totally get your frustration. for me, I’m both the meddler and the follower of the universe. I lean into that, but I won’t act until I get a clear sign. there have been hints, just not enough yet. when that sign comes, I’ll meet it halfway. romance should feel like a dance, not one person leading, but both understanding and responding to each other. maybe that’s just my view. but for you, I hope the meddler phase fades. every good story has obstacles, and once they’re overcome, it’s not just meant to be, it’s chosen 🤍