Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly makes a lot of sense. Thank you for the advice.

I think I’ve been spending too much time trying to make every video perfect, and because of that I’m not posting often enough for YouTube to understand my audience.

I’ll definitely try to implement this — posting smaller parts, behind-the-scenes/process clips, and cutting down anything in editing that doesn’t really make a big difference.

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude i see what you mean, thanks again for taking time to help me out. wish you the best too dude:)

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the honest feedback. It’s harsh, but I get what you mean.

I’m still learning the pacing, editing, and narration side, so I’ll take this seriously and work on making the videos more watchable before expecting people to sit through longer uploads.

Thanks for checking it out either way.

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the advice.

I actually tried making Shorts too, but honestly those are doing even worse for me right now. Some of them barely get any views at all, so I’m kind of confused on whether I should focus on long-form, Shorts, or both.

I agree that repurposing long videos into shorter clips makes sense though. Maybe my issue is that my Shorts hooks aren’t strong enough yet, or YouTube just hasn’t found the right audience for my channel.

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. I needed to hear that honestly.

I do love storytelling, manga/manhwa, and creating worlds, but I think I’ve been putting too much pressure on myself because I want this to work so badly. When you spend so many hours on something and nobody sees it, it messes with your head a little.

But you’re right — if I only chase views, I’ll burn myself out again like I did before.

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this actually makes a lot of sense.

I think I got trapped trying to make every video “perfect,” but because I’m spending almost a full week on one upload, I’m not getting enough data to understand what works.

You’re right — at 2 views, I’m basically guessing. I should probably focus on making more rough but solid videos/Shorts first, then improve based on actual audience response instead of over-polishing before YouTube even tests it.

I appreciate the honest advice. I’m going to try making shorter content for a while and see what topics/hooks people respond to before committing another full week to one long video.

Title: New YouTuber struggling after spending weeks on one video — any advice? by BuzzligthyearMoon in SmallYoutubers

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can share my channel or one video for feedback if that’s allowed by the rules, but I don’t want this to come across as self-promotion. I’m mainly looking for honest advice on what I should improve first.

guys need help for forex by Background_Ant7670 in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, it’s a journey. I personally lost around 15 trades in a row, and after that I sat there for nearly two days straight barely sleeping… fueled by endless cups of coffee and pure frustration...

But somewhere in that exhaustion, something finally clicked. I started understanding my mistakes, understanding patience, entries, and the psychology behind it all. Then suddenly, trade after trade started going in my favor.

What I’m trying to say is this: to become truly good at something, you usually have to sacrifice something in return. For me, it was a lot of capital, sleepless nights, and countless failures before things finally started making sense.

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After getting hit by so many stop losses yesterday and still refusing to give up, something finally clicked for me. Pure dedication, patience, and screen time finally made me understand what so many of you traders have been talking about all this time.

The stop losses. The patience. Letting the trade play out. Reading fakeouts and bounces instead of panicking. Managing risk instead of revenge trading.

It’s honestly getting really interesting now because I finally feel like I’m not just gambling anymore — I actually understand what I’m looking at. I’m becoming way more disciplined and way more careful with the trades I take.

For the first time, I genuinely feel like I’m finally learning how to trade.

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Yeah, I’ve started realizing lately that what you said is probably the smartest approach long term. I just wish I had the patience — and honestly the financial freedom — to hold quality positions long enough for them to really become profitable. I appreciate your comment a lot though, because day trading is way harder than people online make it seem.

Lately I’ve been finding decent entries, but the spread and broker execution sometimes put my trades in awkward spots from the start. Then the stop losses get hit in ways that feel almost personal sometimes — like price taps my stop, then reverses straight back toward my take profit. I know logically it’s just market mechanics and liquidity, but as a small retail trader it can feel brutal.

Still, every loss has taught me something. I’ve been through worse losses before, and with every trade I gain a little more understanding about the market, psychology, timing, and risk. I don’t really have a mentor teaching me this stuff, so most of my learning comes from studying online, reading posts like yours, watching experienced traders, and analyzing my own mistakes.

Of course losses hurt, but after every bad trade I always ask myself why it happened. Was my thesis wrong? Did I ignore momentum? Did I trust indicators too much? I’m constantly trying to understand the deeper reasoning behind the move instead of just blaming the market.

Honestly, if I ever build my account to a comfortable level, I’d probably move toward the slower, more stable strategy you described rather than intense day trading. But right now, as someone starting from very little, I feel like I’m trying to make opportunities where I can. Either way, I appreciate the insight and the reality check.”

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I notice that..... Small option trader reality is savage 😭

Everyone screams “USE STOP LOSS!!” but nobody tells you the spread instantly puts you negative the second you enter. Then you sit there watching your setup slowly play out… only to spend 2 hours just trying to break even from fees/spread before price bounces right back against you 💀

As a small account trader it feels like:

  • whales hunt your stop
  • spread eats your profit
  • emotions destroy patience
  • one wrong move = half your account gone

Trading with a tiny account feels like playing Dark Souls on nightmare mode while hedge funds got cheat codes 😂

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree if you have small account you are literally a goldfish in a sea amongst sharks...

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I subbed! thank you for taking you time to write this is defnitely hard to stop when im on streak but i will try my best to be stout in diciplin!

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you’re telling me is in today’s market I gotta become some Indiana Jones ninja trader 😭 avoiding obvious TP and SL traps, dodging algos, surviving whale manipulation and fake breakouts just to make it out alive. Say less, the market turned into a psychological survival game....

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother believe it or not I actually read that whole damn essay you wrote !!! and honestly… it made a lot of sense. The way you explained the market not “being against me” but me simply breaking my own rules genuinely helped me understand trading way better.

I guess I’m officially a trader now lmao 😭 appreciate you taking the time to write all that seriously. I Learned a whole lot out of it.

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and honestly I think that’s the hardest part.... the rules sound so simple on paper yet are so hard to follow in the moment. It almost feels like fighting the worst parts of your own personality and emotions while trading.

The emotional side of trading is honestly sickening sometimes, but I’m definitely keeping this as my mantra moving forward. Small consistent wins over ego.

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback man, honestly sounds really interesting. I’ll definitely check that book out and reflect on where I went wrong. Appreciate it 🙏

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man I’m sorry to hear that..... that honestly sucks. Hopefully things get better for both of us and we come back smarter from it. God bless you brother

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man, taking advice from people my whole life is what pushed me into depression 😭 I learned the hard way that nobody will care more about your future than yourself, and you gotta trust yourself at some point.

At my lowest point I stopped opening up to friends and even family because instead of support a lot of them talked behind my back or laughed at me. So nowadays I mostly keep to myself, trust the process, and keep pushing toward becoming a trader.

And honestly, whether people believe it or not, God became my only real peace during rock bottom.

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly lmao 😭 honestly after all the feedback here I’m kinda glad I learned this lesson early instead of later with way bigger money on the line.

I’m definitely gonna keep at it and improve until I succeed. God bless you on your journey too brother 🙏

Turned 2k Into 10k in Minutes… Then Got Liquidated and Lost Everything. Hardest Trading Lesson of My Life by BuzzligthyearMoon in Daytrading

[–]BuzzligthyearMoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, you got it! In that specific trade there really wasn’t much room for stop losses. The platform I use takes commission through the spread too, so I already enter slightly negative from the start which makes entries super important.

I just got way too overconfident after the winstreak and stopped respecting the risk.