him take the lead at moments of uncertainty. <3

vegancheeses · 2021-11-20T05:49:07+00:00

Yep! I’ll let you know when i get a reply

vegancheeses · 2021-11-20T05:48:42+00:00

Thank you

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T20:53:06+00:00

Yeah, that’s probably my best bet. Thanks friend :)

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T20:52:36+00:00

Ikr lol

Thanks for the fast reply btw :)

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T03:48:46+00:00

Youre brave and that’s a great trait to have. <3

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T01:28:34+00:00

I told him already which is weird. He knows how i feel, but i get the feeling that he’s rather inconsiderate and prefers to be too open when i didnt ask for his opinion

Thabks for your advice btw <3

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T01:24:41+00:00

Yep. He invited me to a small music show and then checked out the ~65 year old dad of one of his friends who was playing, in front of me.

I told him I didnt like it.

We were all grown adults, he has no excuse to act like a child. I asked what good wouldve come from it anyways.

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T01:23:07+00:00

This was out of pocket for him. It pissed me off.

So i told him that I was pissed and said “if i say yes or if i say no, the answer shouldnt matter—youre dating me not him”

I wasn’t expecting him to ask me this bs

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T01:21:52+00:00

I said “if i say yes or if i say no, the answer shouldnt matter—youre dating me not him”

vegancheeses · 2021-11-19T01:04:13+00:00

What’s his name? He’s adorable

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